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Hey Newcoupleontheblock! Welcome! You're in the right place! So there's a bit to untangle here. First, I agree that if you start out with a condom and it slips off, that out of consideration you should be getting another condom on before continuing. I certainly would do that. In the very least, if I thought of continuing without a condom, I would ask the lady in question how she wanted to proceed. On the other hand, the other couple was told "no boundaries". This could have been interpreted as no condoms being ok. Still, if you start with condoms, you end with condoms unless otherwise told. Second, yeah it was likely a mistake to shift gears into overdrive in the middle of things when you expected it to be a no-swap night. Usually (not always, but usually) it's a bad idea to do that. Feelings can get hurt, misunderstandings happen, and undermining of trust can start being a problem even when it's not intentional. Next time, I recommend you set out the boundaries for the evening before getting to a club or meeting a couple. Don't change the boundaries for the evening. If you're in the lifestyle long enough, the boundaries usually evaporate so down the road it's not an issue. Right now it is (and that's ok) so don't flex them without being removed from the situation. That's my advice. Third, I would caution you about reacting to this situation based on things that have happened in your past. I know we are products of our experiences. But, it isn't fair to your partner to judge what she's done based on how another woman from your past acted. There's no possible way she can stay clear of all potential problems based on what was inflicted on you in the past. Love her, explain to her, and tell her you don't judge her on that and know that you're going to react emotionally but that you're working to make that the past, and not the now. Whether or not this couple is in the past is hard to judge. Only you (and your partner) can judge that. But, if you had a good time with them, that's a treasure to have. It'd be interesting to hear their perspective (though of course we can't know). It's great that you otherwise had a great time! It's just that boundaries got smashed and expectations not met. Don't treat this as a massive boulder that smashed into your car. It's a bump in the road. Take some time to digest, talk with your partner, build love and move on.

https://www.nytimes.com/2024/02/26/travel/nude-spas-saunas-europe.html Once again, simple nude recreation and relaxation is featured in the NY Times. While not quite mainstream--it still attracts reporting--it's no longer taboo and has become somewhat ordinary.

Absolutely. It has been awhile since I ran numbers like this (maybe the Vegas tables before I was banned) but somewhere around .0003%. Getting struck by lightning falls somewhere around .006%.

Common beginner's mistake right there. One one hand, you're new to the LS so you haven't had the experience yet to outline your likes and dislikes while pregaming. On the other hand, if the other couple knew you were both newbies they should have proceeded cautiously - despite lacking a list of boundaries. Live and learn. It's always a good idea to pregame a little before diving in. The pregame should include boundaries (as I'm sure your next one will) but it should also include the things you like, as well as any mutually agreed upon fantasies you would like to fulfill.

This is just my experience, but I find that smaller breast women are easier for me to get aroused by sucking and playing with their nipples. One woman in particular would soak her panties while playing with her small breasts. I would choose a small breast woman over one with implants any time.

Think you should buy lottery tickets. Statistics say the US has 2.4 million swingers, men making up half 1.2 million. Of those men .6% or 6 in 1000 are 9”. 1% have 8” For some perspective, an erect penis of 6.3 inches falls into the 95 percentileTrusted Source, according to 2014 research, meaning that only 5 out of 100 people would have a penis longer than 6.3 inches. I’m not a statistician, what are the odds of an 8”, 7” and over 6” group of swingers are fucking the same woman on any day? FanDual says that parlay will make you a rich man.

You don't persuade in swinging. If that's what she wants to do, that's what she wants to do.

If there are no swinger clubs near you, you might be able to find a couple will to do same room sex with you as a way to dip your toes in the pool.

My wife, Amy enjoys swinging with jiust one guy. She started with him about 8 years ago and set me up with his wife to be able to have him as her personal toyboy. On Saturday we have a 3 couple sswap planned. Amy says it's a Gangbang and just wants to go off to a separate room and have sex with her favotire partner. I expect the other girls are looking forward to sex with all three guys. I'm looking forward to having tbree adventures. Advice please. How do I persuade Amy to play with all tbree men. What are the typical rules for a 3 couples swap?

Reading this is hilarious. What's the saying...the camera adds 10 pounds. Well, the internet adds 3 inches. I definitely won't be hiring any of the men out here to do any precision carpentry work as the measurements will be way off. Look up the real studies of size (length and girth) and you'll be surprised twice over...(1) what the real average size is and (2) how every guy lies by at least an inch.

Thank you. Yeah, anal and particularly DP were a big part of what Red and David did to "use" Shan in front of Joe. Interesting, before playing with us, Joe and Shannon never had anal together, and Joe never did it at all. Shannon had anal and DPs before she met Joe, but never discussed it with him. It added more excitement when they did. First time, Joe went in Lora's bum while Red was in Shan's. Hell yeah to both! The one right after the other. I enjoy the other goings-on as well (e.g., Red fucking Shan; Clair and Joe) and mixing in.

Have you ever met a couple where you were more sexually compatible with the other spouse, and your spouse was more compatible with the others spouse. My husband and I love each other but we have alternate preferences in the bedroom. My husband is a lover, he likes taking his time with it, lots of kissing and oral and then he likes to grind deep inside me till we both cum, then he enjoys cuddling. Its extremely intimate and passionate and intense. I like it rough, really rough, I like to get pounded, pull my hair, maybe choke me a little, call me a slut. I like it rough and dirty. Its also passionate but in a different way, its about need not love, and it is intensly satisfying to me. I can't really call it making love, its more just getting fucked. I like that, a lot. Now James and I enjoy time with each other but its either he gives me what I want or I give him what he want. A few years back two of our best friends inquired about our swapping experience after a get together at their house. Over several bottles of wine we discussed it, James and I went to bed in their guest room as we had drank to much, they stayed up talking. About 2 in the morning I got up to pee, and Julie and Adam were still up, Julie asked me if we would consider swapping with them. I went in and talked to James and we decided we would. Physically we are opposites Julie is adorable and has a very tight body, and Adam is a fitness instructor and very ripped and pretty muscular. I am curvy and soft, skinny in the middle but a D cup with a Serious booty and thick thighs, my husband is muscular but leaner than Adam and not chisled. After we decided yes, I came back out and took Julies hand and took her in to leave her with my husband then I took of my shirt and walked out to grab Adam in all my naked glory, and I took him to bed. Sexually Adam is aggressive which is usually my role with my husband, so it is a nice change of pace to be chased. To my delight Adam was packing and likes it rough, which is my jam, but Julie is smaller than me at 4 foot nothing so he often has to be careful of hurting her. Since I am sturdier I can take more, a lot more, after we got started and I realized he liked harder sex , I started prompting him, I told him to fuck me harder a few times, I told him to pull my hair, I put his hands around my throat and pulled his weight on me, and told him to call me a slut and other naughty names quite a few times. Once he realized the rules were different than his normal he really brought it, and I very happily took every deliciously mouthwatering inch of it. To say it was a good night for me was an understatement. Once we found our groove Adam fucked me like he had been fucking me for a decade and knew all my kinks. I orgasmed several times and spent a good amount of time with my face buried in the bed and my ass in the air as he hammered away at my insides. Afterwards my legs were so wobbly I couldn't stand. I was a happy girl. In the morning, I went into the bathroom and Julie was there getting ready to take a shower, she told me to stay, so I asked her how it went and she smiled shyly and said it was really really good, she was hoping Adam and I had as much fun. I assured her I had and since I had drained Adam three times I felt safe in saying he had ample fun. She looked at me in shock, you took him 3 times? He is too rough with me for that, I smiled and explained I like it rougher, I actually made him go harder. She looked at me and said there is a harder? My vagina hurts just thinking about that. I replied well I am guessing that you enjoyed my husband's softer touch. She smiled, and said she really did. She told me last night was intensly passionate and I needed that. She mentioned she had multiple orgasms with my husband and he had cum several times also. We've been friends for a long time. So she knew I was bisexual, and I always felt she seemed curious, but I do not like to push those kinds of things as I'd never ruin our friendship. She asked if not having any girl time ruined it for me. I laughed and said no, I got what I wanted last night. It's not a must have type thing, I am the queen of taking cock. If girl time happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't, but if she wanted to make it up to me I'd be happy to oblige. She laughed, and commented on how much more aggressive I was than her. She mentioned sh might like trying kissing but was nervous. I pulled her into the shower and we made out a little in the steamy hot water. It was sexy. Afterwards on the drive home I talked to my husband and he said Julie was so passionate he had loved every minute of it. That was three years ago and we have had many such nights with Adam and Julie, in March they were selling their home and needed an apartment for a couple months, we let them stay with us, then Covid happened. In PA the real estate market was not considered essential and put on hold, then their deal fell through so they have stayed with us in our guest room. Over this time living together we have melded into a more Polyamorous relationship. Julie loves to cuddle as does my husband, but Adam and I are not cuddles and were more likely to slap someone's ass to show affection. So Julie and James have a solid routine, and Adam and I have a solid routine. We still all have sex with our spouses but we both find deep satisfaction with each other. Have any of you run into this type of poly relationship? I've talked to my husband and we kinda feel it will be sad when they find a new place and we were considering asking if they'd like to find a bigger place with us and we could expand this relationship to a more permanent thing, more defined.

First, I'm surprised there are no responses to this post. My wife and I had a very special connection with another couple. We met Cathy and John during the time we attended child birth classes. We were both pregnant with our first child. We would meet them weekly over several months and became close. They were our same age and lived nearby as well. On weekends John and I would play golf while our wives would spend time together at one of our houses. We typically would return home and all four of us would either cook dinner together or go out to eat. Eventually the wives gave birth about a week apart and we had two beautiful children. We began spending even more time together as we all were involved in the infant child care. All four of us became very close. In fact, Cathey often referred to me as her 'other husband'. It was no secret that both John and I were physically attracted to each other’s spouse. My wife is short and petite while Cathy was a large woman. She had beautiful blue eyes and a gorgeous smile. She also had huge breast. She was actually a bit taller than her husband John. While short, John had an incredible fit body, very muscular and handsome as well. I’m was opposite of John, standing well over six feet but thin. On day John and I returned to his house where our two wives had started dinner and had been drinking a bit. We joined in and were all having a good time. Following dinner, we were seated on the couch with Cathy seated next to me. She started saying how my wife had told her I was a very good kisser and said she wanted to see for herself. Next thing I know, she is kissing me and pressing her boobs against me. I was embarrassed at first but could see my wife and John seated across from us were enjoying what was going on. They then begin kissing as well. As we are making out, Cathy reaches into my pants and is holding my erect dick. Cathy then says to my wife …. You need to see what John is packing. “John show her your cock. He then proceeds to pull down his pants and out springs his huge cock. I was shocked at his size. Cathy then begins pulling my pants down and kneels in front of me and starts giving me head. I looked over and could see that my wife was mesmerized by John’s large penis. It was as if she was examining a rare gemstone. Suddenly Cathy stands up and takes be by the hand and announces that ‘we’re going to give you two some alone time’ and leads me down the hallway to a bedroom. She proceeds to remove her clothes revealing the most gorgeous large boobs I’ve ever seen. I had never been with a large woman like her and was almost paralyzed by her wide hips and large bottom. She went back to giving me oral sex and I realized she could take all of me by deepthroating which I had never experienced before. I could feel I was going to come so I asked her to stop. She then laid next to me as I climbed on top of her with her legs sped apart. Entering her felt very different than my wife. She was extremely wet and I slid in effortlessly. I don’t think I lasted more than twenty seconds before exploding in her. The next thing I remember is my wife shanking me and saying we have to go. It was nearly one in the morning. The next morning, we compared notes. My wife said she really enjoyed making love with John and unless I objected, she said we should continue. She admitted after me prodding her that she had climaxed several times with John and that he was terrific in bed. Well, the four of us enjoyed some extremely sexy times for the next several years. Unfortunately, John received a promotion and he and Cathy moved out of state.

You're a freak of nature! I just measured the circumference of a beer can (Micelob Ultra) and it's seven inches around. Would a woman want to be penetrated by something almost as big around as a beer can?