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How big? Mine is thumb sized when stimulated. I still put in extra fabric in my swimsuits.

I love to have my clit sucked! But I feel, at least with me, that it's very different than sucking cock. Creating the suction around my clit is what really brings me to climax, and it just felt that most times guys would suck me like they liked to get head, and I had several guys take their fingers and try to jerk me off. It all feels good for a bit, but it also feels like they'd just seem some porn movie and were doing it like they saw in that, or would treat my clit like a weird plaything. Until I met my husband, no one really asked what I liked, or how I liked it and no matter how much I tried to direct them, it would always end up the same. My only orgasms were either weak, or I had to take over and do it, or just from masturbation. To this day, I'm a habitual, 2-3 x/day masturbator (some days), only bc it's been a habit for so. long. Re: Body issues. Looking back on it, it was stupid. I have a great body, and despite my large clit, it is most certainly not masculine. I have big boobs, a plump but not fat butt, and I'm in shape and thin. Somehow that didn't translate into "hot" in my mind until my husband really reinforced it. Now I feel great about my body! And I'm learning, slowly, to express myself sexually, rather than not talking about it

Setting up something to be manipulative may sometimes work in business. The potential for disaster is too high, as well as dishonest. In this context. From what you have said David was NOT manipulating you. It has always sounded like David is a truly grounded person, for whom this was a genuine and acceptable option, and not someone playing you with the long game. I was just warning not to do this unless this was the case for the OP.

Have you women with large clitoris, ever took a viagra to watch it swell because of the extra blood flow ?

My clit is maybe longer and thinner than yours, like my index finger from the tip to the second knuckle. It doesn't grow when stimulated, but does get a lot firmer; ok, I'll say it, I get hard. Clair and Lora like it when we scissor. As for any masculine traits, after years of being picked on by my sister for my small outer labia, protruding inner labia and clit ("That's a dick, Petra"), I had myself medically checked out. Everything was normal, average even, despite otherwise looking like an eleven year-old at twenty. (The nurse was still impressed with my cunt.) After my first kid, I never worried about my femininity again, even though I'm now 50/50 bi.

For me it's a combination of sucking and tongue action, stroking and flicking. Nice, whatever gets you there. How many times with another person? I'm pretty regular twice a day - morning quickie with one of the guys and MF or FF or FFM at bedtime. Perfect. I got the "in shape and thin" part but no boobs or butt. I also have always looked much younger than I am, which is good now, but used to attract pervs. Perfect, and it seems that you also have a wonderful husband to help you along.

A small update. Thanks to the prevailing opinion that it's not a big deal, I went with it. We exchanged panties (and bras too, which I thought was a little odd since she is smaller than me) But I wore the panties out to a benefit dinner in San Francisco on Tuesday night. I'll be honest - I really, really thought it was weird, and didn't feel very comfortable with the idea. But....the night ended with me standing in front of our hotel room window, curtains open, masturbating with her panties on. Blame it on the vodka sodas, the giving spirit of the fundraiser, or whatever you like, I ended up enjoying it, and plan on returning them...unwashed. Thanks all for allowing me to share. When I think about my life one year ago compared to now, wow, what a crazy transition!

College then we married and stopped. Now in or 30s we started a year and ago.

Gotcha. The first time i got my wife a 4-hand, undraped massage at home (many years ago) she wanted a real masseur! If you post online that you're seeking a qualified masseur to sensually massage your wife then suddenly everyone is a qualified masseur. So I contacted the local Massage Envy, told them my wife wanted me to set up a massage for her with a strong man who does "deep tissue massage" and they gave me a list of all their masseurs and I had to contact them separately to explain what we wanted. Some were insulted. Others sent me nudes. She was very happy with the one I finally selected.

For Daniela and me, just knowing or seeing and participating in our spouse having sex with someone else is both superficial sexual pleasure and something much deeper. As many people have said here, it intensifies our love and brings us closer together. Even when one of us just goes out for some alone play with one of our partners in our closed group of married couples.

My wife takes no pleasure (or displeasure) from watching me having sex with other women. It just doesn't do anything for her. She's happy that I'm having a good time and enjoying playing with another woman, but outside of that it doesn't do anything for her. It's not porn for me to watch my wife enjoying sex with another man. The reaction I have to porn is completely different than the reaction I have to my wife wrapped up with another man. Ok yes, I've described it before as getting to watch the best porn movie ever, starring your wife. But, it really isn't.

The opera's not over 'till the fat lady ejaculates. Am I mixing my metaphors?