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Hello everyone so before I posted in here about me and my wife turn the possible fantasies into a reality, which we did but now I wanted to ask thoughts of others on something, so we always said it will be with someone we don’t know, but I have a friend who I think wants to fuck my wife he often drops little comments in like jokey about her tits etc and I think given a chance he would want fuck her! Now we we obviously want to get another hook up done sometime soon, would I bring this up to her as in I think he likes you type of thing and see if she reacts to it? As sometimes I think she goes a little flirty with him also? And if she wanted to actually fuck him then let them fuck? I trust him also in a clean sense as my wife would want to go bareback as she prefers that. What are your thoughts? Or should I not let that line get crossed?

Sometimes the spouse not being there, alone play, is a good experience for all.

I value my privacy and discretion, so I would not be interested. I do enjoy being sexual with a partner on video but only for our viewing and viewing by a small group of others who we hold as close, intimate playmates.

I don’t brag! I’m hung like a Horsefly

This is a hot story, thank you all for sharing! We too love to share my wife with my friend. One of my favorite stories is of when we were all staying out at the beach. There were probably 5 or 6 families out there and all of our kids as well. It’s not uncommon for my buddy to tag along for a day when we are out there. This particular day we were all out on the sand. My wife was looking hot in her little bikini and the adults were all having drinks. I realized that there wasn’t anyone back at the house and that the time would be perfect for my wife to get laid. I pulled my buddy aside and said, “take my wife back to the house and fuck her good. I’ll keep everyone out here and entertained so no one goes back to the house.” He had a huge smile on his face, walked over to my wife, whispered in her ear and she looked at me with a questioning expression. Almost to say, “are you sure?”. I nodded my head and off they went. About 20 minutes later she comes walking back out to the beach and walks up to me and plants a big kiss on my mouth. I hug her and ask her if she enjoyed herself. Her reply still resonates in my mind, “God yes, he made me cum while fucking me in the ass.” She knows I love it when she talks dirty. I ask, “did he cum in you?”. She replied with, “he did and I can feel it dripping down my legs right now.”!!!! Needless to say, I was horny the rest of the day and couldn’t wait for MY opportunity to fuck my wife!

What you see as a negative consequence, I see as something normal. In the moment, feelings develop and are expressed. It is a passing illusion, a wonderful hallucination. You say that Ms. Gold wasn't interested in having a relationship with him, but she was having a relationship. It may not become an ongoing relationship, it may be a one time, sex only thing, but it is a relationship. The fantasy can be entirely different for both, but it is a mutually satisfying experience. Saying "I love you" to someone with whom you just exchanged orgasms is not unnatural or unreal. My wife understood this and has described it to me what her relationships were like with married, cheating men before we became a pair. In particular one guy insisted that he dreamed of leaving his wife for her. Daniela asked why, and he said because Daniela was more intellectual and eagerly engaged in sex. Daniela had him call his wife (they were out of town in a motel) and directed him to tell her, his wife, how much he loved her, all the while Daniela was sucking his dick. They later went out to a jazz club. Afterwards, Daniela explained that was why she was in his life, their lives, because she was the other woman, to suck his dick like his wife wouldn't and go out to places his wife didn't want to go. The wife's birthday was coming soon, so Daniela told him to buy her a birthday gift, and they shopped for it together. There was something they thought would be nice but he said was too expensive. Daniela took out her card and paid for a $600 gift for the guy's wife. Once we became serious, Daniela agreed to my request that she not have sex with any more married men. The experiences that she has told me about made me realize that being non monogamous isn't just about the sex - it is about the feelings, the fantasies, the dreams. Both Daniela and I feel free to live those, even the irrational outbursts from time to time. BTW, I have gone on several extended vacations with a woman in our group to pursue our fantasies. Both Daniela and her husband are good with it. Daniela has never done more than a long weekend.

We STRONGLY recommend that you don't ever play with people who aren't already in the L/S. You need to have the mindset that sex isn't love and love isn't sex and all too often, 'vanilla' friends don't understand this. They can't keep the two separated and that leads to problems. How do we know? Ms. Gold and her ex tried swinging to save their failing marriage and decided to hook up with their close friends. A hot tub, some alcohol, and the swim suits came off and...pretty soon the other couples husband was offering to leave his wife for Ms. Gold. Only problem was that Ms. Gold wasn't interested in having a relationship with him, especially since he was married to one of her best friends. The wife quickly found out his plan and that was the end of the friendship and seriously damaged the other couples relationship...but that wasn't the end. All of the juicy details came out as to what they were all doing to their other friends and family leading to many awkward meetings. Lets just say it wasn't pretty and more than just embarrassing for everyone. Most swingers don't want to be found out by their vanilla friends...why would you invite a vanilla friend to find out. Also, just because he may joke and ask about something (that he most likely thinks will never happen), doesn't mean that he would actually be interested in it if he was given the opportunity. Best to keep the two worlds separate and not take the risk...

Bad, like how? Seriously, I'm not trying to be a smartass. I met men who were in a sexual relationship with my wife before me, and several she was having sex with when we first started dating and screwing. Some I still occasionally run in to. Then there are the men in our group who she is fucking now, and I their wives. There hasn't been any problems or drama. It's because who my wife has sex with is not an issue for me or any other guy. It is her choice. My only concern is whether she is happy. That doesn't mean it's a free-for-all, our relationship has a very responsible structure, but basically male control of a woman isn't happening.