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Gotcha. The first time i got my wife a 4-hand, undraped massage at home (many years ago) she wanted a real masseur! If you post online that you're seeking a qualified masseur to sensually massage your wife then suddenly everyone is a qualified masseur. So I contacted the local Massage Envy, told them my wife wanted me to set up a massage for her with a strong man who does "deep tissue massage" and they gave me a list of all their masseurs and I had to contact them separately to explain what we wanted. Some were insulted. Others sent me nudes. She was very happy with the one I finally selected.

I was just wondering how the women here who've done gangbangs felt after their first one. My first big gangbang was with another woman and we had 12 guys show up. It was pretty intense for both of us because we may have overestimated the number of guys we could take. It was really difficult for both of us because we each played with all 12 guys and we both did anal. There were times during that night when we thought we couldn't take any more. Afterwards I had a mix of emotions. I was exhausted but after about an hour I felt a sense of calmness and peace. It might sound strange but I was really proud of myself. What really surprised me was that before the night was over I was feeling horny again and played with some of the couples who had come to watch our gangbang.

I had to look up what you meant. "I don’t think you know how big 12 inches is. Do you see that, just in scale? Where is that going? Not in here, okay? The average gal is gonna get about that much, maybe this if they’re a pro, but the rest of that, completely unmanageable. This is the biggest I’ve ever seen in real life. But this is fine, it’s completely fine. This fabulous. Almost too big. Definitely too big. Fucking sick day. ER. 27 Club. And now I’m just skipping my next life. Anything after that is highly unethical. I don’t think we know what we’re talking about."

Sloppy seconds is just hot and I hope to have many more experiences of it. It doesn't matter if I've literally just cum with a partner--I'm pretty much instantly aroused and wanting to fuck and explore my wife's pussy once I realize she has someone else's creampie in her. So damn hot.

Breeding isn't a specific kink of mine (cum play is) but this makes me think of an experience I had maybe six months ago when playing with a single female I'd just met for the first time. We were playing bare and I was getting closer and asked her where she wanted me to finish to which she demanded "fill her pussy with my black cum" and "put a baby in me". Which resulted in me losing it almost instantly... We hadn't talked about it in advance and she had no idea I'm snipped (sorry, no swimmers here) but I'm certainly not going to volunteer that info to her unless she asks in hopes of a repeat, lol.

Granted, butt they are a distinct minority compared to the things we turned down when we had the chance. I'll only speak for myself. I wish I had pulled the trigger on things more than I wish I hadn't.

Numex, indeed. My first wife had very little sexual experience prior to the beginning of our relationship. Although attractive she hadn’t dated in high school and very little as an undergraduate. I think I recall correctly that she’d had quite brief sexual liaisons with three guys. We knew each other for two years through an extracurricular organization, and I’d had the hots for her from literally the first moment I’d set eyes on her. I wanted to date her so bad, but other than a couple of desultory friend-zone dates, she just wasn’t interested. Until she suddenly was. She’d graduated but several months later was back in town with nothing really going on in her life. I asked her to a party at the off-campus house where I was living for my senior year. We’d had just enough wine to be relaxed and then the kissing started. Within a few days we had begun having sex. A lot! Like, I quit going to class and for a couple of weeks we primarily stayed in bed and fucked. She had so little prior experience; had never masturbated or had an orgasm. This was her first serious romantic or sexual relationship and she was keen to explore. And I was happy to do so with her. We married about 18 months later. She continued to be interested in exploring sex. I think she always was a bit envious of my much broader sexual experience coming into our relationship and felt as though she’d somehow missed out, While she was in medical school, beyond the soft swing with another couple (the wife in that couple and I have now been married for 34 years) and her affair with her classmate, we discussed swinging (or as it was then referred to, "wife swapping" 🙄). She expressed interest in having sex with a couple of other guys she knew from school and I gently encouraged her to pursue that interest. We also discussed looking for MFMF possibilities, but the logistics in those pre-internet days were daunting for a couple who were in medical school and grad school. So yeah, @Numex, "what might have been." After a decades-long period of relative estrangement following the sad end of our marriage we are now again quite close friends. We have lunch every couple of months and speak on the phone weekly. We had lunch last week with our spouses and a mutual friend who was visiting. She clearly deeply loves her husband, who is a terrific guy. She has implied that she’s no longer sexually active, but did so in a way that suggested she didn’t miss sex. If circumstances were different I’d still want to have a sexually intimate relationship with her as well as enjoying our close friendship. It’s probably best t she’s in a loving marriage that is apparently celibate by choice. Or we might get in trouble.

We didn't target finding a second masseur per se. We both understood that while swapping with couples was likely to happen, or real target early on was MFMs, which would naturally result in massage from myself and the other man at the same time. Over the years, we've had far more MFMs than couples. That's worked great for us; I "suffer" (hardly) from compersion, and absolutely love my wife having sex with other men.

Two men, yes. :) The first dip into the pool took us past that step, yes. Our very first venture was just meeting another couple in the lifestyle. Nothing happened, it was just a conversation as we had lots of questions and they were happy to talk. The second dip was to a swingers club.

It is above all a question of the sympathy between men which makes it very erotic or not. It wouldn't be that difficult for us, as we currently only let men we like cum in her. It's such a turn on every time she and he finish and are still cuddling, his flaccid cock slipping out, seeing the wonderful result leaking out of her pussy. It makes her pussy look so beautiful. My desire for this varies in moments like this, but sometimes I just have a huge desire to enjoy eating his cum out her pussy. Especially when the sperm is beautifully white, thick and lumpy... I shouldn't even think about it...

Not at all. My wife had made it very clear well before we were married that she had absolutely zero interest in swinging or polyamory in any shape or form. She wasn't angry with me that I had dipped my toes into this. She just didn't want to do it herself. She felt it was wrong, and even though I pointed out that the couple's vows had changed, she still felt it was wrong. I didn't pursue it. At all. I was quite happy being monogamous with her. The thought of participating in non-monogamy again hadn't crossed my mind. So, seven years into being married one night she mentions that it would be fun to have two men massaging her at once. She looooves massage! This started a discussion that lasted many months. After eight months, we finally dipped our toes in the pool. For me, it wasn't that I wanted her to have the same experience. It was that this was a wonderful adventure we were embarking upon together. It's been a great ride!

Wife loves....actually encourages me to seek out handsome men for bi play....then bring them home for a 3some!

For my part, I would have done everything I could think of to pleasure her. Some people would take what she said as a sign that she wanted to give herself up to the person's desires. That doesn't work for me. To me, sex is a mutual thing.

The first time my friend Tim fucked me, his wife was there. Arlene taught me how Tim liked to have his cock sucked, then helped lube and stretch my ass to get me ready to take his cock. She gave me instructions on how to relax so Tim's cock would go in easily. Once the head of his cock popped inside, and he slowly put in the rest of his cock, I was in heaven. The feeling of his cock in my ass was like nothing I had ever experienced, and I am quite familiar with anal toys and dildos. I fell in love with being fucked from the very first stroke. Arlene took a lot of pictures of me losing my cock sucking and anal virginity. My favorite picture is of me in the missionary position, Tim holding my ankles with his cock inside me, my cock hard, and a look of pure bliss on my face. Since then I have had the pleasure of sucking and fucking with men in front of six women. Over the years I have been fucked hundreds of times, and love every cock.

Anyone here care to share about their largest gangbang experience and where was it held? For me it was with 12 guys but there was another women (my BFF) in the room. It happened 3 years ago at my house. We knew most of the guys in it. There were 2 husbands, 3 guys from our circle of swinger friends, 2 guys of our parent's swinger friends, and 5 guys from a swingers site and our local club. It was loads of fun. We did pretty much everything you can think of, minus guys doing each other. None of the guys were bi. Most of the guys went bareback, only the ones we did not know wore condoms. We all played for a good 3 hours. I was so sore after that, I needed to take a few days off from work just to heal up. Haha

The better thing is to never stop being lovers, and we here know (ironically) the best way to do that is for both spouses to have at least one other sex partner.

Mary got a little wild at a house party one night, it wasn't a gang bang per se. Normally, the most she would do in one night was three - one man in a foursome with me, perhaps a single guy, and of course me. One night, she did four in an orgy-type situation. That night at the house party, after a foursome a single guy desired her, she agreed and didn't complain when he took her into the common room. And then the chain started. We're sure she had at least eight, the total may have been a dozen or more. On the ride home, it didn't seem much different than any other night, except she was very tired and we didn't have reclaim sex. The next day, I couldn't tell any difference as we got up and went to church. When we finally got around to talking about it later that day, she was exuberant about the experience, and when we hit the mattress in the afternoon she seemed as excited as usual.

Mixed emotions after the first one. I was with a previous boyfriend and it was really all about him. We belonged to a nudist club that was very vanilla all day and then completely hedonistic at night. He enjoyed showing me off during the day and introducing me around. I was 24 and definitely got attention. My first involved 8 guys of mixed ages. It started out as a card game with me serving drinks naked. My boyfriend asked how I would feel about letting a couple of them touch me. I was horny as hell from being naked all day so Inwas all in. I sat on the couch and they took turns feeling my tits and rubbing my pussy. Eventually one guy started giving me oral and i was in heaven. As I leaned back a guy started jerking his cock by my face to I took him in my mouth. Another guy added his big cock to the mix and soon I was sucking three cocks. I knew what was next so i got on all fours so they would have easy access to my open pussy. As i concentrated on sucking their cocks I could feel them taking turns sliding their cocks in me. They would pump me hard for. minute or two and then switch. It was crazy, i didn’t look at them I could just feel their cocks in me. A couple of them were bigger than what I was used to - I loves they way they felt. After I had my first orgasm, I could hear them as they moaned and I stared to feel their cum landing on my ass and on my back. One guy was seated so I got on top of him so I could face the other waiting guys. Another guy got in front and worked his cock inside me as well. I was wet and loose at this point so I easily took both of their cocks inside me. I was sucking cocks and taking loads of cum on my face and in my mouth. I was so taken with all the guys and the whole experience that I wasn’t sure where my boyfriend was or if he was even there. Afterwards I felt pretty weird coming back. It definitely rocked my world but it didn’t happen again until I was married. I liked being used and I definitely loved being the center of attention - still do. 8 is bit much, but three or four fun guys is perfect for the occasional slutty workout at this point in my life and relationship.

I tend to agree with the orginal poster. The first time we swung, I had NO idea who was sucking my dick (with a woman sitting on my face). A guy sucked my dick without my knowledge, so does that make me bi? When a woman is riding my face and I'm getting the best head of my life, am I going to care if it is a male or female who is doing the sucking? Never even entered my mind at the time! My experience at the Chicago area clubs is almost ALL single guys wanting to be with a couple are open to m/m contact during a 3some. The same goes for AFF and other swing sites. Just as an experiment on AFF, I put up two profiles, one as a bi couple and the other as a straight couple looking for a male to join us. Pretty much the same group of single guys replied. Many stating, "my profile says straight but I would want to suck your dick." In their response to the other profile, they were completely straight! My guess is 80-90% of single guys looking for couples are bi to some degree. With couples, I was suprised how many guys are bi. When we meet other couples, we do tell them that we are OK with m/m contact, but do not expect me to recripcate. We have been with about 30 couples, alot of "straight" men wanted to feel or suck my dick once I told them I was open to it. My guess is only about 10% admit being bi when asked, but behind closed doors with an couple who is accepting of the other guy being bi and it jumps up past 50%. I always felt I was 100% straight until I started swinging. I still am very passively bi, but it certainly doesn't bother me if a guy wants to feel my dick and size me up before I give his wife the ride of her life... If he wants to suck his his wife's juices off my dick when I'm done, more power to him.

Seldom more than 5 minutes each, certainly not more than 10 with my SO. I have watched and played in GB's where the girl did 25 guys. Only one lasted more than 10. Most were in the 3-5 minute range. On the other hand, I have watched a lot of one-on-one's that went for 20 or 30 minutes. That has never happened in the 4 or 5 GB's that I have personal knowledge of. If it did, the poor girl would be comatose, I think.

I forgot to mention above other times that might qualify as GB. Once three of us guys had sex with her twice in less than two hours. Six bangs, but only three guys = GB? That's the one she enjoyed the most. Once, two of us did her 5 times in about 18 hours, 3 times in the afternoon and evening and twice more in the morning. That's 10 for her. Is that a GB? Doesn't make much difference; we all loved it!

We didn't have fluffers at the gangbang that I posted about earlier. There were a number of couples there to watch but one of the rules was that they wouldn't play with the gangbang guys until after the gangbang. We didn't want their attention wandering elsewhere. After a while I found that a good rhythm was getting dp'd while doing oral on a third. The other guys just had to keep themselves entertained until it was their turn. I don't think any of them really minded but I did hear several of them tell the guys who were getting serviced that they wanted to cut in for a while. For the most part the guys were pretty cooperative with each other and it worked out.

On the other hand, what I found when trying to set one up was that (like most parties) only about 2/3 of those you invite show up. My first attempt at a GB, only one guy showed up... so not so much a gangbang. I think I had invited 4 or 5 (wanting to keep it right around that number). When I finally managed to do it later, I ended up with a few more guys that I really needed. By the third try I got it right and invited a couple of extra girls to help even things out. Fluffers are a necessity of any gangbang (that would be extra girls there to keep the guys hard and happy while they are waiting for their turn with you). I'm guessing the most any girl can really handle on her own without help is 4 (1 mouth, 2 hands, and 1 in either her pussy or her ass - but I don't see most women managing both of those and still handling the other 3). To answer the original question, how did I feel afterwards? a little sore, a little annoyed at the guy who got pissy because he had to wait his turn, but overall happy that I got to fulfill my fantasy.

Years ago, at a club, I had sex with four different guys, one after the other. I've got to say, after four, I was tired and sore but, I did have a smile on my face (that my husband teased me about the smile lasting too long).

I don't know if 5 qualifies as a gang bang, but my wife really enoyed it. All of the guys were fun and none of guys lasted so long that it became a problem. The cum from the previous guy was great lube. That is, there was no "ouch." One of my really good swinging friends told me that she did 21 once and loved it. All used condoms, she said. I wonder how she kept enough lube to keep from getting a little raw.

When I read this post to my Mrs, her first reaction (to the 12) was "ouch!". But she says she really enjoyed her first one too (as well as her 2nd)...and she only had 6 or 7. Of course, this brought up the subject of her wanting another one REALLY SOON. She also asked if you might being coming down toward Tucson... LOL

From an article on women.com: "2. The study most trusted by urologists shows that the average erect penis size is 5.1 inches long and 4.8 inches in girth. Unless you're in a chat room. Then double it."