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Early on we met a Lesbian couple that were friends of friends. At first I thought it strange that lesbians still wanted to play with men then I thought deeper and thought why wouldn’t they. The women are married, have a great marriage from what I see and are fun to be with. At a recent house party they were the life of the party, very open about their sexuality and let it be know they were there for penis. I thought they would want to play with women too and then one in a nice way said she just wanted penis and reminded me she has pussy all the time. It wasn’t a negative comment it was funny when she joked she only wanted to borrow Rocky cocky for a half hour On our way home Rocky said that both of women were some of the most fun people we have met and I had to agree.

I think someone who says “anything” has likely not given a lot of thought to what “anything” might entail. Anyone will have boundaries, even if he or she has never considered what they might be. I would do nothing that would have a chance of crossing an unstated boundary, in case this was a situation involving any level of kinky play.

It has been our experience as well. Not all the time but certainly on occasion lesbian friends explore their Bi side playing with a male. Many described themselves as emotionally and physically lesbian relationships with a occasional shared time with a male friend or those in the lifestyle sexual playtime.

Wife loves....actually encourages me to seek out handsome men for bi play....then bring them home for a 3some!

The contrast also makes being together much more interesting. Merging in love and living out animal instincts can always be refreshing, especially as a contrast especially living together in a polygamous family. In a poly family, I imagine the interaction between each other to be very varied. It certainly enlivens the relationships between each other and it never becomes less tense, as in a monogamous relationship after a while. So contrast between soft and hard and between deep love and wild expression of sexual urges offers everyone a perfect, varied interplay.

You need to ask why people marry, it’s because of love. Today you see many same sex marriages that look much happier than many conventional MF marriages. I asked two women just like the couple you met why they married and they gave me an answer I give when I was asked years ago, they were one soul. Most lesbians don’t hate men, they love a person that fulfills them.

Definitely I would start licking her butt and see where that went.

Well, to quote a famous song by the Eurythmics, "Some of them want to use you. Some of them want to be used by you". There are certainly people who take pleasure in being used for other's pleasure. As long as it's her stated desire and all is consensual - have at it!

What a missed opportunity with a real woman! How many men here would give their left nut for a wife like that?

For most lifestylers, it's on a spectrum. For us though, it's nothing as extreme as "deeply in love" or "animal sex".

Sorry, Couplers, I simply can't agree with this idea. "Who did the roses come from?" I can imagine someone asking, "If it was your husband, why didn't he include a card? Is it a special occasion?" The first thing in your (non-sexual) interactions with your swing partners is to avoid any embarrassment or outing them to vanilla people.

We grew over the years as to the why we play with others. We didn’t care who as we were not looking for friends, we were looking for excitement. Unlike the first time I had sex being nervous and young, we were now going to be a first for couples. After meeting a the first few couples where my deep feeling was to make their first experience a memorable positive experience I found deep in my gut the I had joy over being a first. Alan called it our conquest which is more important, physical less important. We evolved to enjoying companionship as well as physical satisfaction. Our swing partners are now our friends, great friends. Within our group are those that were friends before and remain closer friends. My feelings like others who post, it is safer to make new friends rather than risking losing good friends.

The only love involved for us is the love of sex. There is no intimate or loving feelings between anyone except the two of us.

We are not looking for love with others. It’s more of a friends with benefits goal for us.

I would do almost anything my wife wanted me to do. It keeps things hot and exciting. For me no anal penetration, even her finger hurts when she tries. Probably no cum from the other guy in my mouth, otherwise.