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I had to look up what a nyotaimori girl is. Fascinating

Yep, Before I met my wife, I was briefly part of a poly triad of sorts. I was the third. When my wife and I got together and we shared our histories, she didn't like this part. She felt the woman in question was breaking her wedding vows, and I had contributed to it. This was not accusatory; just discussion. I noted that I was friends with the husband, he was perfectly aware of what was going on and in agreement with it. While yes, what they were doing was violating their vows, their agreement together as a couple had changed, and the vows were not the same. Discussing this may have planted a seed of thought though. ~9 years later we had our first swing experience together as a couple, largely brought on by her curiosity.

Ah, yes, the old back-of-the-mouth trick. 😂I was in grad school and on my second date with my (second) wife she didn’t get out of her panties but asked if I wanted to cum in her mouth. I did! And she was very good at sucking cock. Indeed, she sucked me off a second time in the middle of the night. Beginning on our third date we did all the forms of MF sex, including anal, which she’d not done previously but was curious about. (She liked it. A lot.) And she continued to give me really good head. Several months later I was going to be having supervision on some clinical cases with an adjunct faculty member. My now hot and heavy girlfriend said "I think you should know that one time (before we were dating) I gave him a blow-job." I wasn’t sure I needed to know that, but okay… By way of further explanation she said she’d gotten into a casual sexual situation with him but didn’t want to fuck him. Kinda like our second date, I thought to myself, though I didn’t say anything. I’m doing my best to recall a conversation from 40+ years ago; this is how I best recall it. "When I’m not prepared to fuck a guy I just duck him off. It’s easy. When I sense he’s getting ready to cum I just make sure the head of his cock is in the back of my mouth and I try not to let him pull back. He cums and it just goes down my throat like snot when you have a cold." That conversation kinda took some of the "special" out of my memory from our second date…😉😂

ABSOLUTELY! I spend a lot of time away from my husband and I participate in hotwifing. Where I have sex with other men and tell my husband about my adventures later. I have never seen a club curtail the number of single women in an establishment. And if you're bi and open to MFF style threesomes you are considered a unicorn. Which are highly sought out.

David, whether Amy prefers you or her friend’s husband, she wants to fuck both of you and she’s not interested in a third. Based on that I’d describe the two as being in a closed ENM relationship. (I know there are folks on this board who restrict the term "swinging" to MFMF play, but clearly the contributors to discussions here are engaged in a quite wide range of ENM activities and interests. More power to us all.)

For me, the taste is fine and I like to both feel the ejaculation and taste it in my mouth. Guys like it when a woman rolls it around in her mouth and then makes a big deal of swallowing, which I do. And I like to snowball it with another woman. My preference, however, is to eat cum fresh out of a pussy. While having intercourse with a man. The real FFM experience.

Yes, but some people do love the taste of cum...

Yes, another reason (besides not struggling to get out of the monogamy rut) that starting young is better. A lifestyle story that I find to be romantic, rather than about sex. Thanks for sharing.

I'm frankly astonished that he would pretty much ignore you for an hour after she left. That's mind boggling to me. But, I don't know much about the situation or circumstance. What is clear to me is that communication HAS to improve. Further, if he can't respect your boundaries, then there shouldn't be any risking of those boundaries; i.e. stop swinging until he's capable of remembering. Maybe that's never. I don't know.

I'm not sure what kind of guy would take a raincheck on a FMF to do some baking. Pretty sure the baking can be done tomorrow. What is it they say about how many times opportunity comes a knockin? 🤔

Ok, here it goes so follow me. It doesn't matter if the fuckee is female or male but get this person nude and lay them on their back across the bed not length wise. Prep them with foreplay however you want or they need. Once your cock is hard take their feet and put them on your shoulders with their knees bent and place your hard cock on the butthole , not inside. Now the man standing should do nothing but concentrating on her clitoris or his cock. As you are getting them aroused with the tip of your cock on their butthole they will naturally wiggle and work that cock as deep as they want and with their feet on your shoulders they control the pace and depth of the anal intercourse. Remember as the man, all you do is concentrate on the clitoris or penis and the bottom person will control the pace of the sex. Ever since I have been taught this, it is the only way I have anal sex, women who have had bad anal experiences love this because they are in control. I will give you a bonus tip this same woman gave me. Have you ever had a woman that wouldn't swallow because the didn't like the taste of cum? This woman told me that they don't know how to suck cock correctly, they suck the head and let the cum land on their tongue, which she said is incorrect, she said the correct way is to suck the cock as deep as you can and let the cum hit the back of their throat not the tongue which has the taste buds.

When should a man be upset with his girl for setting up a spontaneous 3sum? The answer is never. When should a man take a 3sum with his girl for granted and have a blasé attitude toward it? Again, the answer is never. If I'm honest your boyfriend sounds thoughtless, self-absorbed and immature. And that's coming from a person who usually pushes the forgive and forget approach to Lifestyle angst here. He fails to appreciate the incredibly rare and special situation he has with you. Maybe tell him if he can't appreciate what he with you, and follow a basic set of predefined rules, you will find a man who can. And trust me, starting over in the LS with a new, willing partner will be a lot easier for you than it will be for him.

Not exactly. We had both been to nude beaches a couple of times before we met. Back then my wife worked here and there as a nude art model - which even led to a gig as a nyotaimori girl for private parties. So she was accustomed to being nude around people, even people picking sushi off her (mostly) nude body... but that was it. I'm not sure it would have worked as well if one or the other of us had former experience and the other didn't bc we always considered the LS an adventure we were on together. Every first time for one was also a first time for the other. It somehow felt more special that way. I'm also grateful we got into it young bc your libidos are different when you're young and we were open to all sorts of experiences - some of which we would not be as open to later in life.

...but if he does know and has giving his permission, you become a unicorn and will pretty much have your pick of who you want to swing with.

If your hubby is aware and on board -yes you can swing on your own - called ‘hot wife’. If he is not aware, not on board there is a different word for that… And, yes clubs welcome unaccompanied women with open arms. The clubs are not concerned with your marital status.

I do enjoy a good glory hole, I like not knowing who the dick belongs to. I did a glory hole at a bachelor party in my early 20s. They set it up out by the pool, it was a box I was paid to get in it for the night and take care of the cock that showed up. It was insanely hot. I was in there for about 3 hours before some one begged me to come out. I was a hot mess, so I dove in the pool to get the sticky off..

Exactly.

So I said I would never do this. I was out with some friends the other night and my wife had her male friend over our house. I wasn't sure if they would play or not since things have gotten more vanilla with him lately. He was gone by the time I got home, and they did play. I was jerking off while my wife told me the details... next thing I couldn't resist and stuck in in her for sloppy seconds!!

People can become addicted to internet pornography. They then want to watch it for hours and start edging. Over time, that can lead to the person finding he can get hard but finds it almost impossible to reach organism. After all, if you have trained yourself to delay orgasm for hours while masturbating, your body gets accustomed to that. It is a very serious problem.

I prefer to go second regardless if it's my wife or his. It's not because I want him to enjoy the tighter feel. It's that after I blow my load, I lose interest in watching what they're doing. So it just gets me more excited watching them first. You're right on both counts - a sloppy cunt has hardly any friction, but the thought of her doing this sends me off quick.

We are a married couple that has been having threesomes with our male friend for close to three years now,she has always let both of us cum in her when we first started doing this she would clean after one of us came in her but now that doesn't happen anymore,she has gotten up to seven loads in her when we get together..all three of us get alone great as much fun a the sex is we enjoy joking around about it to..anyone new to this will be shy about it a first but the more you do it the more fun you will have

I persuaded my wife into not "cleaning" herself after another man came in her. She felt "messy". Yes it wasn't normal to feel that wet down there but she grew to be comfortable with it in a sexual situation. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her. It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party. I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

If you're swinging, sloppy seconds is going to happen. Why not enjoy it?

I love it

We do the "sloppy seconds" thing & I absolutely LOVE it!! My man loves fuking me right after another has finished inside of me. He tells me to stay laying down on my back until he is ready to enjoy me (normally after our company leaves). We stick with a small circle of playmates & he always screens very well for us so we play as safe as possible. I can't get enough of the way he lingers with & admires my body after getting filled by another man. I can really tell how much he enjoys it by how he takes me afterwards! I hafta admit that one major reason I enjoy being with other men is because of how great & sexy he makes me feel after! I also like to clean off my hubby's dik after he soaks it in my filled V. If we play with a female I always hope she is also okay with getting filled up because then I eat my hubby's cum out of her & clean her up as much as possible. However, we do feel like pubic hair is pretty gross & we prefer you shaved. Its cleaner in general but you can also tell if there's any visible soars or what not.

Among our closed little group, the guys certainly don't let sloppy seconds stop them and the women enjoy the mess. As to going down, the guys don't necessarily seek it out, but will do it for us if asked. We women are bi, and like licking pussy and sucking dick after two have finished.

It is definitely a different feeling, especially when her BF is thicker than me. I would do it over and over, it is freaking fantastic.