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It is above all a question of the sympathy between men which makes it very erotic or not. It wouldn't be that difficult for us, as we currently only let men we like cum in her. It's such a turn on every time she and he finish and are still cuddling, his flaccid cock slipping out, seeing the wonderful result leaking out of her pussy. It makes her pussy look so beautiful. My desire for this varies in moments like this, but sometimes I just have a huge desire to enjoy eating his cum out her pussy. Especially when the sperm is beautifully white, thick and lumpy... I shouldn't even think about it...

Not at all. My wife had made it very clear well before we were married that she had absolutely zero interest in swinging or polyamory in any shape or form. She wasn't angry with me that I had dipped my toes into this. She just didn't want to do it herself. She felt it was wrong, and even though I pointed out that the couple's vows had changed, she still felt it was wrong. I didn't pursue it. At all. I was quite happy being monogamous with her. The thought of participating in non-monogamy again hadn't crossed my mind. So, seven years into being married one night she mentions that it would be fun to have two men massaging her at once. She looooves massage! This started a discussion that lasted many months. After eight months, we finally dipped our toes in the pool. For me, it wasn't that I wanted her to have the same experience. It was that this was a wonderful adventure we were embarking upon together. It's been a great ride!

Petra, on more than one occasion I’ve had two women sucking me and the woman who finally gets me to orgasm snowballs the other. In a regular MF situation I’ve had my partner snowball me. I’m not freaked out by cum. I’ve been snowballed by a.woman with the other man’s cum. And I have no hesitation about eating a woman who had just had me or another man ejaculate in her pussy. The taste of a mix of female and male juices I generally find quite pleasant.

OK, I'll admit one of my fantasies is to eat my wife's pussy after another man has cum inside of her. I also wouldn't mind eating a cum filled pussy other than my wife's. I have had this fantasy for years, but have never had the chance to do it, mostly because my wife doesn't want me to and secondly because I haven't done it before and I have the "First Time Factor" syndrome....I guess I am a little reserved. I've asked my wife several times in the past before we play with another to let me come over after he has cum inside her and have me clean her up. She knows I want to suck her cum filled pussy. I've even considered eating her pussy after I cum in her, and a few times have come close but she gently pushes my head away. A few times I have brought myself just to climax then held back and cum a little in and on her pussy without her knowing and then went down on her and sucked her. So, how many people here, men and women like to have their pussies eaten after being fucked and like to eat cum filled pussies? I don't think I'm too weird. Maybe I am. I wish my wife would let me do it. I did have the opportunity once to suck my cum out of the female partner of a couple we were playing with, but I sort of chickened out....I think because it was all my cum. However I am sure if it was another man's cum I would have went right down and sucked her clean. What's others experiences? Yes or No? Good or Bad?

Two men, yes. :) The first dip into the pool took us past that step, yes. Our very first venture was just meeting another couple in the lifestyle. Nothing happened, it was just a conversation as we had lots of questions and they were happy to talk. The second dip was to a swingers club.

I really love sloppy seconds very much and when it happens we both enjoy this particularly intense intimacy. There is simply nothing more beautiful in a relationship than when you open up as a man and see the sperm of your fellow players as a special benefit. Although I am a normal heterosexual man, the sex we enjoy as a couple with other men has given me a very sensual, beautiful love for their sperm. We always enjoy it with some male friends as a special gift to my girlfriend. For me it is always an uplifting, heavenly feeling to penetrate my girlfriend after him and we enjoy this connection through his semen even without much sexual activity. The almost loving way his semen surrounds my cock and I bathe in it is simply an unbelievably great heavenly pleasure 💓

Petra, my reaction to seeing him later is hypothetical. After that initial brief supervision experience our paths never crossed again. (A year later I changed professions.) Regarding my supervision experience with him, 45 years later I don’t recall whether he was helpful in developing my clinical skills or not. And I don’t recall having any thoughts about my girlfriend having sucked him off before she and I met. But I’m guessing I would have been thinking that like my first date with her, he thought he was getting something special, when she was just blowing him so she didn’t have to fuck him. Which I was at that point she was doing with me every evening and many mornings. On the other hand (as I’ve posted on this site previously) I was transfixed and super turned on watching my first wife jerk off one of our friends in our first (and only) soft-swing situation. And when she told me she’d been fucking one of her med-school classmates that also made me super turned on. I was kinda disappointed that they had discussed bringing his wife and me into things, but then didn’t. If she hadn’t already broken off the relationship when she told me about it I’d have been totally amenable to getting a full-on four-way going.

For me, the taste is fine and I like to both feel the ejaculation and taste it in my mouth. Guys like it when a woman rolls it around in her mouth and then makes a big deal of swallowing, which I do. And I like to snowball it with another woman. My preference, however, is to eat cum fresh out of a pussy. While having intercourse with a man. The real FFM experience.

If there are no swinger clubs near you, you might be able to find a couple will to do same room sex with you as a way to dip your toes in the pool.

And I didn’t know who the father was until baby was born. It was touching how both men love all the children regardless of paternity.

For us in our poly family, where we wanted each woman to have (and have had) a child with both men, conceiving the second child was sexually limiting. That meant not only no p-in-v sex with the guy you didn't want to get pregnant with, but also no ejaculatory sex with him at all so as to save it for her who was trying to conceive with him. So some making out, oral, then go finish in her. We wanted to go through our pregnancies together, so first time it was Clair and me, then all three of us, finally Clair and Lora. (Clair has three, Lora and I, two.)

Over the many decades I’ve been sexually active I’ve had plenty of really exciting sex in a wide variety of modalities. But by far the hottest sex — in a category of its own — was purposeful procreative sex with my wives. Nothing else matched that for excitement and satisfaction. When my current wife and I were trying to get pregnant we discussed how frequently we should have sex to maximize the chances of conception. I consulted with a close friend who was a professor of large animal reproduction at a vet school. As he noted, humans are biologically just another species of large mammal. "Cover her as frequently as circumstances permit," was his advice. Even though we were both working long hours at demanding jobs we still made it a point to have sex in the morning when we woke up and when we retired for the night. The weekends were just an extended fuckfest till we got sore. The sex was just so hot.

I'm a woman on bc, but in the moment the thought of becoming pregnant excites me. For me, cum is not just a white blob, it's all those individual sperm swimming in me, competing with the sperm of other men, looking for the prize. The most sexually satisfying time of my life was when Clair became pregnant with my husband David's child and I decided to get pregnant as well. I went "pot luck" with both my husband and Red, my boyfriend, knowing that I wanted children with each. For those several months, each time was purposeful and thrilling.

My wife doesn’t like to swallow. She prefers that I cum in her. I tell her when I’m ready, and she will pull down on my balls. That fricken makes me cum hard and deep. She likes me to leave my penis in her for a minute or two. Once I start getting soft, she puts her underwear on. She likes the feeling of leaving it her overnight.

I think cumming into partners mouth ( Including my wife, Rose) is one of the most erotic things to experience and to watch... I have had many erotic memories of other women and my wife swallowing cum and sharing the cum with other wives and making a mess with it

My wife would do both, she would swallow and also share with a kiss or open her mouth and let cum drip from her mouth down her chin and onto her tits. she loved playing a cum slut and making a mess with cum...

We've tried many fetishes over the years, but cuckoldry is the one that stuck.

A woman wearing her wedding ring while playing with someone other than her husband 🥵

They all had a good time. Nothing unusual to report, just swapping and threesomes. Probably boring for those here that go to clubs and house parties. It was exciting for us opening up our poly family to some outside play, and for Joe and Shannon to have their second lifestyle experience after their visit with us. It was clear that there is high mutual interest between Joe/Shan and Red/Lora. What I found really interesting is how these two experiences with Joe and Shan have brought Red and Lora together. Previously, I saw Red as my lover, someone who I had brought into my marriage to David, while Lora and David were two "primaries" in our family. Red and Lora cared for one another, were sex partners, Lora has a child by Red. Now, however, they seem to have a deeper relationship, are a "couple." They do things together, just the two of them. Funny what playing can do.

Hmm, I suppose the wife and I have a couple. I've always had an attraction towards women's armpits. Sometimes, shaved, sometimes stubbly, sometimes with a bit of hair--sexy ones always caught my attention and has been something I've been able to indulge a bit in the LS with some play partners who were goodly enough not to stop me from taking a whiff or lick while we're in the heat of it. The wife likes to tease me about it, but has come around to understanding its just 'one of my things.' I also tend to be drawn to rimming. I've licked the asses of almost every woman I've been with in the lifestyle and virtually all of them have loved it with some very eagerly kissing me immediately after/in between. The wife and I both share a fascination with cum. She loves creampies and really enjoys, but is self conscious about, sloppy seconds, both of which I love as well. I guess my wife's big kink is probably DVP. While it's always enjoyable, especially raw, we had one single male we'd synch perfectly with and end with a 3 way orgasm/double creampie. That was the best.

I also love cum, but I don't get nearly enough of it, being a guy in a mostly vanilla relationship. When viewing porn, I'm always looking for, or skipping forward to, the cum shots. I love internal cumshots/creampies too! I love to kiss my wife after she's gotten me off in her mouth, and I love to lick her pussy after I've unloaded in her. Our combined juices are just heavenly! Swallowing is optional. In fact I would rather share my cum with her, even though she has always been a swallower. I only wish that at 62, I could still produce the amount of cum that I had as a young man. I also love taking the cum directly from a man's cock into my mouth, but that's a very rare treat these days.

For me is cum; I love to taste it, swallow it, rub it on me, you name it, I always have; cum play has been a thing for me even before entering the lifestyle. When I feel sexually attracted to a man, I feel the urgency of “testing him” While I suck a dick, I always try to squeeze as much pre-cum as possible and wonder how his actual cum may taste and feel, a huge turn-on for me. I also love a nice and messy creampie in me, but we play condomless exclusively with our closest friends, which are only two couples, so I have had the privilege of being filled by 3 different men including my husband.

Yuummmmyyyyy! A man with a mouth full of cum and pussy juice is a true man indeed to me!

I agree, I have seen this in other women when they saw my cum for their first time. First they jump because they are startled by how it squirts out, then they have to touch the cum, and last is if they are curious enough, they taste it. It's like I am not there, they are only focused on my cock and cum!

I considered myself straight until I got up the courage after two years to let hubby play with other women (my friends of my choosing) after him letting me to keep my boyfriend. The times i got to watch, I had the same urge as you and went down on her to reclaim his cum. Now I'm as much Lesbian as straight.

Sounds like you two are a perfect match. How is your relationship otherwise? There are so many posters here struggling, seeking advice on "opening up our marriage." If you both are in agreement at the beginning of your relationship (as hubby, my boyfriend, and I were) the path is much easier and full of fun.

My feelings about my wife as well. To other men Daniela's nonmonogamy was a deal breaker, for me it is a wonderful character trait. Yet she is fiercely loyal to me and our daughter. Other men have missed the best part of her.

We have played at a club a few times. Always using condoms. The husband was quite a bit bigger than me. And he did not take much time on foreplay before entering my wife and just going for it. I prefer taking my time, kissing was allowed with his wife so we made out for a while before I went down on her via the nipples first. This was the first time i have ever been with another woman. So a bit different than my wife. As I was licking her, I found her pussy quite soft and mushy and very wet. And an interesting scent which kind of turned me on. Anyway later thinking about it. I suspect that they may have had a session before hooking up with us? And possibly the husband came in her. I am not sure what the etiquette is in swingers scenes when you are with your wife. Should you condomize? Assuming other partners would be using condoms and therefore non the wiser? Unless like me they decide to go down on her? Is it usual for a guy to go down on the other woman at a club? Probably a dumb idea std wise, thinking in retrospect. But I was new and horny and didn't think it was a problem.

I understand what you’re trying to say but this reclaiming sex is just silly and doesn’t make sense to me. To reclaim something because you lost something or something was taken away from you and if your wife is having sex with somebody and you are OK with it if she is OK with it, she is giving it to him and it is not being taken away so how can you reclaim something it wasn’t taken away. Example if your car is stolen, You reclaim Once it is found because it was taken without your permission. But if you give the keys to your car to a friend and he gives it back to you, you are not reclaiming it. It is just give them back to you. That’s why every time when I see that reclaiming sex thing that everyone says it is almost like a oxymoron or fallacy that you are reclaiming something that Was stolen or forcibly taken away from you

Although I haven't done such thing but would love sloppy 2nd in general since my wife admitted she feel more pleasure to take another cock with some cum inside her pussy.

We only play without condoms with our closest friends, and yes I have enjoyed when sloppy seconds happens, Regardless, condomless sex with me is always a mess, it seems I cannot retain much cum inside me. The only downside: more than one guy cum inside me -> I do not why but I feel my pussy smells funny the next day no matter how good I clean myself.

Boyfriend loves it sloppy and I do too

Wife always had other man cum inside her first, then me. After the first time, I was sold. She is dry, his cock was really fat. After he had ground into her, the dry friction of the intercourse had made the inside of her vagina red hot. When it was my turn, I couldn't believe the sensation my cock felt to the heat. Then there was the slickness of her vaginal walls, that was covered with slime. That was the first time, I just slid in that easily. Needless to say I came in her in less than a minute. Sloppy seconds are the best.

We formed our group among married swinging couples who we met through the traditional ways and became friends. We shared the common desire to be uninhibited in the way we engage in activities, including playing alone and playing bareback. We got together and all pledged not to play outside of the group even with condoms, pretty much upon penalty of death. If you want to play outside the group, you can leave, no questions asked, no recriminations. No one has left thus far. We were all tested twice, and have free from the usual worries of swinging. You might think that the temptation is there, but with the quantity and variety of sex available to each one of us, the temptation is less than for a monogamous vanilla couple.

I hope that we came find a group or make a group around here where we live.

You will like it. We husbands in our group agree - there is nothing like reclaiming your wife after she has enjoyed an afternoon or evening of sex with other men who have ejaculated inside her vagina. One recommendation to try is not to go first (or even fuck another woman or jerk off), but let the unbearable excitement build as she fucks another guy or two or three (up to her, for Daniela it depends how fast they are). I like couples swaps, but the MMFs where he goes first are also special.

I love it like more than words can say. Makes me so damn horny, I would love to have a girlfriend or wife that did it all the time. Let me know. I want a woman that tells me what to do. I want seconds so bad.

Truth. 1 on 1 sex is usually over once everyone has one orgasm. But MFM is like tag-teaming with the men able to cum multiple times - and thus the woman as well. I definitely have much faster recovery when I see my wife take her turn with the other man.

Interesting experiment, and a plausible conclusion. One small detail. Your introductory paragraph reported the researchers had used “real vaginas”. I believe you may have misread or miswritten. .”.. a variety of dildos, artificial vaginas, and a homemade semen recipe...” That noted, it might have been a more fun experiment with real vaginas. ??

I would always enjoy seeing other men’s cumming running down inside of her thighs. I never was into cleanup but I sure like the feeling of other men’s cum in her as I pushed in.

My wife and i have been swingers for 10 yrs plus. She is what u call a hotwife. A true slut. She fucks lots of men and i love it. Nothing turns me more than to watch her walk in the room with her short skirt on knowing she just fucked a guy and seeing his cum drip down her legs. I get so hard so fast i can't help but fuck her before it drips all out. I also love to eat another man's cum out of her as well. Point is.. There are a lot more men that like this then i think will admit to.

To echo 2quirky806, we haven't gone bareback with any couple yet but would like to. We just haven't established any connections where we would be relatively exclusive, to where we would go without condoms. I think the sloppy seconds thing is more the Mr's fantasy than mine. I'm not opposed at all, given the cycling condoms as the guys move around is annoying and bareback is just so much more fun. However, we are in the same boat as everyone else in terms of avoiding STIs is required. Once we establish a connection with another couple (s) where we play only within a small group (2-3 couples) we'll look into dropping the condom requirement.

We haven’t gotten to that point yet but it is something I really want to try. I don’t want to eat it but I do want my wife filled with multiple loads and over flowing while I slide it in and have very vigorous sex with her. The thought sound very hot to me. My fantasy is to start her off lay the first load and then let 2 to 3 other guys load her up and for me to finish the night off. But until we have a group of people we really trust which is hard to come by and we are fixed that’s just going to stay in the spank bank for now.

There is nothing like sliding my hard cock in a pussy that has just been filled with a guy's cum, mine or another guy's. Cum is a fantastic lube and a pussy that has just been fucked is so hot and fantastic feeling. My swing buddy liked to have two guys join us for a swing session. Some of the guys were long time special friends that we trusted to be disease free. I liked to have the last fuck of the night, especially after she had just fucked the other two and was full of their hot cum!

So its my body and I decide who cums where outside of my husband. But if I fuck a guy and he comes and there is no getting him back to hard, if I'm not done, someone is getting sloppy seconds.

Twist- It is fun. I have only done it once or twice, but both of us liked it a lot. I love creampies. Not only do I love to eat a cum filled pussy but I also love to watch the cum drip out of her.

You are not alone! As a Swinger Wann be, I have never had the pleasure of eating another man's creampie out of my wife, but I'd love to! I have eaten my own on many occasions, but it is hard because my desire to eat my own pie goes down when the post-cum blues hits. It usually works best if my wife "makes" me do it. Hopefully one day I will be able to experience a pie that is not of my own making.

mine and my hubby's fave...we both do it ..of course only with our long time couples who are like wise married. My man loves to eat his own or someone elses ..it is all the same to him...hot and erotic... facelick

Hi all! As a single male, I am going to put in my 2 cents worth here. If I were to be invited by a couple to have an encounter with them and they had a no kissing rule, I would have to decline. I can see it if it were about the men kissing, as many guys are uncomfortable about kissing a man, but not about the sex, but not to be able to kiss a lady I am with would be too much like using her. I couldn't do that to any woman even in a swinging kind of situation. It just feels wrong. Then again, the reason I like to be with couples is the intimacy and, to me, kissing goes hand-in-hand with the intimate part of the experience.

Well, I have to admit that my wife and I posted one of the more insensitive replys to the no kissing question. We're also aware that prostitutes are famous for never kissing their clients because it is too personal. We love to kiss, and do not feel threatened when we see our spouse kissing someone else, so "no kissing" is not for us. If we met another couple who wanted to play with no kissing involved, we'd just say, "No, thank you." It's alright with us if you want to live by that rule and wish you the best of luck in finding couples who agree with you. I apologize for both of us for our insensitivity. Husband of Alura