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We did Haulover a few years back and connected with an awesome couple.

Thank you all for the suggestions and encouragement! It is beautiful here. Haulover is a good idea, get a free preview.

I don't know if you have seen the movie Sex, Lies, and videotape , but I would like to hear from you to see how many of you would be interviewed on tape by yourself in a open ,no holds barred interview about your sexual history one on one with the interviewer. Would you be comfortable enough to get naked and masturbate in front of the interviewer just as in the movie? Let me hear your views.

As the wife always used to say, Size matters, but only in regard to hot fudge sundaes.

So eight and a half years later I'll give you the updated version of how all this ended up: Me and Red: Still happily married even after being enlisted as full time parents (after my ex-wife died in 2018) which completely killed any swinging activities up through and until now 2024 when last adult child moved out of our household. Ex-husband of SW: met a very nice woman completely opposite of SW in early 2016. We attended their wedding in late 2017. They just moved away from his old town last year 2023 ridding themselves of being in proximity to SW and SW's bar haunts. SW: Sadly her problem turned out to be full blown alcoholism. We learned all this from her Ex-husband until he recently left that town as SW still would try to mooch from him and his new wife New wife stopped her (SW) from doing that shit - COLD! SW had lost her job due to a DWI arrest but was old enough to retire on very little social security. We saw the DWI mug shot online. She was still living in the Ex-husband's house selling anything not tied down until Ex-husband paid her to leave so he could get his house back. Over several years SW ended up wearing out her welcome from staying at several "friends" houses as a "roommate" becoming nasty abd getting kicked out because of her alcohol problems. Ex-husband said she was homeless in an encampment or staying in flop motels with other homeless people. At one point in about early 2022 SW (now in her early 70s) gets into an argument at a dive bar with two much younger women (ages 31 & 36), pulls a small knife out on them (per security video) and gets a huge beat down from the two young women as they disarm her. SW is arrested for a bunch of charges (aggravated assault, disorderly conduct, drunk in public, etc.) and pulls a very sad mug shot online with 2 black eyes and various contusions on her face and neck. The two other women were not charged as witnesses and security video said/ showed that they were acting justified doing that to disarm her. And SW is/was apparently known by police officers around there for gaving been trespassed from other dive bars per the police report. Sigh, so sad... Ms. Fargo: Never saw her again after that night.

ACCEPT. I strongly suspect. those who knew you and might imagine a chance to participate.

I wish that we lived in a world where showing our bodies, including openly having sex in front of others, and discussing sex lives was as normal as talking about food and eating with others. But alas, it isn't and doing so would have serious social and legal consequences. Otherwise, I would love to discuss and display the sexual aspects of myself with others. But if the world were open to it and everyone did it, no one would be interested in my body, my sexual performance, or my sex life.

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Both Ms. Gold and myself are still hindered with 'ethics clauses' in our employment contracts. Six more weeks and I won't have to worry about that any longer, but we still will have a rather public persona because of our other business and don't want this cat to get out of the bag...

For us to be intimate after sex with another man is not to reclaim her and to change his sperm with mine, but rather exactly the opposite: to enjoy and welcome his sperm inside her together and simply share the feel of the previous sex afterwards and to cool down.

If you are from the Villages in Florida colored loofahs are a thing. You will see them flying from residents golf carts. Each color indicates a preference for all types of lifestyle communities, in addition to indicating your sexual orientation.

For sure I want to signal my sexual preferences to random motorists. (But why not go with tradition and fasten a pink flamingo and a pineapple to the roof of your car.) Actually, when I was a college freshman (and stupidly impetuous) I was riding with two friends back from Maine to Boston at the end of a winter long weekend. On the Maine Turnpike I noted a cute young woman behind the wheel of a car in the next lane over we were slowly passing. There were two pre-adolescent girls in the front seat with her, looking too old to be her kids but too young to be her sibs. I stuck my head and shoulders out the window and motioned for her to pull over on the shoulder of the Turnpike. We exchanged phone numbers and I dated her all of spring semester until her boyfriend came back from a junior year abroad in Germany. So, yeah, maybe I could pick up a swinger couple on the New Jersey Turnpike. 😉😂

We share our love with others out of love for our relationship and because we make good choices in the men who sleep with her, it is natural for us to accept a possible fertilisation and the child as a gift to us, regardless of whose sperm it comes from.

Methodist Pastor David Barnhart: "The unborn” are a convenient group of people to advocate for. They never make demands of you; they are morally uncomplicated, unlike the incarcerated, addicted, or the chronically poor; they don’t resent your condescension or complain that you are not politically correct; unlike widows, they don’t ask you to question patriarchy; unlike orphans, they don’t need money, education, or childcare; unlike aliens, they don’t bring all that racial, cultural, and religious baggage that you dislike; they allow you to feel good about yourself without any work at creating or maintaining relationships; and when they are born, you can forget about them, because they cease to be unborn. You can love the unborn and advocate for them without substantially challenging your own wealth, power, or privilege, without re-imagining social structures, apologizing, or making reparations to anyone. They are, in short, the perfect people to love if you want to claim you love Jesus, but actually dislike people who breathe. Prisoners? Immigrants? The sick? The poor? Widows? Orphans? All the groups that are specifically mentioned in the Bible? They all get thrown under the bus for the unborn.

We are not swingers, per se, but a poly family. But before that I was just a slutty newlywed with a boyfriend Red and had just gotten comfortable with hubby David playing. Red didn't care to play, just have sex with me. An accidental pregnancy is what created our poly family. Our live-in girlfriend Clair got pregnant by David despite being on birth control. She was upset and offered to have an abortion to keep us "as is" in our relationship. It took me about two seconds of thinking about it to decide that there was no reason not to start having children. We took the rest of the day off from work, she took three or four pregnancy tests, we cried together and decided that I would try to get pregnant as soon as possible so we could have our children as close together as possible. I stopped taking my pills that day. We told David and Red and both were overjoyed. I had sex with both David and Red and got pregnant within a couple of months. We are all extremely pro-choice, and this was our choice, the right decision.

We started out with the two of us and a single unicorn female before moving on to swapping with couples and giving single men a chance! After all these years we have been talking recently about what if anything we still want from this lifestyle. It is looking like swapping and other men all together are probably going to be taken off the plate by her choice. It seems we might just be all but leaving the lifestyle except if a unicorn happens to pop up again or a couple with a bi wife that is only looking for the girls playing with each other does. Guys including many married men from couples have just been a big let down for her far too often. She is more than happy with me being the only guy from now on. I also could really care less about fucking other women. I just end up wanting her more.

Yes, I actively pursued this before and after my divorce. Just realizing time moves on and I missed a lot of opportunities when younger. The first was a woman who pursued me in high school, but I didn't think was a good idea. (I had many other serious issues going on as well.) As I was going through my divorce, we talked through Facebook, leading to phone calls. We live across the country, but when my divorce was done and I had some free time, we met and things moved right where I'd hoped. She was still married but he had moved out (he was abusive). She'd put on a lot of weight, but still had the same beautiful eyes. Several great hours together, all over her house. Second woman is a year older than me, so a year ahead in school. Very outspoken and intimidating to me then. But we connected on Facebook as I was at last getting the divorce. She'd been divorced twice and had lots of great advice, and was a great support. Hours-long phone calls. Also across country, but she flew up to see me. One thing led to another and we didn't leave her hotel room for a day. The next day we went to a LS club; she'd been a nudist but hadn't ever been swinging. She loved the experience, even though she stayed with me. She went home happy. Over the next two years, when I traveled to her, we had some great afternoons. One intensely emotional point came up with both women: why didn't we get together? Look, pointing to pictures hanging, these could have been our kids. We'd still be making them. Crying, mostly about they'd made bad choices and kept ending up with abusive men, which was why they stopped at two kids. Just a lot of emotion all coming out at once. I'm grateful for all the therapy I had, as we were able to talk through it all. Still on good terms with them both. There's something amazingly satisfying about curling the toes of a girl you'd stupidly missed out on twenty-five years before. Double thrill if it's on her husband's side of the bed!

My husband and I do not live in the town nor state that we grew up in. So just last year after not being around a long time I went back to visit while my husband stayed and worked. I got invited to one of my old BFFs birthday partys. I told my husband and he said if something comes up to go ahead and play if I wanted to. At the party I was drinking and alot of old classmates where talking to me. By the later hours I was feeling good and horny and a few of the guys kept flirting. I ended up having sex with three of them at different times throughout the party

My regrets aren't the guys I didn't have sex with, it is the girls.

We met a couple for drinks and the wife formerly worked for another business in my office building. I didn’t recognize her from her online pictures. We knew each other well, told that to our partners. Her partner said this is so taboo, we have to do it. We did and it was a memorable session for us. No encore, though the other boyfriend and I stay in touch.

The first high school reunion I went to was the 30th. I had been married and divorced, and lived about 500 miles away. Several of the women I had dated in high school were there and some of them were flirting with me. There was one woman I had dated the summer before I went off to college, and while we did not have sex we did some very hot and heavy petting that summer. We traded phone numbers and she told me to give her a ring the next time I was going to be in town. Several weeks later I was in the area on business and gave her a ring. She suggested that we meet for lunch in town about half-way to the city I was working in. We did, and she let me know that she was free for the rest of the afternoon. After lunch we went to my hotel and had several sessions of fantastic sex before she said she had to go home and fix dinner for her husband. That started a three year affair of get togethers about once a month. We were both in our early 50s and so she did not have to worry about getting pregnant. Every time we parted she left with her pussy full of my cum. Several times we arranged things so we could spend several days together and they were like honeymoon period, all we did was fuck, eat, and sleep. Her husband got sick and she felt guilty about our affair. So, by mutual agreement we stopped. Never expected to have so much fun at 50!

Thanks for all these great responses. To some extent I have reached a conclusion that sex within the lifestyle is the key. When we share sex within the lifestyle that is what it is SEX. The idea is to enjoy that sex and go to any level that all are comfortable with. The sexual experience shouldn't migrate out of the relationship. The feelings that are generated should be enjoyed, for the moment. That is what my wife felt, a great time from an adventurous experience we both agreed to enter and she had the confidence and trust in our relationship to share her feeling about the level of pleasure she reached with someone else. Had the same discussion occurred and she described an affair I would not be forgiving. So keeping it in the lifestyle perspective and honestly caring about each other can lead to great fulfilling experiences.

This happens in more than just swing venues and swing situations. We used to belong to a car club. One of the members was a control freak. Although the club rules required that new officers had to be elected on a two-years basis, the club president always seemed to be her hand-picked tool. The downfall happened when one of the members sustained a moderately severe injury during a club-sponsored event and found legal representation. That's OK, said the club vice-president. The club has liability insurance. Wrong! The queen bee had told the hand-picked treasurer to cancel the insurance in order to save money. That is when the membership learned that if insurance did not cover, every member of the club would me named in a legal action to recover medical cost. The queen bee is now the queen parahiah.