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I understand, I'm not into stranger sex at all. But I do like being "used," the one chosen over two other women in our family to simply satisfy a man's desire for an orgasm and ejaculation. This usually happens as a morning quickie. The best times for me are when I'm pulled aside by one, then the other, solely for their sexual release. It's very flattering and satisfying for me, even though the reason may be that Clair and Lora are not readily accessible. Genuine lovemaking comes later. BTW, I also sometimes desire aggressive Lesbian sex. Anyone else?

I like to take complete control, or conversely just lay there and let the other person take all the control or do all the work). Another way to say this is let the hornier partner take the lead and keep the less horny from getting in the way. When I am in control, I fantasize about being with a younger, sexier, inexperienced partner. When I give up control, I fantasize about being with an older, more stable, experienced partner. I will start this next paragraph by saying no one should ever be raped, period. Nevertheless, under consensual mutually-satisfying relationships, some people enjoy talking up a rape fantasy or may even partake in some progression as part of role play. This is where one-way rough sex comes up. One person just taking the other. Or one person is just being taken by the other. My paragraph above fits two moderate aspects of this. And I will warn that this often requires the role play “aggressor” to ask “are you ok?” once in a while. This is because the game can sweep things up and be so safe yet intoxicating that the recipient can sound like they are being hurt even when they are experiencing pure sexual satisfaction and nothing else. Which brings me to the point of why do rape fantasies exist? There may be 50 answers to that. They may span from mundane laziness (have the other person do all the work), to the indulging vanity of validating your desirability, to not having to be responsible for the hot sex if coming from a conservative upbringing. You can add bondage to further spice up the last one. Heck, bondage and a pre-agreed safe-word can go far here. I would like to hear from others for other reasons why having an aggressive partner would turn them on?

Poor Things with Emma Stone Worried adds excitement to the unknown every time we meet anyone new. We are still getting used to initial flutters, our first time having sex, just getting naked took time adding to the excitement. I figure most people looking on a swingers site are more hardcore, we are still newbies, our first was only months ago. I want restrained aggressiveness, not painful, pleasurably aggressive. We are married six years with half during the pandemic, plenty of role play. We had many laughs about the Amazon delivery knew about packages. My husband can be aggressive sexually and very satisfying in a predictable way. That sounds bad, it’s not. He is also an avid gym goer who looks at asses on the elliptical and enjoys telling me about it. He also tells me about some real gym rats that would “fuck me good”. We are open about wants and sexy talk, he knows because I told him about my feelings with the few we met. The excitement of newness and the unknown. FaceTime with the woman has gotten me even more wanting to meet. I think she won’t be afraid that something extra I want. Please have the reality meet the anticipation.

I think one of the perks of the Lifestyle is the freedom to experiment with people and situations outside your norm. Be adventurous. Push your boundaries. Usually you find there was nothing to be afraid of. Was the movie "Poor Things"?

I don't have any suggestions other than getting a golf cart and pimping it out with loofahs, pineapples, flamingos, and every other swinger symbol, and drive around in it daily. Extra points if you add pink fringe to the roof.