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Clair and I used to have a double ended dildo that was squishy flexible that we used with each other. When one of us tightened and squeezed, the other would feel it. It was a nice once we going and both squeezing.

Way back when……we used to sell adult toys of all kinds. We literally had an over night/weekend travel case that had at the least….3 - 4 dozen various dildos all sizes length, thickness, shape, material, color, smooth, veined, realistic and “what the hell is that”. For our party/club friends to try before buy. it can be a bit pricey but having a variety, length and girth, you can try under playful and stimulated conditions and use a cloth/garment measuring tape. Base your selection of what you know you already enjoy, toy or lover and progress from there. There used to be a pump up that was really interesting sold at the fetish Flea. Once inserted and comfortable being used you can hand pump the bulb allowing it to grow upwards of a 1” - 1.5” length (6” - 8” +/-) and from 5.5” to 7” in circumference. It was made from similar material to an inner tube but thicker. Highly important to cover well with condom for use, never raw. with women it is contingent on timing, not being tense, level of excitement and willingness to participate are just a few issues that would effect the outcome. in our own experiments, unscientifically, in our group a range of up to seven inches long and under six inches circumference was enjoyed by all. Note: used after several minutes of oral then gradually introduced until fully penetrated while giving oral. Orgasms were usually more intense. This came about from regular play sessions then those ladies that desired multiple males but didn’t want someone two big. So it made sense to experiment. There were a few ladies that could/did handle more. Up to ten inches with lots of play/oral but mostly more girth/diameter (6” - 7” around) less length was preferred.

The only cum I don't like eating out of a pussy is my own, and that has everything to do with the fact I just came so the thrill is (temporarily) gone.

Our overall situation has definitely made our relationship better, especially the sex. I love how kinky and sexually active she is.

To be clear, almost all of these videos are while we were together. I just enjoy getting to see the videos or pictures of the experiences when I'm not around. I sometimes find it hotter than actually being there.

I don't think that is the case as she told me afterwards that she didn't know he was going to ask her questions about her sexual history and that she just went with it.

To be honest, I don't feel it helped or hurt our relationship. It was just a fun and interesting experience for all of us.

Yes we still have a copy of it. We keep most of the sex tapes she has made and there are a lot of them.

That's her view on it. Whenever I used to bring it up she would say "everyone has a sex tape somewhere out there." Some of the videos she has made with guys are pretty extreme and intense but she has no shame in them. That doesn't mean she wants them to end up in the hands of all of her immediate family but she really doesn't care or concern herself with it.

Before we’re in life style I was very jealous all the time stupid jealous. Then her best friend moved in with us between houses. I was in bed on a Friday night she and my wife crawled into bed with me and we had a very wierd 3 way. Then a month or so later she brought up the three way and said she liked it but wanted try it with a guy. I figured fair is fair so went out to dinner and dance and after a few drinks she was dancing with a guy who seemed nice enough. They danced and came back to table and she said let’s go to our place and have some drinks. He followed us to our house I made drinks and turned on some music to dance to. After they dance a few dances . He asked to use our bathroom and he was just gone when the wife told me he kept rubbing his cock against her pussy and it was huge!!! I had seen her eating her best friends pussy but I had never seen her getting fucked by a huge dick!! I made more drinks when they stopped dancing I suggested a dip in the hot tub. We all got naked and she was right it was a 10 inches!!! We took the drinks jumped in hot in the tub and Deb started rubbing his big cock. After about 25 mins we ended up in the spare bedroom and watch him slide hat monster into her beautiful pussy then her ass another first!! What a night!!!

Oh I definitely get hard when stimulated. And I like to think of my voice as "sultry" rather than masculine. Other than that, I'm all woman!

We often try to find ways to be intimate with him together; usually, if one of us is in cowgirl position, then the other girls will lie next to him and make out with him, and then we rotate those positions. It is only really during doggystyle that I feel like I want him for myself; I don't feel that way in other situations, but the moment when he penetrates me during doggystyle I get this feeling that "I want this to last forever" kind of thing, although I stop feeling that way shortly afterwards, so it probably isn't anything concerning; I do however notice that I look back at him a lot during those moments, and give him a lot of flirty and seductive looks, and that seems to turn him on a lot, haha. I think I want both types of experiences, to be honest; I do love the MFFF meetings, although sometimes it feels tempting to be alone with him as well. But I am very excited by our MFFF meetings, so I don't think that there is any rush. I guess maybe I might ask him for a one-on-one meeting some time after our next group date; he has a very high sexual drive, so I guess he will not mind.

I made a "secret" video once, but this was before the internet (Thank GOD!!) One of my partners was obsessed with my large clitoris, and really all the video is is 15 minutes of me playing with it in different ways. I hated doing it, but ultimately was fine with it because 1) I never came close to showing my face (and all you can hear of me is my (sometimes fake) moaning and 2) I had such a poor image of myself, with very low self esteem, I thought I was doing it to please my partner, and at that point in my life I would do anything to do that. It took me years to realize what an ape he really was. Now, I secretly hope I get recorded one of these days when I flash, but not really!

For David and me, it was pretty simple. He said, didn't ask, "You're still sleeping with Red." I thought this was our breakup. Then he said, "I want you to know that I'm ok with it." Not long after, David said we should marry. We did and Red came along for the ride. Our relationships weren't planned in advance, but worked out. That's why I believe it's better to go into a relationship as ENM, not trying to pry open a monogamous one.

Yes, but start by putting it in a way that gives something to your spouse first, and doesn't make them feel inadequate. You want see your spouse enjoying someone else, not that you want to have sex with another person. If the first happens, the second follows.

Understood. At some point start a "real talk" conversation about a small, comfortable "sex talk" topic that had come up, one that you think your boyfriend would move along. Something along the lines of "Hey, we talked about a threesome with Mike and Mary. I really like her tits and would want to watch you play with them." Something very non-threatening for him, and see what he says. Baby steps.

Allow me to offer another contrarian opinion: he is hoping, wanting his wife to be playing, somehow knows that you and your wife are in the lifestyle, and wants advice on how to open up the conversation with her.

Instead of suggesting he 'confront her' (which almost always ends up being a bad thing), you made him think of things from a different viewpoint. The suggestion about showing her a bit more affection is never a bad thing as well. I'm sure that he found your advise unusual compared to what he expected or has been hearing from others he has asked (and I'm sure he has asked others), the advice you gave will not lead to things taking a bad turn. Any advice that keeps thing from going to a bad place is usually (IOHO) good advice...

@Numex I tend to feel the same, and have actually given similar (albeit ignored) advice. My thinking tends to be that extramarital affairs are actually an opportunity to make a change to the relationship rather than throw it out entirely. Mind you my thinking is shaped by 25 happy years in an ENM marriage, but I feel like if your wife is having affairs then maybe it's time to think about open marriage or the other ENM options. Granted this thinking horrifies some ppl 😄

Thank you. I’m better now.

I think one of the perks of the Lifestyle is the freedom to experiment with people and situations outside your norm. Be adventurous. Push your boundaries. Usually you find there was nothing to be afraid of. Was the movie "Poor Things"?

I had a phobia and then I did it. I didn’t want to but I did it. My cum. First fuck of the night and I swear it felt like I kept cumming she her pussy was gripping me good. I was drained. Damn if she didn’t sit on my face. Never did this with Lin the closest was kissing after a blowjob.

No, that's the mean.

I've never personally seen 12 inches but I know they're out there and so are the size queens who want them. Neither are "average" people, but they absolutely exist. I'm average but almost every SM we've played with has been above average - noticeably bigger and thicker than me sometimes by a little, sometimes by a lot. But still never saw 12 inches.

Very true. One can let loose and not be distracted. Even after all this time I still am wildly jealous. But I love the feeling, I am addicted.

I have dated several married women, often hotwives, that I am happy to leave cream filled for the husband.

I love doing this. I’ve only done it a couple of times but those are times I’ll never forget. I was 69 ing with a girlfriend while my buddy was banging her. When he came it along with her juices oozed out onto my face and in my mouth. It tasted and smelled so good. It was intoxicating. There’s nothing like a cock and pussy cum cocktail.

I love cleaning up other guys cream pies, tend to lose the urge of cleaning up my own just after cuming, best is cleaning up after wife's lover has cum in her, then slipping in for silky seconds, all the better if our friend is into cream pie eating, if he cleans up after me then goes again it can go on all night lol.

We have arranged gangbangs on two occasions and hope to have our third in January. I very much like the attention, the sexual pleasure that many men can provide, and the slightly overwhelming feeling (in that order). I am also what you might call a 'pleaser' which is also a big part of the turn-on.

Every female I've ever been with goes crazy when I go down on them after cumming inside them. My ex-wife and I started swinging early in our marriage. One day I came home and I went down on her. While I was lapping away she told me her 'lover' came in her not more than an hour ago. I almost came in my pants!

We enjoy something similar IRL. When my wife has come home from a quick encounter with one of our play partners, I'll be horny as hell. So I eat her for a short while until I can't stand it, take sloppy seconds, then calmly give her another orgasm licking her double sloppy pussy.

Very happy to see I'm not alone with this desire. The thought of eating her out after another guy comes inside of her gets me very excited. I told her about it a few years ago and we worked it into our fantasy/role playing. I'll come inside her and she'll get dressed and pretend she just came home from fucking a guy she met in the bar and I'll eat her out

After I ate my wife after I came in her, she married me.

This! My girlfriend loves when I eat her pussy creampies fresh out of her. Immediately after our fuckbuddy takes his cock out, she squats on my face as it drips out and I eat it all. She usually queefes his jizz right out into my mouth if I spread her lips open. It is even more fun because he cums a ton so it is dripping everywhere. And laying under her is great, I like to see his cock when he takes it out.

Laura and I have been in the Lifestyle for some time, and I never grow tired of her being fucked by one or more guys who can dump their cum in her, and when she wants me to clean her, I have grown used to it, and find it gets better with time, to now I welcome it. Dave

Can't say the thought has "not" crossed my mind, but usually I lose interest after the deed is done no matter how turned on I am. However I do admit that seeing another man´s cum pour out of my wife's pussy was a VERY VERY erotic sight, as much so as seeing him cum and her orgasm (like watch a great movie).

If it's okay with you, have her throw that leg over my head and settle herself right down on my mouth. I will do my best to clean her up and make her cum in the process.

My husband loves to eat my pussy while another man is fucking me. When the man cums I sit up over his mouth and give him a very wet cream pie. I also like doing that with another woman while a man is fucking her. Deb

Hammerhead here, the wife and the male half of a couple we play with used to be co-workers.... we never played together because thats both couples rules, no co-workers! brings too much trouble with it! That being said, we were close friends and have a lot of fun together. Then when they transfered to a city close by, IT WAS ON!!!! No longer co-workers! Been having fun together ever since and boy was it worth the wait!

should read exploded not explored (bad typing)