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I posted this years ago regarding taking gifts for sleeping with men something most women and men can relate to. I think many if not most women have had sex on a first date because she felt she owed the guy. Not the only time I slept with someone because I felt I should, I once went with a guy to a concert in Philadelphia, I wanted to pay but he insisted and took me for dinner and drinks after the concert. He wouldn’t let me pay for anything. I had no romantic attraction to him but invited him back to my apartment. I would say the evening cost him at least $500. Forward to a more recent time. Mike and I enjoy picking up men in hotels. I engage someone in the bar and when the time is right I tell him about Mike across the bar. I always tell them I am not looking for anything and that it’s just something we like to do. One time a man left two hundred dollars on the dresser. Mike and I laughed about it. It about paid for the room. This was not the only time.

In our poly family and in our play generally, the woman who is blessed with getting the guy's (or guys') dick, often performs oral on the other woman. I never feel left out while getting my pussy licked and watching the show. I have faith in you.

We're still in negotiations :) My hubby is still a little apprehensive about another man's cum. On our first experience, the other man unloaded on my boobs, and hubby licked it off while f**ng me, but he said it was a heat of the moment thing. He knows how much I enjoyed that, and enjoy the idea of cum play in general, so he'll get there, he's just not sure - go second and enjoy the results of the first, or go first and be less "in the heat of the moment" I do want to make sure of one thing though - making sure the other woman doesn't feel left out

Good to read your comments and that you are there with cautionary tales. Do you think you will return to the lifestyle?

I am interested to see that we are not the only ones who slipped into this relationship. We decided to to entertain husbands fetish of watchng wife in a MFM to get there we had a couple stumbles that led to hubs deciding wife is far more qualified to locate a male to her liking. In this process she fould someone who is actually very cool and gentle to her and the three of us get along very well. We go out together at times and spend nearly every weekend together. Both men are straight. We operate as a throuple for the most part, at least on weekends. This was initially going to be a MFM threesome but it has become much more. We are all very rstpectful of each other and our feelings/emotions. WBoth men have sex with her individually much more than we do as MFM, we do watch each other but also have closed door time as well. It isn't what we set out for but is a truly loving a caring relationship. We have no idea where this is headed. For now we will keep it staus quo but it could be a long term thing.

It caused the earth to shake. Literally.

Ok, so it's happening! With all the talk on this board, it kinda got me riled up to go for it. We contacted the couple we've been seeing, and we're getting together next week with the intent being both men will cum inside of me (and it's possible she will clean up, if I can handle it) This is happening a little bit faster than we had planned, but we kinda don't want to wait any longer. I trust this couple, and we get along very well. I'll let you know how it goes!

No. It’s mostly two things: 1) the guy that I am fucking and the way he engages me (especially position), and 2) how long that the first guy and I were going at it and how many Os I already had. We haven’t discussed it much, but I think that they would agree with the above. It all depends on whether one, both, or neither had been having sex, oral or vag, with another woman before me and whether he orgasmed/ejaculated already with her. My preference with two men and sloppy seconds would be for them (and me) to have foreplay and warm up with one or more other women, but for the guys to save the ejaculations and all of the cum for me. Not my choice (I don’t care), but David’s and Red’s preferences. Red prefers me “fresh” and usually doesn’t care to stick around for the show after he’s finished in me. (Although he’s different with other women.) Hubby David loves watching me have sex with other people and much prefers doing so in his pre-orgasm, excited state. Interestingly though, when I first started having sex with both of them it was separately and I would go to David first, then to Red for a debrief and more sex. Red had no problem jumping into my sloppy cunt. It was only after we started MFMs that their preferences came out

In a Catholic 8th grade, we saw a film strip (who remembers those?) called "Take the High Road". All procreation focused. It told us what everything was and what it did but did not say where anything was. I spent the next few years looking for things.

In the early days when it was just David, Red, and me I used to wonder how they discussed me, their shared woman. Did they both say they loved me to each other? Laugh that I was an over-pleasing slut? Share stories about how I fucked them, differently? I'll admit, my wondering turned on.

We rent a room with two king beds in a hotel that has a separate entrance for each room from the parking area, like many Red Roof Inns. We usually meet with our swing friends at a nearby restaurant for lunch or dinner and all get to know each other. The invitees for each party usually consist of two other couples and three single guys. After about an hour at the restaurant we all go the hotel room. After we all are in the room, the gals get undressed and on the beds. The guys first job is to give all the gals at least one orgasm from oral. Then, the guys do whatever the gals want. Usually the gals like to fuck until the guys cannot get it up any more. That is about 4 or 5 times as most guys cannot fuck and cum more than twice in a session. After about three or four hours of fucking everyone is sated, and we all go home. We enjoy it and have a party about every two weeks. Between parties we just love to remember the best parts and fuck some more.

Hotels, mostly on vacation. House parties occasionally in special circumstances. have done the club thing occasionally too. A nude beach once...whoops. And quite a few times in the back of a car after a night out at a "normal" nightclub/bar.

Hiding in plain sight is best. Short answer, house parties, others homes, hotels, club party, other swinger groups. Our closest friends and lovers were included with family and friend events we would make sure they knew it was vanilla/family/friends events. No problem. And that way we didn’t have to concoct any story or alibi. Just normal conversations.

I 1000% agree, Sometimes it's fun to be there and watch and participate. Sometimes it's fun to not be there but see pictures/videos, or hear about the experience from my GF and/or the guy she was with about the experience. And sometimes it's fun to just let her go and play and not know exactly what happened but to let your mind wander about it. We incorporate all of these regularly into our play.

It's also for pleasure, fun, exercise, etc. 😀

Before marriage we had fun with others as a couple. Linda had a girlfriend that joined us often alone and at times with a date. We stopped after marrying for a number of reasons.

I would say not yet as my partner Matt is big for me considering Anal with him but have done sloppy vaginally with hubby Tomy and Matt.

You found a good woman and should marry her. Your wedding night will be hotter than most.

Me too. I can't orgasm anal only. Whatever position I'm in with the first guy, the second always seems to flip me over. Yeah, that's sort of the point. Cumming inside the woman is what puts the "sloppy" in "sloppy seconds." That's what happens with my guys as well.

I agree with all of this. Our main activity is hotwifing (well I guess hot GFing since we aren't married lol), and I think of it very differently than cuckolding, even though on occasion there can sometimes be elements of it. I wish there was a hotwifing section on here.

I saw the same thing in a bar. K and I witnessed this and couldn't believe what we were seeing. It happened in a packed redneck bar and both dropped their shorts, he entered her and she backed him into the wall and took control and not one person seemed to mind.

In most cases, a micrometer.

Wrong question. I'm a responsible user of reliable birth control, not condoms. If I got pregnant, whether by one of the guys in our family, a play partner, or unknown, whatever would happen would be my choice. If the time was right for another child in our (all five of us adults') lives, I would bear the child and raise it lovingly. Otherwise, terminate. Ultimately, my decision.

Bareback the only way, just as it’s intended dirty, raw unprotected sex is how it needs to be. Hot as hell

Bareback, I hope. Who finishes in me first doesn't matter to me, but hubby almost always goes second because he likes to watch the other guy while he's still in his pre-orgasm, excited state. An in-control, assertive woman. I admire that. Although I'm a tough cunt mostly in life, during sex I usually like a guy on top doing the work while I enjoy the ride.

She wanted me to finish with her last so when she felt it was right to drain us she rode his cock harder and harder while wanking me off telling me everything she was loving about it, she then sat on mine and again rode hard and fast which in fairness didn’t last long haha

Which guy came first? Finish the story!

On this occasion my friend was not near finished when my wife got off his cock and sat on mine, going from his to mine keeping us both on the edge but keeping that hot dirty sex going for aslong as she could

For me, I do have strong feelings of jealousy but it make me love seeing them together. The jealousy applies to both. My time with each of them will come later and be made more intense because of what I saw. That time is occasionally only minutes later when I am invited in to join them. Or I can go down the hall and see if Clair and Red are up to anything...

For those who are currently swingers and are not in poly type relationships, do you think you could ever consider doing so? What would keep you from doing considering it? What would allow you to consider it? There is often talk here about "falling in love with a swing partner" and how to avoid it, yet it seems that that is exactly what happens for many of the couples who end up in poly type relationships. In most cases they weren't seeking it and would have done their best to avoid it, but it happened and after talking about it with all parties, instead of closing the door and walking away they chose to see where it went. Do you feel you could do that?

Damn!! That guy from the Burgh is right again!!!! Enjoy it for what it is. I too was somewhat envious in reading your post, it sounds like a lovely situation. The fact that you've known her for a long time and played with her prior to this situation means that most, if not all of the surprises have already been revealed. It was kind of you to take her in. That it developed from there is a wonderful bonus.

Do you remember how you felt at first when you found that special person, perhaps your husband? The wonderful moments, the thought that you wanted to see him again so very soon? That's the feeling that apparently all three are having right now. I feel so envious of you - in a good way. Do you remember at the same time how you were slightly worried that this might not last? But even if it didn't, you'd still remember this wonderful period? It may not last with the girlfriend, many, many things could possibly happen. But one of the things that might happen is the three of you will create your own family that will be celebrating Thanksgiving twenty years from now. Enjoy this for what it is, hope it's something special that will last.

Up until the time Daniela and I got together, her main sexual relationship thing was dating married men and buying gifts for their wives. What would you call that besides a missed economic opportunity? Daniela did accept gifts from her Lesbian lovers.

This is the kind of stuff that always makes my stomach churn as it sounds relatable to my GF's activities and the dark things that can happen in the lifestyle. So sorry to hear about your horrible experience.