Jump to content

Leaderboard


Popular Content

Showing content with the highest reputation on 04/03/2024 in all areas

  1. 2 points
    We originally started as FWB, so we had a few that first year or 2. Then by the time we put an official title on the relationship we were already deep into the lifestyle by that point. So, if we're going by the first year we were officially a couple, and we're including hotwifing activities, then it's definitely over 20. We were extremely active at that time.
  2. 1 point
    I was wondering where people do their swinging activities / play. Do most of you do it at your home? A hotel? Other people's homes? Hubby and I are curious. We still have young adult kiddos living in our home. I would love to have my boyfriend come over whenever he wants to come over but I am always having to make sure I know what all my family members schedules are. How do you all do it?
  3. 1 point
    Hotels, mostly on vacation. House parties occasionally in special circumstances. have done the club thing occasionally too. A nude beach once...whoops. And quite a few times in the back of a car after a night out at a "normal" nightclub/bar.
  4. 1 point
    Hiding in plain sight is best. Short answer, house parties, others homes, hotels, club party, other swinger groups. Our closest friends and lovers were included with family and friend events we would make sure they knew it was vanilla/family/friends events. No problem. And that way we didn’t have to concoct any story or alibi. Just normal conversations.
  5. 1 point
    I respectfully disagree with you. In a truly vanilla marriage the biggest problem for the male in a situation like this is the lack of honesty. One of the first questions a husband tends to ask of their unfaithful wife is, "Do you still love me?" And in the situation we're talking about here, another question is likely to be a shocked, "You're a fucking lesbian?!?!? No, the husband, I think, is going to be initially shocked and concerned that his marriage is in jeopardy. I wouldn't matter in most cases, I think, the sex of the lover, but the fact that there is a lover. Now after the husband cools down, and they have the inevitable talks, the husband might feel that a girl/girl experience might be less harmful. After all, he thinks, at least she didn't have another dick in her! And then, the discussions may morph into an acceptance of the dynamic, and might actually lead the couple into swinging or hotwifing. But it takes time for the hurt party to go from one perspective (the one society has drummed into his/her head) to the perspective that Ethical Non-Mongamy might not be the end of the world.
  6. 1 point
  7. 1 point
  8. 1 point
    for our first yeear it was only 2 guys, but one of them was a repeat customer after drunken nights at the bar 😛
  9. 1 point
    That's why I didn't say anything negative since every thread has the potential to help somebody at some time. I was just pointing out that we've been here, done this...and for future visitors, remember, search is your friend...
  10. 1 point
    I would say not yet as my partner Matt is big for me considering Anal with him but have done sloppy vaginally with hubby Tomy and Matt.
  11. 1 point
    I suppose that makes sense. We've always just considered sloppy seconds as having her after she has been freshly fucked. And I don't think we're the only ones who think of it that way. Other guys have thrown around that term "sloppy seconds" even though they didn't cum inside of her.
  12. 1 point
    Well, we all have our dreams, don't we? Who's to say his is any weirder than any of ours? Still, the chances of him getting what he's looking for are about as good as him personally finding WALL-E roaming around Venus. But, there's zero chance if he doesn't try. Two thumbs up for trying.
  13. 1 point
    I didn't get it for a long time. I still don't fully understand it. The choking thing is really not my thing even though my GF loves it. I don't understand the appeal there. Even hair pulling sounds painful but my GF says that when it happens during sex it's not as painful for her. She loses certain painful sensations that actual arouse her during sex. If you pull her hair during sex she loves it. If you pull it outside of sex play or initiating sex play she'll punch you in the face.
  14. 1 point
    This all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo. When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it. So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure. One night after some really hot sex I questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said, "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer." So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?" I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request. The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her. She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back! After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen. I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him. A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen. When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight. Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show. Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge. They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left. Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
  15. 1 point
    I think one of the perks of the Lifestyle is the freedom to experiment with people and situations outside your norm. Be adventurous. Push your boundaries. Usually you find there was nothing to be afraid of. Was the movie "Poor Things"?
  16. 1 point
    Sometimes the spouse not being there, alone play, is a good experience for all.
  17. 1 point
    We love the natural way of lovemaking with all the components that go with it. If my wife wants a man she wants him normally bare. This is a natural desire. We don't want to have contact with someone we have to protect ourselves from. When she's about to open her legs wide for him, she wants feel him and normally wants to get his semen inside, like it is naturally intended.
  18. 1 point
    When my wife was in her single days of having relationships with cheating married men, she said that they treated her like a treasure and with respect, that's why she preferred them. They not only got sex, sometimes kinky sex, that they didn't get at home, they also got understanding conversation, empathy, and encouragement that they didn't necessarily receive. That's also why we prefer our group of married couples who we play with now. It's not just a quick fuck and goodbye, there is genuine feelings and appreciation between us and the people we fuck. It doesn't both me that my wife will exchange I love you's with one of the guys, he appreciates her and doesn't treat her a a quick fuck whore. He cares.
  19. 1 point
    So many the first couple years we lost count (not that we were really counting anyway). After kids we slowed down, but the 4 years in the LS prior to kids were absolutely full of clubs, parties, lifestyle resorts.... the whole shebang. If i could relive any 4 years of my life lol
  20. 1 point
    Yes went well tbh I had a raging hard on which my wife then decided to get off and ride me while taking his cock in her mouth again which was damn hot no repeat that night after everything was ok though my wife has asked when we should head around again as she did enjoy getting fucked hard and dirty by him i asked if they mentioned condoms at all he said do they need one for it which she said no let’s fuck bareback which he was also then happy about theres been no weirdness at all so all good
  21. 1 point
    My wife, Tits, worked for a medium-sized company. It had the owner/president, Vice President COO, General Manager, and Vice President of Sales, her boss, Nick. Recently a fifth person., the DOD Sales Manager, had left the company. I will let Tits what happened... Nick had put me in for the position. When I got to work today, Nick called me into his office and said he told the management team wanted to interview me. They wanted to meet me tonight after work at The Meeting Room. This was an upscale restaurant downtown in the tallest building in our little city. I was very excited because it was so swank!! Nick told me later to go home and get ready for tonight's interview. He told me to wear a white blouse and black slacks but to dress to impress. I got home, showered, trimmed, and picked out my clothes. I picked a purple pair of thong underwear along with a sheer camisole with no bra. I have DD tits and they looked great in my cammy. I picked out a white, but not too business, blouse but left the top three buttons undone for cleavage. The slacks were my best silk pants. Just long enough to be perfect with my heels. On my way to the restaurant I called my hubby to explain what was going on and I have a chance to get a management position that paid six figures. He was excited and told me I had earned this opportunity and to knock‘em dead!!! I arrived at the meeting room and was excited. We had never been here before and I was told it was very expensive. I walked through the door and was surprised that it was a very large bar and dining hall but upstairs there were five doors. Nick came from the bar and told me I looked great and told me we were meeting with the inner circle of upper management . They were Hal Greene, owner and President; Bill Whaley,VP; Randy Cline, Chief Operations Manger; Nick; and myself. Nick had been DOD Sales Manager for 10 years and I have been his assistant for seven years. After getting into the private room upstairs, the waiter brought in some sparkling water and a nice bottle of Dom on ice. After the waiter left and we settled in to the interview I was told this position was considered a management position and paid $80,000 a year plus bonuses. This position was level with Nick but I would work very closely with him until I learned the ropes. Hal then spoke up and told me I was the number one candidate and that the team felt very comfortable with me but had to be assured that I could move in step with the others. This was to show the non inner circle management and the other 153 employees that as a manager team we are are a solid wall and we move as one. Many of the deals we make are confidential and what happens here must stay here even from our family. "Can you do that Debbie (my real name)?" Hal asked. I told them I would do what ever it takes. "Fantastic," said Hal and they clapped. He said, "Get the waiter and let’s eat and drink!!" After a fantastic meal we opened the champagne and had many drinks. We soon got to business and started to discuss contracts. About a half an hour later the room seem to get warm. Hal stood first, checked the thermostat, and then removed his dress shirt and hung it on a chair, followed by Randy, Bill, and Nick. I sat for a minute, then stood and removed my blouse and hung it on chair, the management team moving as one. Bill said don’t call a repair guy, we are almost done. 15 minutes later Randy got up and removed his slacks and hung them on a chair. He was followed by the rest of the guys, so I stood up and followed suit. Looking at Nick I could tell he was nicely hung as were the others, but Hal was wearing briefs and it looked like he was hiding a squirrel in his shorts! I was sure they were looking at my g-string now wet!! They soon removed their undershirts and I my cammy and was now topless with very hard nipples and even more wet!!!! After a few more drinks Hal stood up and removed his briefs and stood before me with a huge veiny cock. He took my hand and turned me around and pulled down my g-string and sat me down on his huge cock. The rest of the team gathered in front of me playing with huge tits and stroking themselves and cumming on my face tits and stomach!!! I came sooo hard when Hal suddenly exploded inside of me, it felt great!! A s I sat there Nick brought me a warm towel and help me clean up. After we got dressed the team clapped and welcomed me to the inner circle. Hal came over and told me I was to receive the sign on bonus of $2,500 cash tonight. And on my first check in my new position I will get another $2,500 and I will be getting a salary of $100,000 per year plus bonuses and a company credit card as I will be traveling a lot with the sales team. I told my hubby I was getting a $2,500 sign on bonus.… wait until he reads this 🙀. Tits!!
  22. 1 point
    That's an excellent point Numex; a monogamous couple probably has a much higher chance of cheating that a non-monogamous couple. Placed into the context of a closed group, and yeah that works very well. From an STD perspective, assuming everyone is honest, the chances of getting an STD are probably lower than a vanilla couple, given how many vanilla couples cheat. My wife and I are currently beginning down the road of potentially being part of a group like you describe, There's one other couple so far, and maybe 1 or 2 more in the future. We're both comfortable with feelings developing, which is to be expected after having sex with another partner many times. Sort of a natural progression. We'll see how it goes.
  23. 0 points
    This post has troubled me since I first read it. When a woman looks for aggressive sex men may read that in different ways. I never thought my actions looking for new thrills, new excitement, new men, starting with tame swinging then looking for new ways to meet men would be construed as rape fantasy. Michael was always there as my protector when my desire to meet random men was acted out. I won’t rehash some of the acts I did while living out pornographic types of things. My analyst warned me, I discounted her analysis. I continued looking for the next sexual thrill until more happened, men went further even with me protesting. Luck will run out I found. I never thought it was rape fantasy until it went too far. I never thought I asked for it, I certainly didn’t asked to be hurt or infected. Be careful on what you are looking for.
×
×
  • Create New...