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A post by themariner got me thinking about another scenario. Would you kiss your wife after she made another man or men cum while she was sucking him/them? Just after? A day after? A week after?

Sounds good to me, but is that your wife's fantasy as well? Let her choose the other men, and you're more likely to get a positive response. Have the talk and tell us what she says.

No, you need to be stone cold sober, not had sex for a couple of days, be tied to a post and watch your wife enjoying herself fucking the brains out of another guy. Or maybe two, because: Invite them to dinner in a restaurant, and plan it out. Let the wives set the agenda at that meeting as to what will happen.

I really love sloppy seconds very much and when it happens we both enjoy this particularly intense intimacy. There is simply nothing more beautiful in a relationship than when you open up as a man and see the sperm of your fellow players as a special benefit. Although I am a normal heterosexual man, the sex we enjoy as a couple with other men has given me a very sensual, beautiful love for their sperm. We always enjoy it with some male friends as a special gift to my girlfriend. For me it is always an uplifting, heavenly feeling to penetrate my girlfriend after him and we enjoy this connection through his semen even without much sexual activity. The almost loving way his semen surrounds my cock and I bathe in it is simply an unbelievably great heavenly pleasure 💓

So its my body and I decide who cums where outside of my husband. But if I fuck a guy and he comes and there is no getting him back to hard, if I'm not done, someone is getting sloppy seconds.

Sloppy seconds is just hot and I hope to have many more experiences of it. It doesn't matter if I've literally just cum with a partner--I'm pretty much instantly aroused and wanting to fuck and explore my wife's pussy once I realize she has someone else's creampie in her. So damn hot.

Of course... as long as it's someone else's cum in her mouth. That is hot and exciting, but PNC tends to make me a bit squeamish for my own.

We regret the things we could have done, but didn't.

I think i would she loves making me lick my cum from her body. i lose that kinky urge the second after i cum. But if it was someone else I would still be in that dirty talk mode and she would just force me. We talked about someone else cuming on her tits and if I would clean it up, I hesitated and should have said yes babe anything for you. Mouth, tits in the heat of the moment yes!

Numex, indeed. My first wife had very little sexual experience prior to the beginning of our relationship. Although attractive she hadn’t dated in high school and very little as an undergraduate. I think I recall correctly that she’d had quite brief sexual liaisons with three guys. We knew each other for two years through an extracurricular organization, and I’d had the hots for her from literally the first moment I’d set eyes on her. I wanted to date her so bad, but other than a couple of desultory friend-zone dates, she just wasn’t interested. Until she suddenly was. She’d graduated but several months later was back in town with nothing really going on in her life. I asked her to a party at the off-campus house where I was living for my senior year. We’d had just enough wine to be relaxed and then the kissing started. Within a few days we had begun having sex. A lot! Like, I quit going to class and for a couple of weeks we primarily stayed in bed and fucked. She had so little prior experience; had never masturbated or had an orgasm. This was her first serious romantic or sexual relationship and she was keen to explore. And I was happy to do so with her. We married about 18 months later. She continued to be interested in exploring sex. I think she always was a bit envious of my much broader sexual experience coming into our relationship and felt as though she’d somehow missed out, While she was in medical school, beyond the soft swing with another couple (the wife in that couple and I have now been married for 34 years) and her affair with her classmate, we discussed swinging (or as it was then referred to, "wife swapping" 🙄). She expressed interest in having sex with a couple of other guys she knew from school and I gently encouraged her to pursue that interest. We also discussed looking for MFMF possibilities, but the logistics in those pre-internet days were daunting for a couple who were in medical school and grad school. So yeah, @Numex, "what might have been." After a decades-long period of relative estrangement following the sad end of our marriage we are now again quite close friends. We have lunch every couple of months and speak on the phone weekly. We had lunch last week with our spouses and a mutual friend who was visiting. She clearly deeply loves her husband, who is a terrific guy. She has implied that she’s no longer sexually active, but did so in a way that suggested she didn’t miss sex. If circumstances were different I’d still want to have a sexually intimate relationship with her as well as enjoying our close friendship. It’s probably best t she’s in a loving marriage that is apparently celibate by choice. Or we might get in trouble.

I knew a guy who had a 12" dick and thick as a Coke can. He passed out every time he got an erection.

Oh, what could have been.

Investigate the non-hormonal IUD and get back to enjoying men releasing freely within you.

Petra, you are a great writer and not only your at home poly relationships but this swinging couple Joe and Shan are great to follow. Please keep us posted. Thanks.

When the lifestyle is done properly, the fun is both having sex with other people yourself and watching the love of your life do the same.

It was something special for both of you. She was special.

Petra, on more than one occasion I’ve had two women sucking me and the woman who finally gets me to orgasm snowballs the other. In a regular MF situation I’ve had my partner snowball me. I’m not freaked out by cum. I’ve been snowballed by a.woman with the other man’s cum. And I have no hesitation about eating a woman who had just had me or another man ejaculate in her pussy. The taste of a mix of female and male juices I generally find quite pleasant.

Maybe you felt that way in the moment, but after you married your wife, and especially when you met him again, you were proud. Admit it.

No their women do, or 2 of mine has and brings up a debate because of the 2 that measured me, each measured different ways. Do you measure on top of the penis from tip of the cock to the pubic bone or do you measure underneath from asshole to tip of the cock ?

I used to be self-conscious, but not anymore. They fit the rest of my body perfectly. My avatar is a statue in a Maine college museum we visited. (Bates? Bowdoin? Colby?) Red said it looks like me, including my tits. And just as firm. I used to soak through my panties and pants when I first got excited with David.

I enjoy taking a man from flaccid to erect, especially in my mouth. And even more especially if he's recently finished with another woman and is struggling to get it back up to a functional level. One of the reasons that I find FFMs so enjoyable. That you for that. As a small breasted woman I find that some men, and women, enjoy the variety of playing with small tits sometimes.

Work your way through your inhibitions of asking her what she wants, who she wants to do it with (male or female), whether she wants you there or not. Once she feels comfortable doing what she wants, you'll love the adventure that she takes you on. Believe me, the experience of getting over your doubts is worth it.

Why don't you ask her? One of the keys to a successful swinger couple is that they have wide open communication with each other. When talking, there should be no judgment, no sarcasm, just consideration, understanding, and connection. The things that she is saying may only be fantasies. It might be that she's intentionally dropping hints left and right so you'll ask. Either way, the two of you need to get better at communication. Try talking about these things outside of the bedroom. Bedroom talk is one thing, but being able to talk about it outside of the bedroom is important. Feel free to ask us questions! We're happy to help!

I agree. something wrong about it feels pretty good! last year we both tried plugs, kinda fun feeling during sex !

I'm a woman on bc, but in the moment the thought of becoming pregnant excites me. For me, cum is not just a white blob, it's all those individual sperm swimming in me, competing with the sperm of other men, looking for the prize. The most sexually satisfying time of my life was when Clair became pregnant with my husband David's child and I decided to get pregnant as well. I went "pot luck" with both my husband and Red, my boyfriend, knowing that I wanted children with each. For those several months, each time was purposeful and thrilling.

Unhindered ejaculation and semen are our fetishes as well. That's one of the major reasons why we gave up open swinging for a closed group, to make and play in that wonderful mess.

I haven't measured, but my guess is that I'm an extra medium. My wife brags that she can get off and has gotten off on every size dick that she has ever had. So I don't worry about it. She says that too much length can be uncomfortable in her pussy or mouth, but she's never had a problem with girth. With anal it's the opposite, too big a diameter is a problem, but length is not.

The better thing is to never stop being lovers, and we here know (ironically) the best way to do that is for both spouses to have at least one other sex partner.

I would and have

Regardless of how painfully jealous I get from watching two people who I love having sex with each other instead of me, it all becomes resolved when I jump into the messy aftermath. I can easily get Clair or Lora to a second O by licking her pussy and taking some of his cum. Hubby or Red can recover while I'm doing that, then oral on him and what is left in his sack is mine. And all is right with the world.

Truth. 1 on 1 sex is usually over once everyone has one orgasm. But MFM is like tag-teaming with the men able to cum multiple times - and thus the woman as well. I definitely have much faster recovery when I see my wife take her turn with the other man.

To echo 2quirky806, we haven't gone bareback with any couple yet but would like to. We just haven't established any connections where we would be relatively exclusive, to where we would go without condoms. I think the sloppy seconds thing is more the Mr's fantasy than mine. I'm not opposed at all, given the cycling condoms as the guys move around is annoying and bareback is just so much more fun. However, we are in the same boat as everyone else in terms of avoiding STIs is required. Once we establish a connection with another couple (s) where we play only within a small group (2-3 couples) we'll look into dropping the condom requirement.

We haven’t gotten to that point yet but it is something I really want to try. I don’t want to eat it but I do want my wife filled with multiple loads and over flowing while I slide it in and have very vigorous sex with her. The thought sound very hot to me. My fantasy is to start her off lay the first load and then let 2 to 3 other guys load her up and for me to finish the night off. But until we have a group of people we really trust which is hard to come by and we are fixed that’s just going to stay in the spank bank for now.

Love sloppy seconds. The last time we played was a bareback MFM and we each came inside my wife twice. It was heavenly.

If there no one to take sloppy seconds, then guy #1 is going down on me until I am satisfied. My feeling is that there are times I swallow his cum, so he can go down on the mess he made.

Exactly.

We are a married couple that has been having threesomes with our male friend for close to three years now,she has always let both of us cum in her when we first started doing this she would clean after one of us came in her but now that doesn't happen anymore,she has gotten up to seven loads in her when we get together..all three of us get alone great as much fun a the sex is we enjoy joking around about it to..anyone new to this will be shy about it a first but the more you do it the more fun you will have

I persuaded my wife into not "cleaning" herself after another man came in her. She felt "messy". Yes it wasn't normal to feel that wet down there but she grew to be comfortable with it in a sexual situation. She can't get pregnant so everyone goes bareback. I usually get the party started if we are playing with someone new. When I get that feeling like I'm going to cum I'll pull out. I want him to feel her like I do. She is so wet and lubricated after someone has cum in her that I can barely feel her. It is sexy to know that she is that wet from another man cumming in her. It doesn't take me long to add to the party. I prefer how she feels before someone has cum in her. That's why I let the other guy cum first.

If you're swinging, sloppy seconds is going to happen. Why not enjoy it?

With one couple we really trusted, after a few months we decided to go bareback. After we had a session and they left, my wife and I often had reclaiming sex, as we did after couples and men where they used condoms. My wife was a freak about using tissue on herself after sex, but still when her insides were coated with our friend's sperm, it was always much silkier, lube wasn't necessary at all. Yeah, it was hot and wonderful. But still, don't let this fantasy get away from you; worry about STDs and pregnancy; play safe.

Nothing hotter than kissing my wife with the taste and scent of come in her mouth. Winter is coming...snowballs!