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And if you’re not sure they’re clean … wash ‘em! ;-D

(take with a grain of salt; guy speaking here) I don't think it should set of alarm bells. Everybody has a kink here or there. None of us are 'normal' (whatever the hell that means). If they're clean, I don't see the harm.

Trying too hard to make it work is certainly a concern. Consider though; this isn't a romantic relationship per se, even though you might play with them for years. I mean, you might fall in love with them (you and your husband both). But, even with that it's not a standard relationship. You don't have to make everything work well. You don't have to agree on finances, who does what chores, who's doing the errand that needs to be done tonight, etc. One of the pleasures of this lifestyle is that you only have to figure out how to click sexually (if you play with them once or many times) and as friends (if you play with them many times). It's less complex :) Enjoy it for what it is, and don't stress too much about whether it's "perfect"; you'll never find that. It's a bit like an age old definition of a relationship; what their quirks are don't annoy you and vice versa. Everyone has quirks. Except in this case, the set of possible things that could be quirks that might annoy you are less because there are fewer things you have to worry about.

As the wife always used to say, Size matters, but only in regard to hot fudge sundaes.

lol! Love it, and I love the attitude of it. My husband often requests I go without, especially when the weather gets warmer, but I enjoy getting dressed up. A nice tight fitting dress, not too revealing but enough, and something sexy underneath. First off, my boobs are too big to go without a bra, but I have a wonderful collection of lingerie, and I love to tease, letting people see what’s going on without showing too much. I’m very much of a lace girl. I have my “sunday morning” comfies, but every other day of the week I’m wearing something sexy.

It would be a problem for me. I rarely wear underwear.

Thank you. I’m better now.

I don’t brag! I’m hung like a Horsefly