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When new to swinging it's important to have rules and try to stick to them. Not to sound vulgar, but there is a saying among swinger ladies that goes "I have the pussy so I make the rules", and that is generally a true statement. With time and experience boundaries expand and rules change - but that takes time. At this early stage in the game it's important to have rules, explain them to everyone before playing, and everyone should do their best to stick to them or it's not going to work.

Just found your original post. You two are 32 and 38, not married, with a young child. Reading the incident summary in the previous post it seems that the woman you brought in isn't into women and just wants to have sex with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend isn't into watching his girlfriend with another woman (not even sure you have any bi interest), instead just wants to have solo sex with this other woman. Anyone else you bring in will be exactly the same. Your boyfriend has shown his inability to follow your rules. What exactly is the point of bringing in a third if you aren't interested in the other woman and want restrictions on what your boyfriend does? Why not suggest another man for your next threesome. That will end all discussion about this. You two should stop bringing people into your bedroom. Or, plan to separate.

Meh, definitions. Maybe it would make you a cuckold, maybe now. Who cares? :) The point is, are you and your wife both enjoying it? That's the only thing that matters. Maybe you would enjoy it. Only one way to find out ;) That said, I agree baby steps are in order. You noted earlier that the husband in the other couple is offering his wife to you...but his wife doesn't know? This seems highly contradictory. If she doesn't know a thing about any of this, then there are major red flags all over this. Either they are into it as a couple and are open with each other, or they shouldn't be a couple you play with, even if he's just playing for a notional MFM. I enjoy MFMs from time to time as the third, but it's always with full knowledge and consent of my wife.

My wife pumped breast milk when she went back to work. After our daughter was weaned, there was a surplus of milk leftover. Daniela used it for cookies, which were served to unknowing vanilla friends. I thought it perhaps unethical, but she said if people are willing to eat the milk of a dirty cow, why not a clean woman?

Even when skiing, I'm thinking about sex, Lesbian sex.

Agree with TnA83. You two are nowhere near ready to bring someone else into your physical world. What were the circumstances with the "other person" you tried it with? It sounds like you are talking about a threesome with a woman. It also appears that you don't have a whole lot of interest in the other woman as all the talk surrounds what the boundaries are with him and the other woman. Are you really interested in this? Or are you doing this to keep him happy? Seems like your boyfriend just wants to have sex with other women and doesn't care what your thoughts are. How old are you? How long have you two been dating? My experience has been the most successful couples who enter the lifestyle, or dip their toe into the other people in their bedroom pool, are married and have very secure relationships, solid trust and no concern about specific acts. From what I'm reading in your post, you went down on strikes.

Deconstructing this, I took it to mean both the "cum shot" as well as the picture that was shot. That's a problem with men, losing the interest in doing something kinky after orgasming, like going down on her. Doesn't happen much with a woman who is excited and just had an orgasm. That's why it's better if a guy wants to do something like eating cum out of a pussy, it's better that another guy goes first and puts it there, so the first guy gets excited watching rather than down putting it there.

In matters such as this, never ask. Just allow people to talk. If they do, fine; if not, let it rest.

OH, you are not kidding I need to be bound to watch, porn like that is fun but when it's your wife a little harder to fantasize, who knows maybe i would like it. Wouldn't that make someone a cuckold though?

I don’t know, Petra. We speak on the phone about once a week and have lunch every few weeks. So, I could ask her. But I won’t; there are some sleeping dogs I’m just gonna leave laying there (not that she is in any sense a dog 😉😊).

Actually, two great shots.

You got my suggestion backwards. You need to be bound and not blindfolded and forced to watch your wife enjoy herself with one or two other men. After they finish you can be untied and see how much you want her. That is how you get over your inhibitions and have the best sex ever. Let the wives discuss how they want to play. It doesn't have to be an even trade, just whatever makes the women happy.

You had your work cut out for you. I trust that you succeeded. Anything is possible if everything aligns, including both spouses, but life is full of what might have beens. It seems, however, that you all ended up in a good place.

She didn’t share it with me until at least a month after she’d broken off the relationship. But if she had told me during the course of the affair or when she was considering initiating it, I like to think I would have supported her in that. True, I’m looking back from the perspective of a half-century later after I’ve been in an ENM relationship for two decades. However, there was another occasion during her time in medical school when one of her fellow students invited her to accompany him on an out-of-town meeting of some medical-student organization. It was clear that the invitation included having sex. I encouraged her to accept the invitation. If she hadn’t been considering it I don’t think she would have brought it up with me. But in the end she declined. I believe she was more interested in MFMF activities, but as I’ve noted previously the logistics on making that happen were difficult in the days before the public internet.

I think i would she loves making me lick my cum from her body. i lose that kinky urge the second after i cum. But if it was someone else I would still be in that dirty talk mode and she would just force me. We talked about someone else cuming on her tits and if I would clean it up, I hesitated and should have said yes babe anything for you. Mouth, tits in the heat of the moment yes!

Before my wife started breastfeeding, I had all kinds of ideas, about what i could do with her milk and suck them. I didn't live up to it. But I drink it a couple times in coffee and her friends served it to me in a shot glass. LOL

I bet people next to her had a vibe! I would love to do the same to my wife, or finish inside her and send her to the store!

Great shot! I haven't done it yet, but if this were my wifes tits I would lick them clean for her!

What we in our family have done, both us women and the men, is steal a little breast milk from lactating new moms. So sweet!

I absolutely adore a nice titjob. Lately I have developed a taste for my cum, whether licking it out of my girl's pussy, kissing her after a blowjob, or lapping it up after I've given her a clit job and came that way. I haven't yet licked it from her tips, but now I'm intrigued...

I love licking my come off a woman's breasts. It took me many years to try it, though. The first time was with a girlfriend (I was divorced). I was about 39 years old. We were having a long sex session one evening. We both did oral (she orgasmed, I waited), then we fucked. I was close to coming, and decided I'd like to try licking my come off her breasts. I told her that and she liked the idea. I was on top of her, so I pulled out and masturbated to climax. I shot all over her breasts and stomach. I rubbed my come into her breasts—I love how come looks on breasts!—and with a little trepidation, dived in. I liked it! After that relationship, I met Ms. Geo. I've had the pleasure of licking my come off her breasts many times. The first was in a private hot tub that we were lucky to have to ourselves one night. We had done a lot of foreplay in the water, some oral with each of us sitting on the edge, and some fucking, though sex in the water of a hot tub isn't the best. I sat on the edge again and she gave me a blow job. When I was close to coming, I pulled her up and came on her breasts. She rose out of the water some more and I greedily licked my come off her. Moving off-topic a bit, I'll share that I am not shy about tasting my come in other instances. When I have masturbated, I've often tasted my precome. The ladyfriends in my life have tasted it often, so why shouldn't I? And I love kissing a woman after she's had my cock in her mouth. I can't taste my precome that way, but the thought of kissing a woman who's just had me in her mouth is a turn on. And that leads me to one other thing: giving oral to a woman after coming in her pussy. I've done that with Ms. Geo. I decided that I wanted to try it. Yes, indeed. So one time while having sex with her, I was excited by the thought and really wanted to do it. But after my orgasm, the desire was gone. Poof! So I didn't do it. The same thing happened the next time we had sex—wanted to do it, but didn't want to after my orgasm. The next time, I decided I'd do it no matter what. Yes, the desire was weak after my orgasm, but I just did it anyway. And I liked it! I've had male friends tell me that they'd never taste their own come, that their partners would have to brush their teeth after a BJ before kissing them again. So I know it's not for everyone. But for me, it's a wonderful thing.

I've done this. She likes when I get so lost that I can do it. So no big deal just cleaning up the mess on her 36d's while she looks down and watches. So hot

That's the philosophy for all of us. Especially me - I like those little swimmers living inside of me for days. If there is semen to be swallowed, it is usually by one of us women performing oral on another one of us women after we've been with a guy, although the guys will go down on us if we request it.

Yeah! each one to themselves. My man's favorite libido raising moment is watching me get licked and fucked and having orgasms by and with another. He always follows up even before the other has left. And then we talk about it and the next and he goes again.

I am his Viagra and he is my Cialis. My libido is on the increase year after year, and he has kept pace with it. Sleep naked, enjoy every aspect of your body, and the secret is - I allow him to molest me for an hour every morning, includes everything except penetration. All day he is erect and ready. The right food is also important - lot of herbs helps.

I have noticed a significant loss of my libido over the last few years, which unfortunately also includes a loss of potency. When aroused there is often no reaction and if there is, the erection is only short-lived.