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Things you learn years later. At 19 my wife and her friend set up profiles on a Sugar site to earn money and clothing to go on spring break I’m not totally upset, I’m happy she was in charge of her decisions. I’m more upset that men her father’s age and older looked for college girls. Curious me, I looked up the men she met.

I think it's the opposite with us. The guys say some pretty damn dirty things but I usually tame it down a bit for my GF when she asks. I don't know why as she loves that filthy kind of talk. I was in a group chat with 3 of my buddies and we were talking about my GF, sharing pictures, etc., and the conversation and pics were pretty raunchy stuff. My GF saw it and reading it turned her on. So she asked to be part of the group chat so she can read it on her phone and talk to the guys. So we started a separate group chat with her on it and the guys got really tame and no one shared any pics or anything about her but they continued on with the dirty talk and picture sharing in the chat just between us guys. It's kind of funny how free they are when they're fucking her or when they're talking between us guys, but when they know she is reading the text chat and can respond they freeze up. Even when they text her one on one in private they get really nasty with the talk and will send her pictures. It's very strange.

I've always known my wife has had a bit of a cum obsession, but before our first experience I only had to think about it while watching porn with her, or the occasional going down on her after I finished. It was nothing I was terribly excited about. But when we had our first, and the other man came on my wife's tits, it was intoxicating. She and I went at it afterward, and I must say it was somewhat super human of me not to orgasm just at the sight of her! For me, there was something about the all-in, animalistic, heat of the moment hotness that was such a turn on. I also should say that before our first experience, my wife was not very open about talking about sex. We would get to a certain point in the discussion, and then she would shut down. So seeing her like that, just totally into it and horny AF, was amazing.

I don’t consider kinks it was financial. She said she didn’t have a Daddy complex she had a want to have things she couldn’t afford. I was amazed we found the men on social media and LinkedIn and the positions they had. What they looked like was not the point it was how could they afford. More college girls than I thought found ways to supplement their spending. Some had Daddies others found quicker ways. My current thoughts are what’s the difference why she did it if she had fun. I know not all was fun at the time. lol. More. Lin didn’t look for a Sugar Momma. missed opportunity?

I posted this years ago regarding taking gifts for sleeping with men something most women and men can relate to. I think many if not most women have had sex on a first date because she felt she owed the guy. Not the only time I slept with someone because I felt I should, I once went with a guy to a concert in Philadelphia, I wanted to pay but he insisted and took me for dinner and drinks after the concert. He wouldn’t let me pay for anything. I had no romantic attraction to him but invited him back to my apartment. I would say the evening cost him at least $500. Forward to a more recent time. Mike and I enjoy picking up men in hotels. I engage someone in the bar and when the time is right I tell him about Mike across the bar. I always tell them I am not looking for anything and that it’s just something we like to do. One time a man left two hundred dollars on the dresser. Mike and I laughed about it. It about paid for the room. This was not the only time.

That is one of the surprising things I learned when we had we had our first DP, feeling the other guy's dick moving in her other hole. The guy in her pussy usually has more control, it's the guy in her ass that usually can't hold back.

I don't want to be harsh, but it sounds like you weren't, at least at that time, enough for her. It seems that she was ready for the lifestyle in college, while you were not. But it’s understandable, society and religion inculcate in us expectations of a relationship should be and how we, especially women, should act.

(I realize this is an exceptionally old thread, recently revisited) It's exceptionally rare that I disagree with Couplers, but... I would never, ever, ever, in a million years engage in swinging sex with a woman with a significant chance of getting her pregnant, or likewise a man to do so with my wife. Ok sure, your wife gets pregnant, she has the child, you raise the child as your own. Doesn't sound too problematic, does it? Except, it is. Consider; The child won't be certain of half of their parental medical background. This could cause problems later in life. The child might harbor lingering concerns their dad is not their dad, and the dad might not ever know their concerns. The child might some day get a DNA test. What if the parents are no longer among the living? Questions arise that will never have answers. Same concern; what if the parents are still alive and they ask? Now the child will know their father was a random fuck for their mom. For me, this is just the beginning of the potential problems. I won't inflict that on an innocent child-to-be. My wife and I have always taken strong measures to ensure we don't get pregnant and don't get others pregnant.

Neither of us has had a lost condom experience. we both have had several broken condom experiences a few when we were dating each other prompting her to go on the pill. She has had other men accidentally cum inside her due to the condom tearing. I have had the same happen to me while with other women during our lifestyle experiences. But we never had a panic over it. Most always it was laughed off. with one younger couple we met and played with the young man came in the queens mouth the recovered and during some vigorous pumping had the condom fail and emptied himself inside her. His wife was the apologetic one. But we laughed it off. Her husband said we might as well go without a condom as it was only fair to his wife. She jumped at the chance. We spent the afternoon and later after dinner the evening playing with each other skipping the condoms intirely. We ended up being great friends both in and out of the bedroom. I had one experience with a younger mid thirties woman who required condoms for her birth control but she didn’t panic she told us she only played when her cycle was not ovulating. My last experience I was very apologetic, stated it tore, but she and her husband thought it as a huge turn on. He pulled out of my wife took off his condom, mounted his wife and came in his wife. They said it was always a fantasy they shared but were afraid to ask swing partners. They also joined our group of friends for more adventures. Again, it is and can be serious depending on the couple or woman involved and you must be upfront about it. We were lucky that most did not find it disturbing.