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Not from my perspective, Numex. He asked for your thoughts on the matter and you shared them candidly and honestly. And I reckon he’s going to ask others their opinions. Some of them may suggest he hire a private detective and have them surveil her. Instead, I hope he takes your advice to heart in proceeding.

Joe and I went behind our spouses' backs to make arrangements. We noticed that David and Shannon will be in NYC during overlapping times and strongly suggested that they get together for some fun. This will be a new combination, those two alone. It already gets me excited thinking about it, fantasizing with David. Joe and I have been texting, sharing our thoughts.

Red and David like the easy access for a quickie of just flipping up the back of my dress or pulling up my skirt. I prefer not having my labia and clit bound up by panties or pantyhose, and like the feeling of air moving. Don't complain, my boobs are too small to need a bra. More easy access though for the guys, I guess. I do wear very plain bras to work and other conservative situations.

It would be a problem for me. I rarely wear underwear.

The first time I went down on Ms Dive's cream pie was on a hunting trip. We were in the camper and I was getting frisky. She said "I haven't cleaned!" I said, "I don't care!"

Hello everyone so before I posted in here about me and my wife turn the possible fantasies into a reality, which we did but now I wanted to ask thoughts of others on something, so we always said it will be with someone we don’t know, but I have a friend who I think wants to fuck my wife he often drops little comments in like jokey about her tits etc and I think given a chance he would want fuck her! Now we we obviously want to get another hook up done sometime soon, would I bring this up to her as in I think he likes you type of thing and see if she reacts to it? As sometimes I think she goes a little flirty with him also? And if she wanted to actually fuck him then let them fuck? I trust him also in a clean sense as my wife would want to go bareback as she prefers that. What are your thoughts? Or should I not let that line get crossed?

Hey, I've wrote this a bunch of times and end's up being super long, so I'm trying again hoping to be shorter lol. Wife and I together 20 years, both 40, marriage- good, sex- good, she had a more conservative upbringing, so for a long time talking about sex was an awkward/ shy subject. I've been interested in MFM and swinging for a while. Recently (over a few months) have watched Naked Attraction together, I started talking about the guys, and after a bit she felt more comfortable to do so also, and had gotten more vocal about who's sexy, who has a nice cock, big cock etc. So I started upping my dirty talk game (talking about a 2nd guy), was well received. So I tried a penis sleeve, well received, bought a nice one, well received (she calls it the delivery driver), I've mentioned seeing guys check her out at the mall and how hot it was, she liked my reaction. Recently I told her about a dream I had about us and a 2nd guy, in the moment she just said "mmmm" and made out with me, later that day she initiated sex with me 3 times🥵. The other day she was at the gym, and out of no where in conversation says she saw a dude checking her out there. I said damn that's hot, she started kissing me and rubbing me though my jeans, I asked if she could see his cock though his shorts and she said she couldn't see cause stuff was in the way but that he was attractive. I said you should of bent over to fix your shoe, and she said yeah I should of! Note she has never said any of this kind of stuff before ever! I saw a spot when we were walking and I said that looks like a good dogging spot, she said what if people saw? I said that's half the fun, she slapped my ass and kissed me giggling. Curious on your thoughts if she's relaxing to the point where the conversation can be brought up? Thanks!

My opinion is that more men are into hotwifing where the husband is an equal partner in putting his wife out there, than cuckolding, which implies the element of humiliation. So when you are discussing your fantasy with your boyfriend, propose it as a joint undertaking in selecting the other guy for you to play with, what you do with him at first [maybe just showing/playing with your tits, giving him a blowjob], whether it's a threesome. Make it fun for him, explore along the way, and if all goes right he'll let you move on to alone play without advanced notice to him. For you that would be treating him as a cuckold, while for him you're just hotwifing. Lifestyle is a cooperative adventure.

Thickhips, as hunterdonNJcouple notes, cuck play is a kind of "advanced" form of ENG (ethical non-monogamy). Based on your post I see no indication that cuckoldry is a fantasy you’ve shared with your boyfriend. I also note that in your post you indicate you believe you are a long way from turning any of your shared fantasies into reality. But either way, perhaps you should judiciously share with your boyfriend that you find cuckoldry fantasy engaging. His reaction will suggest whether this scenario is one that you both will wish to incorporate into your shared fantasy life. (If cuckoldry doesn’t appeal to him, you can still enjoy it privately.) My own entry into my current broader ENG life was through hotwifing, as the other male playing with M/F couples. I never found being a bull attractive, but within the hotwife community cuckoldry is quite prominent. You may wish to check out ourhotwives.org. If the two of you wish to eventually incorporate any of your shared fantasy life into your real lives, this forum is a good place to find answers to your questions and general support.

Well the women that have a bush let me shave them belly button to butthole, I have learned to use Neosporin when shaving them. I have also got pussy hair from my female coworkers when they had groomed themselves and from male coworkers when they shaved their wives. The idea of the collecting pussyhair came from an old Ron Jeremy movie where Ron would shave women and make pussyhair soup.

Your situation is the opposite of the usual "how do I get my wife to swing" question, but my advice is the same as I would give such a husband - let your partner go first. Nothing says that the lifestyle must be symmetric. Tell your boyfriend that you love him and would like for him to have a sexual adventure or two, it would make you happy. Admittedly it's harder for a man to just put himself out there and find a casual sex partner, but when I decided I wanted my husband to play (after two years of him letting me have a boyfriend) I had success setting him up with my female friends and acquaintances. As a married man offered up by his wife, my friends considered him safe, not immoral, and he is attractive. If you are bi, offering that participation will attract some women as well. The long game here is to show your boyfriend the pleasures of the lifestyle and that he'll want you to play too. That wasn't my husband’s goal with me, he was happy sharing me, but I wanted to see him with other women. The other approach is to just tell him of your fantasy and what you want to do. After turning it over in his mind for a while he may go for it. He may be a willing cuckold. Be sensitive to his desires, however; does he want to hear the details or not, meet your sideman or not, be humiliated or praised, have you come home sloppy or clean?

In normal couples-swap swinging things generally play out according to an agreed upon plan with personal boundaries being nudged very gently this way or that way. Cuckoldry, however, is a more advanced (not for newbies) fetish and it sounds like that may be your kink. In cuckoldry it's exciting when an Alpha Bull 'owns' a couple. Basically a couple relinquishes control to the Bull which often involves 'freezing out' the cuckold (possibly even making him wear a chastity device) and taking liberties with the wife that would not sit well in regular couples-swap swinging. Advanced cuckoldry may involve dominance and humiliation directed at the cuckold, sometimes directed at cuckold and wife. With experience the roleplay can get quite intense, but those who gravitate toward this fetish enjoy the rather extreme intensity that cuckoldry can bring. Cuckoldry is a fetish that seems to be growing in popularity but it's not the kind of kink you want to jump straight into. The bag of mixed emotions that comes with it can be too much for those who have never shared their partner before. We are swingers first and foremost, but cuckoldry is our kink and we have enjoyed many nights of decadent pleasure at the hands of of a few talented Bulls.

As far as the panties, they gave them up, but a couple of women wanted me to take them to Victoria's Secret to replace them. As far as the pussy hair, if they had hair they would let me shave them especially if we were going to a Jamaican nude beach. I retired from a factory of 3,000 employees and it was well known that I kept a baggy of pussy hair in my lunchbox.

lol! Love it, and I love the attitude of it. My husband often requests I go without, especially when the weather gets warmer, but I enjoy getting dressed up. A nice tight fitting dress, not too revealing but enough, and something sexy underneath. First off, my boobs are too big to go without a bra, but I have a wonderful collection of lingerie, and I love to tease, letting people see what’s going on without showing too much. I’m very much of a lace girl. I have my “sunday morning” comfies, but every other day of the week I’m wearing something sexy.

One of the most challenging things about this lifestyle is not only understanding that everyone has their kinks, and they are equally as acceptable as my own, but also leaving space for them We are compatible in so many ways with this couple - but also incompatible in many others. We really want this to work because we feel as though we’ve been searching alot, and while we had fun our one night at a club, we have many things we want to explore with people we trust. I just want to make sure we’re not simply wanting it to work so badly, we ignore things that could be problems down the road

What GoldCoCouple said * 1000. Even 10,000. Aww heck make it a million. I'm serious. Having totally open communication is key to successful swinging. It's something you do together. You can't do that without total communication. As GoldCoCouple said, it needs to be without judgement. Be supportive, allow her to explore her fantasies and perhaps help make them come to reality when she is ready. It doesn't sound at all like you are, but you can't talk her into it. You can open doors, let her know you are 100% onboard, but allow her to walk through that mental/emotional door.

Love, trust, communication...work on having as much as possible of all three as any of one helps grow the other two. To be successful lovers, let alone successful swingers, you need all three in abundance. Only you know that for sure, but easiest way is after the trust has been leveled up, talk to her about fantasies...hers AND yours (start with one of yours that is rather simple and take it from there). It sounds like she MIGHT be warming up, but without the trust, without the communication, you might never know. She needs to KNOW that you aren't going to judge her, aren't going to think less of her, aren't going to love her less (in fact, that you will love her more for her being able to share her deepest thoughts and secrets). Take your time, work on making your relationship as great as it can be, and remember...you have the rest of your lives to find out. Good luck and let us know how things are progressing...

I understand, I'm not into stranger sex at all. But I do like being "used," the one chosen over two other women in our family to simply satisfy a man's desire for an orgasm and ejaculation. This usually happens as a morning quickie. The best times for me are when I'm pulled aside by one, then the other, solely for their sexual release. It's very flattering and satisfying for me, even though the reason may be that Clair and Lora are not readily accessible. Genuine lovemaking comes later. BTW, I also sometimes desire aggressive Lesbian sex. Anyone else?

You and your husband seem to be on the same wavelength, a very good one. But this caught my attention: I love, love, love it when David or Red (both in great shape) tell me about a woman who he'd like to fuck, or he thinks I'd enjoy fucking, or even better, someone he'd want to watch me have sex with. They just don't do it enough.

Poor Things with Emma Stone Worried adds excitement to the unknown every time we meet anyone new. We are still getting used to initial flutters, our first time having sex, just getting naked took time adding to the excitement. I figure most people looking on a swingers site are more hardcore, we are still newbies, our first was only months ago. I want restrained aggressiveness, not painful, pleasurably aggressive. We are married six years with half during the pandemic, plenty of role play. We had many laughs about the Amazon delivery knew about packages. My husband can be aggressive sexually and very satisfying in a predictable way. That sounds bad, it’s not. He is also an avid gym goer who looks at asses on the elliptical and enjoys telling me about it. He also tells me about some real gym rats that would “fuck me good”. We are open about wants and sexy talk, he knows because I told him about my feelings with the few we met. The excitement of newness and the unknown. FaceTime with the woman has gotten me even more wanting to meet. I think she won’t be afraid that something extra I want. Please have the reality meet the anticipation.

I wish that we lived in a world where showing our bodies, including openly having sex in front of others, and discussing sex lives was as normal as talking about food and eating with others. But alas, it isn't and doing so would have serious social and legal consequences. Otherwise, I would love to discuss and display the sexual aspects of myself with others. But if the world were open to it and everyone did it, no one would be interested in my body, my sexual performance, or my sex life.

Have you tried role playing in this regard with your husband or any of your play partners? It would be a good way to calibrate the reality with the fantasy. Also, your husband's concern is warranted, but is the plan for him not to be there? Otherwise, them being sexually aggressive with you doesn't seem as worrying as a BDSM situation. Overall though, I agree with you. It is sometimes very satisfying to be on one side or the other of aggressive sex; for me either with another woman, me towards a man, or multiple men towards me.

always go with the assumption a woman has not had this done and doesn't want this done to her. We have been to many Lifestyle clubs and events over the years and I have never spontaneously eaten another man's cum out of a play partner's pussy. Honestly that's an act I reserve for my wife who I know is comfortable with it.

Safety would be my main concern also, if we are talking Mexico or Jamaica. I think doing what you want to do shouldn't be a problem as long as you aren't in public view. You have to realize that these people are extremely poor and will do anything for money and whenever you stay at a resort there is more security than most people see. Whenever I stayed at Couple's San Souci in Ocho Rios, I was walking to the nude beach and saw a huge flatbed truck with cages on the bed and a man was loading the cages with dogs that looked like rottweilers. I asked the man loading the dogs if he had been running them? He laughed and said that was our security and it would be wise not to leave our room after midnight because the dogs run loose on resort grounds. In Mexico, at a Secrets resort we had armed guards walk the hallways at night and stayed by the beach during the day. Just be careful!

I had a phobia and then I did it. I didn’t want to but I did it. My cum. First fuck of the night and I swear it felt like I kept cumming she her pussy was gripping me good. I was drained. Damn if she didn’t sit on my face. Never did this with Lin the closest was kissing after a blowjob.

My experience is, I will talk about filling her up and licking her clean! We talk about all her holes filled at the same time and me licking them clean! Since we haven't tried swinging yet, its all talk and role play! One time she grabbed my head after filling her up a second time in the morning and made me lick all my still hot cum from her, it was freaky and hot at the same time! I think she likes the idea of me licking cum from her one way or another!

Once a woman gets truly 'owned' like that by a Bull things do change. She will act with him in ways she does not act with you. She will even do things for him he doesn't usually do for you. This is a normal aspect of the cuckold dynamic, and the cuckoldress/Bull relationship is not something you can really have in a marriage between husband and wife. Marriages (and other long-term commitments) add baggage and complexity, whereas the cuckoldress/Bull dynamic is meant to be simple, sexual and raw. However, if the mixed feelings can be navigated, it can indeed be a rewarding situation for all involved. It just requires an open mind and a bit of soul searching on your part to determine if cuckoldry can work for you and your lady.

Sounds like some sexy fun times. Call it what you’d like as long as you all enjoyed yourselves. My wife preferred to be dominated more when it came to our extra partner. She even hinted to me that she she might want to be in a one on one situation with him just to see if he was holding back on anything and I obliged. Just wanted to make sure she could let loose. I won’t lie I listened in from outside the door and it was super hot listening to her take total control and she became more of the dom. She was so direct I could hear him saying to her that he couldn’t hold out cumming. It was way hot. Unfortunately she’s only been that direct in situations with him and it hasn’t been replicated. Holding out for future circumstances tho.

Not sure if I can be called a cuck but in my first MFM (wife) my friend and her connected at a different level. He is someone normally she would not be attracted to but in the heat of the moment with wine well they connected sexually in a way that left me on the outside as they fucked. It was like watching a life erotic film that only included me when he looked for permission to enter her from me and her, we nodded and then as he was thrusting he looked again to us if it was ok and where to cum. She told him inside and I was like ok... We ended up getting together again about a year later. This time he played the role of cuck with her, I had a feelng he was planning his moves months ahead. We are not into humiliation but he did cross the border one night. Long story short we were playing and I went down to get a couple more drinks for us. I came up and he was pinning her arms over her head and telling her how much she wanted to fuck him over me. That I did not like... but was frozen in place. As he thrusted he said things like "yeah now I am gonna cum inside you, put my seed in you.." and really talking to her dirty. As he was about to cum, she told him "no..." he kept thrusting, talking dirty and he told her how he was going to cum in her. He moved to the end of the bed so I could see his cock in her... she says "no stop"... and then she looks at him and says.."yes fuck me, put your seed deep in me.." and bam. They finished and he looks at her and says.."clean it up" and grabs her head and lets her suck his cock. She is swallowing his semen like ice cream. Thanks... will I do that again ? No

I am not trying to be a smart ass but please tell me where this went bad. You are using your wife and this other guy to fulfill your cuckold fantasy. Sounds like it went well for you. I used to be a long term play partner for a couple just like you. He would arrange all of these cuckold situations for me and the wife to act out. At times he would leave the two of us alone when I came to visit them in their home, other times I was invited over to their home while he was at work, and I was even allowed to spend the weekend with her once when they were on vacation but he returned home. Eventually, this created problems for the three of us. The wife and I became really good friends and I started viewing it as more of a poly dynamic than anything else. Especially since I ended up becoming one of his close friends and they started involving me in their personal affairs. However, as the relationship progressed I noticed that the husband would exert his position of power as her husband whenever he started to feel uncomfortable. He was never willing to travel to me or allow her to travel to see me alone. If I bought her sexy clothes she would not wear them for fear of disappointing him. If I invited the two of them to go to events with me he always said no and being the good wife that she was she would rarely opt to do anything unless he said yes. I put an end to the relationship because I was fully aware that the husband was using me to fulfill his cuckold fantasies but was unwilling to admit to his wife what his true intentions were. She had told me and a friend that she was no longer romantically attracted to her husband but didn't have the courage to tell him. Also, she told me that many of the men she had been with were because she wanted to be a good wife to her husband but given the choice she wouldn't have had sex with them. The whole situation became very uncomfortable and awkward for me. The point I am trying to make is one that has already been stated. Be careful what you ask for.

I wanted to inform you about a problem we saw in person while in Jamaica that surprised me. While in Ocho Rios on a shopping trip with others from our resort, we had a young interracial couple , she white and he was black that experienced a lot of harrassment. The locals was harassing this young black man for diluting his beautiful black skin. It got so bad they quit shopping and went back to the bus. So heads up!