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Although David and Red can achieve multiple erections/orgasms/ejaculations in a day, they now need recovery time, which is sometimes a problem (e.g., the morning quickie) with three women, two men in our family. Fortunately, they can delay orgasming until one woman has her O, then finish with the second one of us.

Did he cum three times? If so, oh the joys of youth!

Reading all the posts makes me go Ouch My first Gangbang was being with two guys on the same night feeling trampy and sore. I had a date in HS that ended up in his bed while his parents were out for the night. I think we did it three times before I went home. Around midnight my beeper beeped from another guy I dated. No texts back then I had to call him on my bedroom phone. I made up a story to my mother about going to my good friend’s house ending up at the boy’s house. I didn’t even shower from the first guy and the second had no clue what I did before him. I can’t even think what being with a dozen partners would do to me or even think about DNA being left. Give me one great lover for a night and I am happy.

Last night we had a rather lengthy and in depth discussion about our preferences as far as the opposite sex’s parts go. The discussion was prompted by the man who my wife and I have invited into our relationship. He’s uncircumcised and has a good 2-3 inches of really thick skin hanging over his head. He’s pretty well endowed so it’s not abnormal looking but you can easily see where his head ends and skin continues. You can tell at first he was self conscious of it but we’ve never had a discussion with him about it. The discussion brought forth my wife’s preference of uncircumcised over circumcised. Never having gotten in depth about it we managed to turn it into an hour long conversation of why. She began by saying it’s like another layer needing to be peeled away prior to and during sex. I didn’t quite understand what she was getting at so she related it to something like taking a guy’s clothes off in order to reveal himself. There’s something exciting about having to remove another layer in order to have the full reveal and foreskin is no different for her. The second point she mentioned was uncircumcised guys in general have been more sensitive to touch and appear to have more intense sensation during sex. She acknowledged she was being very general but that was her experience. And lastly she said uncircumcised is just more aesthetically pleasing to her (I’m circumcised so I can understand her reluctance to mention that). I’m curious as to what others have to say on the topic. We drifted a bit into the vagina and my preference for large lips and just large everything in general. My opinion on that is strictly aesthetic and not in depth as her explanation was.

This question is only for the couples that have played bare and isn't meant to drum up a lecture on safety. Barebacking is polarizing and everyone's risk/reward is different, but the fact it is such a hot button for so many people makes me question what kind of communication people really have going into it. I was reading a post on reddit which got me thinking about my OWN communication leading into bareback play in the lifestyle which makes me realize how insufficient it's been and something to be worked on going forward. I mean, there has always been consent from our partners in the rarer time's we've engaged, but It's an awkward topic to broach... Thinking back, our first couple bare experiences were explicitly planned (including exchanging tests) but since then we've just sort of fallen into it. Our first time occurred when the wife of a married couple transitioned from giving a tremendous blow job to mounting raw when we'd never talked about condoms or boundaries. Seeing the look of surprise on my face she offered up "you said you had a vasectomy right" and kept riding me. Another example was a time when we were using condoms with a couple we are friends with and whatever lube the female half had been using was literally disintegrating my condoms after a few minutes. After changing it out maybe 3 times we just took it off the tattered rubber and it's just been assumed by both of us we are going raw since. Then there was a time when a long time play partner who I had *always* gloved with in the past was bent over in my bed as I rubbed her pussy with my dick, but avoided penetrating. when she starts pushing back against me, working me inside of her and the suddenly we're raw with no prior discussion. I start to ask "should I get a--" to which I get a "no" and we were off... Another time during a swap, a very similar scenario to above happened as I was teasing the other female when she pushed back to take me inside. We allowed ourselves to enjoy it a bit, but noting her SO is wearing a condom with my wife, I forced myself to pull out out and put on a raincoat as she playfully pouted. I haven't always been the passenger and will admit to an instance with a new couple where my condoms were 2 floors above us and the female half had been giving me head and without discussion, motioned her on top to mount me which she eagerly obliged. I've got several other examples, but you get the point---we LSers preach the importance of communication both within your core relationships and with others, but how do these situations really play out for you? I wish I could say we've always sat down and round-tabled everything but it hasn't been the case.

The most fortunate part is we enjoy the things we do. Sexually foreplay, cuddling and being next to him is the best part. Multiple times is just not relevant, quality over quantity. I am satisfied when we get time together without being rushed. We aren’t 20 and our bodies have changed , they continue to change along with our sexual needs. His refraction, my lubrication and our frequency has changed. We don’t play with others often by any standard. We have one couple, I call the husband my vacation husband. Maybe because he is like my husband, unrushed, caring , fun, smart with fabulous human qualities is the reason I give him the best I can. The very first time I was with him he kept going even after ejaculating, he kept checking on my pleasures. I cherish that first time and continue to cherish the times we meet.

What month of the year was it?

Clearly, she wanted to feel used by you; that is a common fetish couples have; it can be very hot if it is done with someone you trust. The message was she felt comfortable enough with you to give you a blank check to her body. From a female perspective, I would expect kinky dominant rough sex involving face-fuck, anal and some dirty talking. Next time, don't be shy, have in mind that your actions will not only please her but for sure will please her partner who will be thrilled to watch or being told what you did to her

It is a sexual superpower that women have that men don't - the ability to have intercourse with multiple men uninterrupted, satisfy them while having multiple orgasms herself. It is a wise husband who appreciates that.

You don't have to be sorry that you can also get romantic aspects from a gangbang. I think they definitely exist, even if I haven't been able to get anything out of such a situation so far. For me so far it was just an unromantic, mass-fucking of a woman but I think there are a lot more feelings beyond that, especially for the couple whose wife she is. Gangbang with a single woman certainly has its lovers, but for a married woman it is so much more than just a hustle and bustle of men getting off on her. It can strengthen the marriage incredibly and provide a new, much more intimate source of love for the couple, from which both can draw on their love long after, especially if she experiences the gangbang completely bareback. 3 years ago we were in a club here in Germany that also organizes such gangbang evenings as a closed event in which couples and single men take part (this number is limited) and the wives can get really fucked by the selected men and also enjoy their desire for a lot of sperm, because cum inside is not only allowed but also expressly desired. Neither of us had seen or watched anything like that before. My wife could certainly describe her feelings about this better and comment on it here maybe later. Despite the unromantic nature, it was somehow very exciting to see this happy wife and how one after the other of the 15 men fucked her harder or softer and they always squirted inside her. Of course they also loved to kiss her, which makes the whole thing very sensual. I saw my wife for the first time standing with me and with her hand between her legs while watching. 😊 What it makes so super romantic is that the husband kissed her passionately after all the men. She looked very exhausted and happy afterwards and their love bond between the two benefited greatly from it.

Since the very beginning, we both agreed on the rule of always using condoms for penetration; it took us years (about four years) of bonding with another couple to start even considering the discussion of not using condoms with them. When I say bonding, I mean not only sexually but at a personal-friendship level. The four of us discussed the option during sober moments and made the decision, and planned it accordingly, including an STD test for all. Later, perhaps a little more than a year later, we decided to include a mutual friend couple that we play regularly; the process was the same with them, but this time involving six of us. Since then, all six of us have agreed to get tested at least twice a year and share the results. We have never regretted our decision, quite the opposite, we love our “exclusive group” and the deep intimacy we share with them.

We decided before we got into swinging that we would *always* use condoms. First for birth control - she was in the early stages of menopause at the time - and for prevention of STDs. We never forgot that rule. With one very regular couple, we decided to forego that rule, but we all trusted each other not to break our rule with other people. Those that would only play bareback with us (there were a few,) just didn't play with us. Period. I'm not criticizing those who choose to play bareback, it's your life, literally. And if you start with that rule and then change it after sober talk in a non-sexual situation, that's cool. But, to me, just deciding in the heat of the moment to break the rule is a bit irresponsible.

She used to work for a guy as his personal assistant his office was in his house. I stopped by one afternoon to bring Tits her lunch she forgot. As I walked by window in kitchen and I saw them at table they were naked and fucking. Him in chair her on his lap that is when I saw Richards huge fat cock! He was very over wieght she was facing him and her huge tits in this face him sucking her 1” nipples when she stood up to turn around I saw his cock was at least 9 inches long and the size of small v8 can. I could not help myself I took out my cock and jacked off. We talked about what I saw later that night and she said she fucks him once a week.

Yes we are in 60s sooo the bod is not great but I love to watch Tits having sex esp doggie and her huge DDD tits swing back and forth and she is still beautiful and hot

We were on a lifestyle cruise and pretty new to swinging. We were in our fifties and we met a couple in their seventies who asked if we wanted to play with them. They seemed a lot older than us, but we thought if they have the courage to ask, why not. Well, we both had a very nice experience. The woman had this tantric technique that used her hands on my manhood in which she simulated entering and exiting a vagina. Fun! My wife wanted me to show her how this woman did it, but I didn’t know. The husband used some kind of glove with electrostim on my wife. She liked it. Overall, these people had their tricks and we had fun. Don’t judge a book by its cover and give people a chance. We find the men are gaga for my wife, the women so so for me, but I have lit up a few clits in my time, which has resulted in a reevaluation by the females brave enough to give me a chance. We find the credo of give people a chance has served us well.

Agreed, "have fun while you can." That said (and I’ve posted previously here on the board about this) a few years ago, when I was in my mid-60s, I played with a couple who were in their mid-80s. It was a new experience for me, playing with people whose bodies were so old, but they were game and it was enjoyable. I later was told by a mutual lifestyle acquaintance that they had been swinging since before that was a term. And that on their night they had staged a post-nuptials orgy — around the year I was born! (As an aside, due to my involvement with the lifestyle I’ve had sex with five women on their wedding nights, only three of whom were my wives…😉😊)

I tried it before just to experience how it feels. After the experience, just like Couplers, I felt empowered that I was able to try what others would just love to fantasize about. The experience was great from an hedonistic point of view - that is when I turned-off all logical and moral filters for a brief moment in time. Afterwards aside from being worn out and dead tired, there was guilt (I'm not saying it was absolutely wrong because everything was consensual) but it was like all the philosophers I read about were debating with me inside my head on the nature of being human, of pleasure, or of the purpose of human sexuality. Then there was a bit of worry if I caught some bugs from my partners during the process I call it a "mini-gb" and wrote about it at some prior post. I feel 3 guys all at one time are just enough for my experiment as it is difficult to organize a larger group that I would consider 'safe' for my psyche. Small group but not dull at all. It was somewhat similar to the experience of "willyoats" in a prior post from this thread: It was my last gb but later on I tried to beat my own record to have tried 4 partners on a date, separately but successively in one day. At least it is at par with Coupler's record, though not all at the same time.

Mixed emotions after the first one. I was with a previous boyfriend and it was really all about him. We belonged to a nudist club that was very vanilla all day and then completely hedonistic at night. He enjoyed showing me off during the day and introducing me around. I was 24 and definitely got attention. My first involved 8 guys of mixed ages. It started out as a card game with me serving drinks naked. My boyfriend asked how I would feel about letting a couple of them touch me. I was horny as hell from being naked all day so Inwas all in. I sat on the couch and they took turns feeling my tits and rubbing my pussy. Eventually one guy started giving me oral and i was in heaven. As I leaned back a guy started jerking his cock by my face to I took him in my mouth. Another guy added his big cock to the mix and soon I was sucking three cocks. I knew what was next so i got on all fours so they would have easy access to my open pussy. As i concentrated on sucking their cocks I could feel them taking turns sliding their cocks in me. They would pump me hard for. minute or two and then switch. It was crazy, i didn’t look at them I could just feel their cocks in me. A couple of them were bigger than what I was used to - I loves they way they felt. After I had my first orgasm, I could hear them as they moaned and I stared to feel their cum landing on my ass and on my back. One guy was seated so I got on top of him so I could face the other waiting guys. Another guy got in front and worked his cock inside me as well. I was wet and loose at this point so I easily took both of their cocks inside me. I was sucking cocks and taking loads of cum on my face and in my mouth. I was so taken with all the guys and the whole experience that I wasn’t sure where my boyfriend was or if he was even there. Afterwards I felt pretty weird coming back. It definitely rocked my world but it didn’t happen again until I was married. I liked being used and I definitely loved being the center of attention - still do. 8 is bit much, but three or four fun guys is perfect for the occasional slutty workout at this point in my life and relationship.

70 isn't that old. tongue in cheekLast year, I was evilly seduced by an older woman who refused to tell me her age until I satisfied her depraved lusts. As I lay gasping beside her, drained from our earlier activity, she told me that she was 82 years old and said that I was the best partner who she'd had that year.tongue removed from cheek In all seriousness, I thought that she was about 60 years old and I still let her lead me into a bedroom for playtime, so (if you're fit enough to keep up the pace) I don't see any reason why you'd let your age stop you from entering the lifestyle. Like the old saying goes, "You're as young as the people you feel."