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2 pointsI think one of the perks of the Lifestyle is the freedom to experiment with people and situations outside your norm. Be adventurous. Push your boundaries. Usually you find there was nothing to be afraid of. Was the movie "Poor Things"?
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1 pointAfter watching an Oscar winning movie, very sexual, I commented about the way acted during sex. I got excited by seeing a man very aggressive during the sexual act, the actress looked in ecstasy. I understand acting is not reality but it had me thinking how sex with an aggressive partner, different from our norm, would be. My husband urged me to find a couple on our swingers app that I thought would be my fantasy couple warning me to be very careful. The parameters I first set were changed, I looked at more hardcore, less curious. I saw a very fit sexually dressed “gym rat” couple. My husband once again warned me to take my time, I messaged them. I know this wasn’t the real me doing this, or was it? That night I got a reply from a woman. Skeptical me wanted to FaceTime her, it was a woman. We are so the opposite yet she is interesting. She reminded me that she is bisexual, it was in their profile. I told her about the movie she didn’t see that the star had her friend perform on her. She asked sexual questions too, more about my husband who she said is handsome. More conversation, me assuring my husband, him excited with her body, more concerned with safety, we are meeting them. I worry what they think, I worry if this is smart.
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1 pointPoor Things with Emma Stone Worried adds excitement to the unknown every time we meet anyone new. We are still getting used to initial flutters, our first time having sex, just getting naked took time adding to the excitement. I figure most people looking on a swingers site are more hardcore, we are still newbies, our first was only months ago. I want restrained aggressiveness, not painful, pleasurably aggressive. We are married six years with half during the pandemic, plenty of role play. We had many laughs about the Amazon delivery knew about packages. My husband can be aggressive sexually and very satisfying in a predictable way. That sounds bad, it’s not. He is also an avid gym goer who looks at asses on the elliptical and enjoys telling me about it. He also tells me about some real gym rats that would “fuck me good”. We are open about wants and sexy talk, he knows because I told him about my feelings with the few we met. The excitement of newness and the unknown. FaceTime with the woman has gotten me even more wanting to meet. I think she won’t be afraid that something extra I want. Please have the reality meet the anticipation.
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1 pointHave you tried role playing in this regard with your husband or any of your play partners? It would be a good way to calibrate the reality with the fantasy. Also, your husband's concern is warranted, but is the plan for him not to be there? Otherwise, them being sexually aggressive with you doesn't seem as worrying as a BDSM situation. Overall though, I agree with you. It is sometimes very satisfying to be on one side or the other of aggressive sex; for me either with another woman, me towards a man, or multiple men towards me.
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1 pointI don't have any suggestions other than getting a golf cart and pimping it out with loofahs, pineapples, flamingos, and every other swinger symbol, and drive around in it daily. Extra points if you add pink fringe to the roof.
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1 pointI see no reason to share my experiences with those I do not know. I do not see an upside.
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1 pointIt has been quite a few years since we have been able to get away for our anniversary and we finally planned a week away for just ourselves at the beach. We decided to go during the late summer when my wife's parents could watch the kids during summer break. We had a lot of anticipation and excitement leading up to it and left early on a Saturday morning to be able to fully enjoy our first day. We had an early check in for the room and got up there before noon and decided to get ourselves settled before going down to the pool area. We splurged and had an ocean-facing balcony so when my wife was unpacking I went out to take a look. When I came back in she was standing there laughing as she held a 24 pack of condoms and looked at me and said, "We are here for 6 days, this might be a bit much." I smiled and said, "Just wanted to make sure I had enough." Of course she couldn't let it go by without responding, "You know, if you just had a vasectomy, we wouldn't need these anymore at all." I replied, "I know, I know." So we finished unpacking and she changed into her bathing suit. We are both 38 and have pretty nice bodies but for her, she doesn't enjoy wearing a bikini anymore. She is 5'6" cute brunette with long hair, a firm sexy ass and soft 36D tits. She changed into a sexy suit none the less, it was kind of like a bikini at the top but with an added amount that covered her stomach. I didn't mind as I could still admire her breasts. When we got to the pool area we went right to the bar and the drinks kept flowing. We laid by the pool, walked by the beach and spent some time in the water but mostly just had drinks in our hands. On the way back to the room we stopped by the front desk and bought a few 6-packs for the fridge in the room. We walked up to the room carrying our beer and as soon as we got inside we put the beers down and started really kissing, then she pulled away and said to save it for later because she wanted to have a few drinks on the balcony. I hand her one and she goes out on the balcony while I put the others in the fridge. Then I walk out and hear her talking to someone, that's when I saw that the room next door had an adjoining balcony. He was a younger guy named Jeremy and was having a pleasant conversation so I offered him a beer and then sat down. We talked for a while and it was a lot of fun and my wife then made a comments and said, "You must be having so much fun with all these young sexy girls on the beach." He just laughed and said that he enjoyed some of the sights. I jumped in and responded, "I like what I get to look at" and got an eye roll from my wife. My wife said she wished she still had the body she used to have, especially the perky tits. Without thinking I reached over and grabbed a tit and said that they were great. I expected her to swat my hand away but she left it there and said I only liked them because I was stuck with them. I immediately looked at Jeremy and asked if he thought they were nice too and he just smiled and said he didn't mind looking at them. This is when I realized that the drinks had really hit her because she stood up and leaned over, squeezing them together with her hands saying, "They might look good from this angle." She bent over a little too far and fell into his lap and they both started laughing. She collapsed on her knees in front of him and looked at him and asked, "Do you really think they look nice?". He insisted yes and she still argued that he was just saying it to be nice. So I leaned forward and reached around and grabbed her top and pulled it open with her tits spilling out. "Now he can see them and I know he likes them," I said. He said they looked so nice and soft and that he really did think they were nice. She told him how sweet he was and that she wanted to make sure he got a nice view of them and I sat and watched as she reached forward and pulled his swim trunks to his ankles. I sat speechless ash she leaned forward and squeezed her tits around his dick slowly tit fucking his cock to make him hard. As she did it she asked if her tits were as soft as they looked and if he enjoyed the way her big areolas looked on her big tits. "Those are the most suckable nipples I have ever seen," he responded. She quickly stood up and pushed one of her tits in his mouth and his hands immediately went to her ass and he effortlessly slid her bottoms off. As he was sucking her nipples back and forth he was also rubbing her pussy and driving her wild. She spread her legs open wide enough to straddle him and sat down on his lap with his dick in between them. He was really enjoying her tits and I know how much that turns her on and how crazy he was driving her. It was then that she leaned forward dragging her pussy along his dick then letting the tip touch her pussy as she started working her way down on it. At this moment is when I noticed just how big he was, she was about halfway down and working it up and down inside her but he wanted more. He grabbed her ass and started pulling her down onto his dick. She moaned, "Oh my god I am so full. You are so deep. This is stretching me out so much. God keep going". When she said keep going is when he thrust his hips upward and went all the way inside her. She was just moaning "Oh fuck me!" over and over as she rode his dick through an orgasm. She was really pushing down to get it all inside her when I saw him grab hold of her ass and clench up and I knew he was cumming. She got up right after and walked inside the room and I didn't know how she felt about what just happened. She was only gone for a minute and came back with a beer and handed it to Jeremy. Then she turned and got on her knees in front of me and pulled my pants down to see my already hard dick. She sat on my lap like she did his and had my dick pushed between us. She was kissing me deeply and then kissing my neck and told me to close my eyes. So I did and and the next thing she did was slide back a little and then I feel her touch my dick. She kind of giggled as she unrolled a condom onto me then got on top and pushed my dick inside her. She was riding me and told me that since I brought condoms that I needed to use them. She kept talking and said: "Wow, doesn't this feel so strange to get sloppy seconds while wearing a condom. Jeremy made my pussy all loose and sloppy for you." I couldn't think with how wild this situation was. She looked at me and continued, "You know he hasn't even kissed me and I have his cum in my pussy." With that I tensed up and came in the condom. She went inside the room and laid down in bed and fell asleep immediately. Jeremy and I finished our beers and then both went to our rooms. I laid in bed for hours replaying what just happened as she slept soundly through to the morning.
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1 pointthanks i think that was the problem. at the bottom it said no posting but i thought it was just me. i've been on forums before and sould know that. this was very helpful. right now we're thinking a club once in a while when we can find a sitter and we'll take it from there.
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1 pointprobably a week or two. i had been thinking about contacting guys from the net for dates but once i did it just felt sleazy. after sex i blurted out that i thought we should swing. my husband was shocked but the next day he brought it up. i was uncomforable because i thought he was going to think i wanted to cheat on him. he said swinging was a great idea and i feel very comfortable fantasizing and looking into it because hubby and i are on the same page
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1 pointMy wife won't even discuss the topic with me. She says you go do that & I'm leaving.
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0 pointsHas your wife expressed her reservations to you. Sometimes, overcoming the reluctance to open up requires patience on your part. I would possibly think the two of you are not open with each other on this topic and other topics of living together. Do you run the family, and she is only the cook? Do you raise your voice and does that offend your wife? Are you pained when your wife cries. Do you know what to do when she cries? Do you know there is a benefit of crying for especially a woman? What is the last thing a woman will get angry about when she comes home from a hard days work. She might ask you to please listen and as she gets into her story about her snotty female bitch of a supervisor, she begins to cry. What do you usually do? Offer to go to her workplace and smash her supervisor's face in? What response would please your wife? Did you know she only wants you to listen? Men are fixers. This fixing ends when the SO woman is crying. Don't get bored. Your job is to listen and even you might say only this: "and how did you feel when she said this demeaning comment?" Notice what the key word is: FEEL. Women are deeply feeling. They will ask a lover or husband to understand them by keeping their mouth shut and not try to fix them. In every case, I know of in failures of mutual open marriage, someone is being ignored. The fun of sexual play is 2nd and never will occur if one spouse downs the other spouse, and does not know how to listen. All marital strife represents a lack of communication between two spouses or two SOs. The nature of life today with subprime debacles shutting down financial institutions and closing factories and jobs will cause more strife in the lives of lovers. I would recommend give up the alcohol. Alcohol and anger produces battered wives and abused children. A man on alcohol is a threat to a spouse. When men wake up, they do not remember what they said or did to their sweetheart. Do a complete inventory of life at home and work on improving this life. Then you might find your spouse wants to play with you at that swing place. She might say "I need your help, and I do this because I love you. Please take care of me."
