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It is above all a question of the sympathy between men which makes it very erotic or not. It wouldn't be that difficult for us, as we currently only let men we like cum in her. It's such a turn on every time she and he finish and are still cuddling, his flaccid cock slipping out, seeing the wonderful result leaking out of her pussy. It makes her pussy look so beautiful. My desire for this varies in moments like this, but sometimes I just have a huge desire to enjoy eating his cum out her pussy. Especially when the sperm is beautifully white, thick and lumpy... I shouldn't even think about it...

Not at all. My wife had made it very clear well before we were married that she had absolutely zero interest in swinging or polyamory in any shape or form. She wasn't angry with me that I had dipped my toes into this. She just didn't want to do it herself. She felt it was wrong, and even though I pointed out that the couple's vows had changed, she still felt it was wrong. I didn't pursue it. At all. I was quite happy being monogamous with her. The thought of participating in non-monogamy again hadn't crossed my mind. So, seven years into being married one night she mentions that it would be fun to have two men massaging her at once. She looooves massage! This started a discussion that lasted many months. After eight months, we finally dipped our toes in the pool. For me, it wasn't that I wanted her to have the same experience. It was that this was a wonderful adventure we were embarking upon together. It's been a great ride!

Petra, on more than one occasion I’ve had two women sucking me and the woman who finally gets me to orgasm snowballs the other. In a regular MF situation I’ve had my partner snowball me. I’m not freaked out by cum. I’ve been snowballed by a.woman with the other man’s cum. And I have no hesitation about eating a woman who had just had me or another man ejaculate in her pussy. The taste of a mix of female and male juices I generally find quite pleasant.

OK, I'll admit one of my fantasies is to eat my wife's pussy after another man has cum inside of her. I also wouldn't mind eating a cum filled pussy other than my wife's. I have had this fantasy for years, but have never had the chance to do it, mostly because my wife doesn't want me to and secondly because I haven't done it before and I have the "First Time Factor" syndrome....I guess I am a little reserved. I've asked my wife several times in the past before we play with another to let me come over after he has cum inside her and have me clean her up. She knows I want to suck her cum filled pussy. I've even considered eating her pussy after I cum in her, and a few times have come close but she gently pushes my head away. A few times I have brought myself just to climax then held back and cum a little in and on her pussy without her knowing and then went down on her and sucked her. So, how many people here, men and women like to have their pussies eaten after being fucked and like to eat cum filled pussies? I don't think I'm too weird. Maybe I am. I wish my wife would let me do it. I did have the opportunity once to suck my cum out of the female partner of a couple we were playing with, but I sort of chickened out....I think because it was all my cum. However I am sure if it was another man's cum I would have went right down and sucked her clean. What's others experiences? Yes or No? Good or Bad?

When the lifestyle is done properly, the fun is both having sex with other people yourself and watching the love of your life do the same.

Two men, yes. :) The first dip into the pool took us past that step, yes. Our very first venture was just meeting another couple in the lifestyle. Nothing happened, it was just a conversation as we had lots of questions and they were happy to talk. The second dip was to a swingers club.

I really love sloppy seconds very much and when it happens we both enjoy this particularly intense intimacy. There is simply nothing more beautiful in a relationship than when you open up as a man and see the sperm of your fellow players as a special benefit. Although I am a normal heterosexual man, the sex we enjoy as a couple with other men has given me a very sensual, beautiful love for their sperm. We always enjoy it with some male friends as a special gift to my girlfriend. For me it is always an uplifting, heavenly feeling to penetrate my girlfriend after him and we enjoy this connection through his semen even without much sexual activity. The almost loving way his semen surrounds my cock and I bathe in it is simply an unbelievably great heavenly pleasure 💓

David, whether Amy prefers you or her friend’s husband, she wants to fuck both of you and she’s not interested in a third. Based on that I’d describe the two as being in a closed ENM relationship. (I know there are folks on this board who restrict the term "swinging" to MFMF play, but clearly the contributors to discussions here are engaged in a quite wide range of ENM activities and interests. More power to us all.)

For me, the taste is fine and I like to both feel the ejaculation and taste it in my mouth. Guys like it when a woman rolls it around in her mouth and then makes a big deal of swallowing, which I do. And I like to snowball it with another woman. My preference, however, is to eat cum fresh out of a pussy. While having intercourse with a man. The real FFM experience.

Yes, but some people do love the taste of cum...

For us in our poly family, where we wanted each woman to have (and have had) a child with both men, conceiving the second child was sexually limiting. That meant not only no p-in-v sex with the guy you didn't want to get pregnant with, but also no ejaculatory sex with him at all so as to save it for her who was trying to conceive with him. So some making out, oral, then go finish in her. We wanted to go through our pregnancies together, so first time it was Clair and me, then all three of us, finally Clair and Lora. (Clair has three, Lora and I, two.)

I like the idea too, my wife loves the idea! I think its so hot, but after i cum deep in her, i lose that urge to be kinky and freaky. But one time, we had sex a few times in one day and i filled her up each time. So she wanted me to lick it up, i hesitated so she kinda forced me too! that was hot and now my fetish! being kinda forced into it.

Over the many decades I’ve been sexually active I’ve had plenty of really exciting sex in a wide variety of modalities. But by far the hottest sex — in a category of its own — was purposeful procreative sex with my wives. Nothing else matched that for excitement and satisfaction. When my current wife and I were trying to get pregnant we discussed how frequently we should have sex to maximize the chances of conception. I consulted with a close friend who was a professor of large animal reproduction at a vet school. As he noted, humans are biologically just another species of large mammal. "Cover her as frequently as circumstances permit," was his advice. Even though we were both working long hours at demanding jobs we still made it a point to have sex in the morning when we woke up and when we retired for the night. The weekends were just an extended fuckfest till we got sore. The sex was just so hot.

I'm a woman on bc, but in the moment the thought of becoming pregnant excites me. For me, cum is not just a white blob, it's all those individual sperm swimming in me, competing with the sperm of other men, looking for the prize. The most sexually satisfying time of my life was when Clair became pregnant with my husband David's child and I decided to get pregnant as well. I went "pot luck" with both my husband and Red, my boyfriend, knowing that I wanted children with each. For those several months, each time was purposeful and thrilling.

I eagerly swallow if a guy cums in my mouth, but still much prefer that he cums in my pussy. Two reasons. The feel of his ejaculation adds to my orgasmic pleasure. Second, the knowledge that even after I've totally cleaned up down there, a small living part of him (along with that of another man, sometimes two) is still swimming deep inside me and will be (albeit fruitlessly) for several days, searching for the prize. Except for times when I've been away from home for an extended time, that has continuously been the case, ever since I started having p-in-v sex. Cum to me isn't just a white blob, it is a living collection of a man's half of sex, which I am hosting inside me. I find that thrilling and satisfying.

My wife doesn’t like to swallow. She prefers that I cum in her. I tell her when I’m ready, and she will pull down on my balls. That fricken makes me cum hard and deep. She likes me to leave my penis in her for a minute or two. Once I start getting soft, she puts her underwear on. She likes the feeling of leaving it her overnight.

I think cumming into partners mouth ( Including my wife, Rose) is one of the most erotic things to experience and to watch... I have had many erotic memories of other women and my wife swallowing cum and sharing the cum with other wives and making a mess with it

My wife would do both, she would swallow and also share with a kiss or open her mouth and let cum drip from her mouth down her chin and onto her tits. she loved playing a cum slut and making a mess with cum...

We've tried many fetishes over the years, but cuckoldry is the one that stuck.

A woman wearing her wedding ring while playing with someone other than her husband 🥵

I oh so Agree! YUUUMMMM! I love kissing him and cannot get enough of this. Never, ever gets old

Wife here. I too get extremely wet from seeing hubby with cum in his mouth, as well as cleaning me up and swallowing it all. I have two committed bulls, and the best is when hubby takes two mixed loads from them. OMG! I'm getting excited just writing this. It never gets old, as he loves doing it to please me. My hubby is the best!

Daniela and I have the attitude that we don't care what we do with other play partners, just tell the other one of us about it. We both love to tell about our past and current experiences and hear about the other's. I never thought that I would be like this, but I am proud of my wife's sexual exploits with other men and women.

Hmm, I suppose the wife and I have a couple. I've always had an attraction towards women's armpits. Sometimes, shaved, sometimes stubbly, sometimes with a bit of hair--sexy ones always caught my attention and has been something I've been able to indulge a bit in the LS with some play partners who were goodly enough not to stop me from taking a whiff or lick while we're in the heat of it. The wife likes to tease me about it, but has come around to understanding its just 'one of my things.' I also tend to be drawn to rimming. I've licked the asses of almost every woman I've been with in the lifestyle and virtually all of them have loved it with some very eagerly kissing me immediately after/in between. The wife and I both share a fascination with cum. She loves creampies and really enjoys, but is self conscious about, sloppy seconds, both of which I love as well. I guess my wife's big kink is probably DVP. While it's always enjoyable, especially raw, we had one single male we'd synch perfectly with and end with a 3 way orgasm/double creampie. That was the best.

I also love cum, but I don't get nearly enough of it, being a guy in a mostly vanilla relationship. When viewing porn, I'm always looking for, or skipping forward to, the cum shots. I love internal cumshots/creampies too! I love to kiss my wife after she's gotten me off in her mouth, and I love to lick her pussy after I've unloaded in her. Our combined juices are just heavenly! Swallowing is optional. In fact I would rather share my cum with her, even though she has always been a swallower. I only wish that at 62, I could still produce the amount of cum that I had as a young man. I also love taking the cum directly from a man's cock into my mouth, but that's a very rare treat these days.

For me is cum; I love to taste it, swallow it, rub it on me, you name it, I always have; cum play has been a thing for me even before entering the lifestyle. When I feel sexually attracted to a man, I feel the urgency of “testing him” While I suck a dick, I always try to squeeze as much pre-cum as possible and wonder how his actual cum may taste and feel, a huge turn-on for me. I also love a nice and messy creampie in me, but we play condomless exclusively with our closest friends, which are only two couples, so I have had the privilege of being filled by 3 different men including my husband.

Mmmmmmmm I love it too!!! Love sharing cum kisses too!!😈😈😈😈

I considered myself straight until I got up the courage after two years to let hubby play with other women (my friends of my choosing) after him letting me to keep my boyfriend. The times i got to watch, I had the same urge as you and went down on her to reclaim his cum. Now I'm as much Lesbian as straight.

Hubby has a vasectomy. He got it when we started in the lifestyle. I was on the pill when we first started but my doctor raised the danger of stroke so I am not taking any birth control any longer. Hubby doesn't;'t need to wear a condom but he still does. I wish we could play bareback, the feeling of closeness is incomparable, but I can't so he chooses not to. The few times we played with a unicorn friend of ours bareback I encouraged him to cum in her so I could lick his cum out of her. It was one way we could all feel bonded and closer.

We have always played it safe when at a club. Sure it is a big fantasy for me to see a guy cum inside my wife without a condom, but we have decided that it is too risky. We were still new to the lifestyle scene when we hooked up with our first couple. We had been with one other guy before this so not a whole lot of experience. To shorten the story, he was busy with my wife and me with his. I kissed her and went down on her where as he did not bother much with foreplay with my wife and just plunged right in. Anyway, licking away at his wife, she was really wet and had a very sexy scent. I didn't think about it much at the time and just carried on until she had an orgasm. Later on wife and I were chatting about our experiences. I told her how wet the other girl, we suspect that they might have had sex before joining up with us. So I was likely unknowingly eating my first creampie. It should be revolting, but somehow, when I think back on it, I get turned on by the whole thing. They both would have known that I was licking his juices from her. I suppose it might be a part of their kink or fantasy. Cuckolding me by fucking my wife while I am eating his cum out of his wife.

We have played at a club a few times. Always using condoms. The husband was quite a bit bigger than me. And he did not take much time on foreplay before entering my wife and just going for it. I prefer taking my time, kissing was allowed with his wife so we made out for a while before I went down on her via the nipples first. This was the first time i have ever been with another woman. So a bit different than my wife. As I was licking her, I found her pussy quite soft and mushy and very wet. And an interesting scent which kind of turned me on. Anyway later thinking about it. I suspect that they may have had a session before hooking up with us? And possibly the husband came in her. I am not sure what the etiquette is in swingers scenes when you are with your wife. Should you condomize? Assuming other partners would be using condoms and therefore non the wiser? Unless like me they decide to go down on her? Is it usual for a guy to go down on the other woman at a club? Probably a dumb idea std wise, thinking in retrospect. But I was new and horny and didn't think it was a problem.

I understand what you’re trying to say but this reclaiming sex is just silly and doesn’t make sense to me. To reclaim something because you lost something or something was taken away from you and if your wife is having sex with somebody and you are OK with it if she is OK with it, she is giving it to him and it is not being taken away so how can you reclaim something it wasn’t taken away. Example if your car is stolen, You reclaim Once it is found because it was taken without your permission. But if you give the keys to your car to a friend and he gives it back to you, you are not reclaiming it. It is just give them back to you. That’s why every time when I see that reclaiming sex thing that everyone says it is almost like a oxymoron or fallacy that you are reclaiming something that Was stolen or forcibly taken away from you

As hubby explained it to me, nonmonogamy is natural so likewise is sloppy seconds

My first threesome I got the sloppy second. I was in high school and lucky to fuck any girl. My buddy just fucked her, cum still dripping out, I went right in and added my cum.

We both love it. Been playing with one couple for years now. That said there have been moments where the other women feels left out. My wife is a cum slut..hehe, she hates that name but so true. Sex isn’t sex to her unless she’s gets filled up. Communication is the key and we work to respect everyone’s feelings.

We only play without condoms with our closest friends, and yes I have enjoyed when sloppy seconds happens, Regardless, condomless sex with me is always a mess, it seems I cannot retain much cum inside me. The only downside: more than one guy cum inside me -> I do not why but I feel my pussy smells funny the next day no matter how good I clean myself.

Boyfriend loves it sloppy and I do too

She's out there, you just need to seek her out. You could look on swingers' sites, but my recommendation is just to date in real life and when after the first couple of dates the conversation turns to sex (don't push it too early but don't wait too long), let her know that you will be monogamous but you do not demand monogamy from a partner - even a future wife - and it would make you happy for her to play around on her terms. Many or maybe most won't consider the idea, but definitely a few will and will love you and be happy for it.

We formed our group among married swinging couples who we met through the traditional ways and became friends. We shared the common desire to be uninhibited in the way we engage in activities, including playing alone and playing bareback. We got together and all pledged not to play outside of the group even with condoms, pretty much upon penalty of death. If you want to play outside the group, you can leave, no questions asked, no recriminations. No one has left thus far. We were all tested twice, and have free from the usual worries of swinging. You might think that the temptation is there, but with the quantity and variety of sex available to each one of us, the temptation is less than for a monogamous vanilla couple.

I love it like more than words can say. Makes me so damn horny, I would love to have a girlfriend or wife that did it all the time. Let me know. I want a woman that tells me what to do. I want seconds so bad.

Truth. 1 on 1 sex is usually over once everyone has one orgasm. But MFM is like tag-teaming with the men able to cum multiple times - and thus the woman as well. I definitely have much faster recovery when I see my wife take her turn with the other man.

Interesting experiment, and a plausible conclusion. One small detail. Your introductory paragraph reported the researchers had used “real vaginas”. I believe you may have misread or miswritten. .”.. a variety of dildos, artificial vaginas, and a homemade semen recipe...” That noted, it might have been a more fun experiment with real vaginas. ??

We haven’t gotten to that point yet but it is something I really want to try. I don’t want to eat it but I do want my wife filled with multiple loads and over flowing while I slide it in and have very vigorous sex with her. The thought sound very hot to me. My fantasy is to start her off lay the first load and then let 2 to 3 other guys load her up and for me to finish the night off. But until we have a group of people we really trust which is hard to come by and we are fixed that’s just going to stay in the spank bank for now.

Love sloppy seconds. The last time we played was a bareback MFM and we each came inside my wife twice. It was heavenly.

So its my body and I decide who cums where outside of my husband. But if I fuck a guy and he comes and there is no getting him back to hard, if I'm not done, someone is getting sloppy seconds.

My guy would never think about doing it, I would rather enjoy it.

Oh my..... It's one of my biggest fantasy, just the idea to clean the filled pussy of my fucked sweet wife turne me on and make me so hard. I wish to do that very soon. Also I have this damn fantasy to lick the cock of the man who just came in my wife's pussy, I don't think I'm bi, but I just have this fantasy

You are not alone! As a Swinger Wann be, I have never had the pleasure of eating another man's creampie out of my wife, but I'd love to! I have eaten my own on many occasions, but it is hard because my desire to eat my own pie goes down when the post-cum blues hits. It usually works best if my wife "makes" me do it. Hopefully one day I will be able to experience a pie that is not of my own making.

mine and my hubby's fave...we both do it ..of course only with our long time couples who are like wise married. My man loves to eat his own or someone elses ..it is all the same to him...hot and erotic... facelick

Hi all! As a single male, I am going to put in my 2 cents worth here. If I were to be invited by a couple to have an encounter with them and they had a no kissing rule, I would have to decline. I can see it if it were about the men kissing, as many guys are uncomfortable about kissing a man, but not about the sex, but not to be able to kiss a lady I am with would be too much like using her. I couldn't do that to any woman even in a swinging kind of situation. It just feels wrong. Then again, the reason I like to be with couples is the intimacy and, to me, kissing goes hand-in-hand with the intimate part of the experience.