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So yes most women are in some form of relationshipmost are either married to a man or dating a man. I have been to several social events and play parties since this post and I have seen the spectrum. I've met a couple lesbians but most of the women seem to be in committed relationships with men and fall in the bisexual to bicurious category. Most are there with their husband's permission but I have meet a few who have been there secretly. I have created a few solid friendships that have continued outside the skirt club environment. One has developed into a true BFF relationship and another is more of a monthly to bi-monthly rendezvous for casual sex. I really enjoy the play parties, they are very disarming and the hostesses are great at helping break the ice and get things moving in a fun stress-free direction. The website has a social feature so you can meet people before events. Often a group of ladies in NY get together for drinks before the play parties so they go in knowing someone which is nice. It is way different that a swing club environment. It's all female energy, very respectful, and not aggressive. Some women at play parties just watch and socialize many participate in the "play" part of the evening. And the play is very naked and orgasmic so if you're wondering if it's a lot of naked women fucking and sucking pussy, it most definitely is. I never thought I'd be into orgies but being fingered in a bed with 10 other women writhing and moaning around me, up against me, occasionally kissing me, or touching me. Well let's just say I'm very into it now.

From my female perspective, after David or Red has had sex with another woman, I want sex with him A) to get what she had just gotten (his cum), or what's left of it, and B) to show that I can please him at least as well as she does.

Had a conversation with friends about two friends who can’t book a Desires trip because they don’t allow same sex couples. We thought renting a villa or large house would be fun if we can get 8-10 friends to chip in. Honey is worried about the safety of a private home if sex is open without the protection a Desires or Hedo gives with an enclosed protected resort. We found great homes on VRBO that are rented out for weddings with housekeepers and cooks but aren’t sure if we can use it the way we want. We want a Desires experience without the restrictions.

I've been researching a club called SkirtClub for the last two years. I discovered it just before the pandemic then the world shut down, bummer for everyone, but especially for the sexually adventurous like us. As a bisexual woman it is so difficult to meet like minded women. Lesbians think we are confused and straight women think we are gross. It is difficult to meet women that are truly bisexual. I've met women that are just fulfilling a husband's fantasy or a boyfriends fantasy. Going to the sex clubs invites male energy which is often very aggressive, I cannot tell you how many times I've entered a club and had men just swat my butt, or grab me without so much as a hello, it makes me feel like I'm in a meat market and I'm just under inspection, to the men I'm not a fan. Getting one on one play time with another woman is difficult. Thus enters skirtclub. I finally attended an event recently, and it was divine. It is a women's only club for the bisexual and bicurious. They host events world wide, there are small events called mini skirts which are cocktail mixers where we can meet othe bisexual and bicurious women. Then there are their play parties. These events are women only, there is some educational speaker at the beginning and then a burlesque style performance to create the mood. Some sexy games like spin the bottle and tequilla body shots. The events are held in very posh locations, penthouses and mansions. There are women of all walks of life present, different looks and body styles, wearing sexy clothes and in some cases lingerie, i even saw a gorgeous creature high stepping in nothing but heels, I was so jealous of her confidence. Once the games start women start venturing to the bedrooms and it is so incredible. I walked in one bedroom and saw probably 12 women in a writhing mass on a bed. It is incredibly erotic and intense. I did pare up with a beautiful woman and had an incredible night on one of those female adorned beds. If you are a woman like me please check out skirt club it is truly magical. The website is Skirtclub.co.uk

OK, I'll admit one of my fantasies is to eat my wife's pussy after another man has cum inside of her. I also wouldn't mind eating a cum filled pussy other than my wife's. I have had this fantasy for years, but have never had the chance to do it, mostly because my wife doesn't want me to and secondly because I haven't done it before and I have the "First Time Factor" syndrome....I guess I am a little reserved. I've asked my wife several times in the past before we play with another to let me come over after he has cum inside her and have me clean her up. She knows I want to suck her cum filled pussy. I've even considered eating her pussy after I cum in her, and a few times have come close but she gently pushes my head away. A few times I have brought myself just to climax then held back and cum a little in and on her pussy without her knowing and then went down on her and sucked her. So, how many people here, men and women like to have their pussies eaten after being fucked and like to eat cum filled pussies? I don't think I'm too weird. Maybe I am. I wish my wife would let me do it. I did have the opportunity once to suck my cum out of the female partner of a couple we were playing with, but I sort of chickened out....I think because it was all my cum. However I am sure if it was another man's cum I would have went right down and sucked her clean. What's others experiences? Yes or No? Good or Bad?

Yes, as far as mirrors. I was amazed how powerfully arousing having sex in front of a full length mirror was and is. The opportunity to see views that drive me wild in erotic photography and porn by adjusting the position of the mirror is powerful. In addition, we found just setting-up a video camera that points toward the area of play (the bed, dining table, etc.) and going about having sex as though the camera was not there worked very well. At a subconscious level it seemed to bring out the exhibitionist and performer in each of us. Going through the video afterward together and finding the sections that were gems was arousing too.

Agreed. It wasn’t me wanting it was her just doing. I was freaked by my cum and exhausted and at first reluctant. Still not eating other guys cum.

As are those born by Caesarean section.

Semen connoisseur?

Yep, met 2 women on the nude beach and they were straight travel agents checking out the resort and was not allowed to share a room even though they were straight. No same sex couples could share a room.

My wife says that she's never had a cock that she couldn't orgasm with.

The idea of sloppy seconds, or cum play in general, is why we started out on this adventure. We've only had limited experiences so far, and only 1 time was that without condoms. but that was all cumming on the body. It took some convincing for my husband to accept the idea of being active with another man's cum (he's 99.5% straight), but he's now fully on board and we hope to find a couple who we can get to know well enough to go down this route. That being said, I have to say that I love the feeling of cum in my pussy, it makes me feels sexy and tingly inside. I've often masturbated with toys/role played after my husband has cum inside (because I like it, but also to get him used to the idea) and when I do, it's that feeling of sexiness that brings me to orgasm. With a lot of cum, there is a distinct lack of friction, and for me anyone, the friction is what gets me there.

Since I require playmates to wear condom, it happens all the time that they cum anywhere on my body. I dont requre they lick it off but when the other partner's turn come, he may inevitably lick it (dried or massaged) if he kisses or play in that area (lips, tits, navel, pubis, etc.)

Sloppy seconds is just hot and I hope to have many more experiences of it. It doesn't matter if I've literally just cum with a partner--I'm pretty much instantly aroused and wanting to fuck and explore my wife's pussy once I realize she has someone else's creampie in her. So damn hot.

It is above all a question of the sympathy between men which makes it very erotic or not. It wouldn't be that difficult for us, as we currently only let men we like cum in her. It's such a turn on every time she and he finish and are still cuddling, his flaccid cock slipping out, seeing the wonderful result leaking out of her pussy. It makes her pussy look so beautiful. My desire for this varies in moments like this, but sometimes I just have a huge desire to enjoy eating his cum out her pussy. Especially when the sperm is beautifully white, thick and lumpy... I shouldn't even think about it...

Eeeeeew!

Wife here. I too get extremely wet from seeing hubby with cum in his mouth, as well as cleaning me up and swallowing it all. I have two committed bulls, and the best is when hubby takes two mixed loads from them. OMG! I'm getting excited just writing this. It never gets old, as he loves doing it to please me. My hubby is the best!

Are the women there mostly partnered? With a man or a woman? Are they looking for further sexual relationships or not. Thank you for the information. If I were single, I would definitely put myself out there as a bisexual. Although I am married to a wonderful man and also have a boyfriend our poly family, which includes two other women who share the guys, I consider myself more Lesbian than straight. Although I started out 100% straight living with and satisfying two men, once I started sharing them with two women who became my lovers, and we had babies who we are now raising in one large household, the emotional bond among us females became incredibly strong. (And the Lesbian sex is great, although we still need dick.) I think that this type of organization for women only that allows them to discuss and explore is a wonderful idea. It acknowledges as well that monogamy is not for everyone.

My first threesome I got the sloppy second. I was in high school and lucky to fuck any girl. My buddy just fucked her, cum still dripping out, I went right in and added my cum.

My use of porn was primarily when I was younger, looking to learn. For instance, after my first vaginal and anal experiences, I was curious how it actually looked up close. What I found for that and just about everything else was so fake and poorly acted, it was humorous. Women don't want semen shot all over the outside of their body, especially their face, and it certainly doesn't make us spontaneously orgasm. The videos that are real are the "amateur" ones, but they are mostly old fat people shot in situations with poor lighting on what must be old camcorders. After doing it several times, I got bold and comfortable enough to ask that we do it in front of the mirror so I could see what I wanted. That was much better and more exciting, and in a way made us/me look more impressive than any porn I had watched. Now if I want to watch anything all I have to do is ask the others in the family; they oblige and it's much better because it has the twinge of jealousy to go with it. Porn is much better live with people who you love.

The prior partner who introduced me to the lifestyle used to love to do this. He especially liked eating me after other's had come inside me. It was a very big turn on for him. Course those were at a time when playing safe didn't seem quite as important. Now it is no glove, no love...so nothing inside for my current partner to eat out.