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My posting took a strange direction. NO RAPE FANTASY!!! I wasn’t looking for anything close to be called rape, real or fantasy. Don’t be offended, I looked for a hard fuck, a different fuck, an exciting experience with a new man and going further outside my real me with a woman. In the movie she was a prostitute having random sex. I’m not a prostitute I just wanted random exciting sex. My husband is wonderful talking about how we can go outside our norms. Our meeting is for sex not for friendship. I was attracted to a look that is not a look I usually am attracted to. Last night things went fast with very little getting to know time. I was not the usual me, I didn’t care. Fifteen minutes after meeting I was ready. I was open telling him I wanted hard and aggressive. My husband and the wife wanted watch both nude. He lived up to my wants not my expectations. I wanted to howl like in the movies, I didn’t. He kept going about 10 minutes of very hard thrusting, I enjoyed up to the time he ran out of steam. I can tell he sensed I was completely satisfied, asking if I enjoyed. Then the lookers got busy my husband slightly more aggressive from our normal. I am not a voyeur or an exhibitionist, it is still normalizing the new lifestyle. Step 2, I wanted her to take me orally as they did in the movie. She got me. I felt I needed to reciprocate. I felt like I did it right by the way she responded. Rest time, small talk and one more time. This time, all four of us on the bed with Ladies Up. Cowgirls, this time I was the controller and this time very satisfied. Hard aggressive was fun if not great, it was different, something that we all wanted. Every person is different, the reason for us to meet others.

You and your husband seem to be on the same wavelength, a very good one. But this caught my attention: I love, love, love it when David or Red (both in great shape) tell me about a woman who he'd like to fuck, or he thinks I'd enjoy fucking, or even better, someone he'd want to watch me have sex with. They just don't do it enough.

I think one of the perks of the Lifestyle is the freedom to experiment with people and situations outside your norm. Be adventurous. Push your boundaries. Usually you find there was nothing to be afraid of. Was the movie "Poor Things"?

A hard no (pun intended). We had a six person hot tub for 11 years. Loved it. Great social/warm up/ice breaker. We normally did not allow clothing (washers leave a lot of soap and softeners when done and dried unless you soak them thoroughly after wash, before use) The chemicals tend to dry skin making things rough. Makeup melts and washes in the tub water requiring special cleaning and refilling the hot tub. touching kissing sensual frolicking is fine. Also unless you like the taste of the chemicals a cool rinse off is highly suggested.

I understand, I'm not into stranger sex at all. But I do like being "used," the one chosen over two other women in our family to simply satisfy a man's desire for an orgasm and ejaculation. This usually happens as a morning quickie. The best times for me are when I'm pulled aside by one, then the other, solely for their sexual release. It's very flattering and satisfying for me, even though the reason may be that Clair and Lora are not readily accessible. Genuine lovemaking comes later. BTW, I also sometimes desire aggressive Lesbian sex. Anyone else?

Juan24, you bring up some really good points. Thank you. I've never been one for rape fantasies, nor have I been with women who've expressed that they have such fantasies. I found this article on the Psychology Today site: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sexual-self/202101/understanding-and-indulging-in-rape-fantasy It answers some of the questions you ask.

Poor Things with Emma Stone Worried adds excitement to the unknown every time we meet anyone new. We are still getting used to initial flutters, our first time having sex, just getting naked took time adding to the excitement. I figure most people looking on a swingers site are more hardcore, we are still newbies, our first was only months ago. I want restrained aggressiveness, not painful, pleasurably aggressive. We are married six years with half during the pandemic, plenty of role play. We had many laughs about the Amazon delivery knew about packages. My husband can be aggressive sexually and very satisfying in a predictable way. That sounds bad, it’s not. He is also an avid gym goer who looks at asses on the elliptical and enjoys telling me about it. He also tells me about some real gym rats that would “fuck me good”. We are open about wants and sexy talk, he knows because I told him about my feelings with the few we met. The excitement of newness and the unknown. FaceTime with the woman has gotten me even more wanting to meet. I think she won’t be afraid that something extra I want. Please have the reality meet the anticipation.

I wish that we lived in a world where showing our bodies, including openly having sex in front of others, and discussing sex lives was as normal as talking about food and eating with others. But alas, it isn't and doing so would have serious social and legal consequences. Otherwise, I would love to discuss and display the sexual aspects of myself with others. But if the world were open to it and everyone did it, no one would be interested in my body, my sexual performance, or my sex life.

I don't have any suggestions other than getting a golf cart and pimping it out with loofahs, pineapples, flamingos, and every other swinger symbol, and drive around in it daily. Extra points if you add pink fringe to the roof.

My wife says that she's never had a cock that she couldn't orgasm with.

I never saw a cock Honey couldn’t handle even when I thought it was huge. I sometimes have penis envy when it comes to size even when it is not any bigger. Honey had a man who watched her fuck and looked for above average cocks. I’ve watched too as she cowgirled and always went all the way down.

I'm not close to being a deep throater, so even a normal dick isn't going in my mouth all the way, just most of the way. But guys don't complain, I work it good then they want my pussy.

Size matters only if it is way larger not a thing that happens often. Someone said i had a fetish looking for monster cock. We would pick up men just to have oral sex with larger ones. For length, never a problem i learned how to relax, no gag reflex. If you think about it an average penis will reach the back of your throat so most women who can take the full length overcame the gag reflex. A fat cock can be a problem if you cant relax your jaw because a mouth only can open a finite amount. My problems were thick and were brutal.

Average is the definition of being in the middle. I have played with a 9” penis for as long as I remember. Always hard, gives be great pleasure, never hurt me and goes on for hours or until the batteries die. IRL my cervix has been safe, my uvula is another story.

1970's versions of hot tubs especially those made soley of wood were never safe. Today's modern hot tubs/spas can be made much safer especially if certain types of ozonator systems are installed. The vert best are those that have factory ozone chambers that infuse the water from multiple regions of the tub. Ozone once injected into the water has a lifespan that expires immediately upon the gas reaching the surface. This is why you need a good ozone system that constantly dumps ozone into your hot tub/spa. A dealer installed system is good, but not the very best. However, no amount of ozone is going to help against poor water maintenance which includes not just the use of chemicals but also draining and refilling the spa regularly. To the occassional users, we recommend draining and restarting chemistry about 3-4 months, no longer. The water becomes too easily imbalanced and imbalanced water will not sanitize properly or, hold its ph norm. Be careful adding too much of the Insparation frangance and moisturizer. A little is wonderful. Smells good, feels good. But, it can lead to a false sense of assuredness that penetration will also be smooth and non drying. Not the case. Thread members that suggest vaginal insertion is not recommended in our opinion are absolutely correct. Even if the bacteria is DOA, the chemistry of a spa is just not the same as the ph of the vaginal tract. Add to that, users need to clean their filters often. The filter holds EVERYTHING and water passes over and through it all the time. It just makes sense to keep the filter as clear and clean as possible. It is easy to do so. We offer this information not only as users, but we are also sellers of spas. We have several lifestyle folks that have purchased our spas and they dump their water, clean their filters, and check their chemistry much more often than vanillas. The smart ones enjoy the foreplay and move on to high ground.

I have been to swingers hot tub and had no issues as long as people aren't fuking in them. I recently went to a swingers resort in Orlando for an event. Mind you I haven't had sex in over a year and 6 months. I was tested 2x since my last sexual encounter and didn't participate during the event bc i was part of the event for the evening. I used the hot tub and as the night went on people started fucking in it. I was having no symptoms but I went to get tested anyways bc I had heard you can get other icky shit from swingers club hot tubs...guess who popped for chlamydia? First time in 14 years. So if people are fucking in the tub do not go in. I didn't even know this was possible bc everything online says it's not. I work from home and hardly have human contact in general and yet somehow after 1.5 yrs of being completely abstinate, I took 1 dip in a public swingers resort hot tub and got chlamydia. I'm livid. I'm SO careful with my body. I get tested before and after every partner. I make sure my partners are also tested regularly. Imagine my confusion when I got my results. I'm living proof you can get an sti from a hot tub if people are fucking in it.

Yeah. Didn’t you post you were hurt by a pickup? Glad to see you are back