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Wow, with that much information you'll get all sorts of good responses. I would say your wife is indifferent to you being with other women, thus is indifferent to your marriage. She no longer cares what you do and is planning on leaving the marriage. She's hoping you swinging will alleviate the endless burden of you pushing swinging on her. And, as a single male trying to swing, I agree with the others. There are too many to count. A dime a dozen. You better be bringing something physically ridiculous to the table and bring a personality that charms both the husband and wife. We've encountered a thousand single men (probably more) in our time in the lifestyle. 99.9% are clowns. One a swinger site there'll be so many, all with magazine cover physiques, large members and some game. It is exhausting dealing with them. It is easy to eliminate someone because there are 500 in line after them. You'll be part of that group. Good luck. If you're willing to swing without your wife, assume your marriage is over and join one of the hookup apps. You'll do much better there than in the swinger community as a single (and married) male.

Eric, read what has been said above, and read it again...and again and again and again. I would be exceptionally careful in making sure your wife is really onboard with you playing, and she not. If you don't have absolutely 100% open communication, there might be something brewing here that you know nothing about. Heart to heart communication is key here. Why do you want to play? Is there anything in it for her? Why does she want you to play? How will she feel when you come home after just having had sex with another woman? Or, would she get to watch? There's a lot of details here and I'm just scratching the surface. In 15 years, we have bumped into only a single married couple where the husband played but the wife didn't. The wife of the other couple and I really clicked, but she wasn't playing, only her husband was. My wife wasn't interested because the husband smoked. So, nothing happened. Others above are very correct; single guys are very, very, very common in the lifestyle. You are going to have to put together a fantastic profile on a swinger dating such as swinglifestyle.com. And I do mean FANTASTIC. To date, including the subject line and your three posts so far, you've managed to eek out 23 words. My wife and I do look for single males from time to time. But, if we found a profile with 23 words, we'd think "Ok, he's not really into this and hasn't put any effort forward into creating a great profile. Next!" It's trivially easy to discount single male profiles. Don't make it easy. Have a very complete, very detailed profile. Have great pictures, perhaps professionally done. You don't have to be naked in them (and as Shy_Couple said, do NOT include dick picks!), but you do have to look well groomed and in shape. If you don't get them professionally done, don't take selfies in mirrors with your cat's dirty cat pan behind you. Don't take selfies with empty Budweiser cans sitting on your dresser. Don't take selfies with you unshaven for a day. Etc. Etc. Etc. Be clear about the kind of arrangement you want, what you're up for, what you're comfortable with. Be clear you are married and playing with permission AND CAN PROVE IT. If your wife isn't willing to confirm you are playing with permission, this isn't going to go anywhere.

I don't think chastity devices for women are a thing the way they are for a man fetish-wise. I know they existed in the dark ages but we have yet to encounter any female chastity devices in 'normal' modern fetish. Initially I used my device only so I could focus on the normal tasks at hand while my wife enjoyed her date - and it's great for that. Buy it didn't take long til we began to fetishize it. In terms of how pregnancy - especially child rearing - affected our Lifestyle, it eventually took us down the road of cuckoldry. Cuckoldry is a fetish that fits surprisingly well with the lifestyle of working parents because it frees the wife to date while hubby minds the domestic responsibilities, and it became a major aspect of our Lifestyle for about 10 years! After the kids got older and more independent we got back into couples-swinging and now cuckoldry is just an occasional thing. I probably haven't worn my chastity device in over a year now.

They went out and did fun things, then had sex together. Nothing they told me was anything you haven’t read about here on this forum, although I like letting my imagination run. I did talk to David and Shannon (just typing their names together makes me jealous) before and after they had sex. That was cool. And David told me that he called Joe and taunted him (as Joe likes) about fucking, screwing, making love to his wife, the insatiable slut. I also spoke to Joe and he confirmed what David said and he liked it. At least I could calm down by having sex with Red and some girl action; Joe was alone with his tormenting thoughts. It’s not courage, just that we in our family are very much in love and committed to out family, that makes us open about the little outside play that takes place, and we’re fine with it. Play outside our family may be intense (for me at least), but we understand it's just fun sex.

Queen. I was asked to write about this. I mostly leave this for my husband. I do not write much so forgive me. I have always enjoyed cum from a man. I do not know why. As a teenager I think it was fascination. Maybe a little about I made him do that. My husband was the first to give me an orgasm. Other guys made me feel good but it was always a groping of fingers poking before they pushed into me. I was very lucky those days because my first few experiences were without a rubber. He was the first that used a condom. Just lucky I guess. He was also my first bigger guy that kind of scared me some but it was nice. I didn’t know those things come in sizes. I went on the pill and we have been together from 1976. He was very sexual and would have me most every morning and every night sometimes more. I let him have me when he wanted. So all my life with him I have always had his cum in me Lots of it. The many times he would have me twice at night the second time was a little nicer more wet and slippery. Then when we turned forty things changed. He was the same but my horniness went crazy. And my fantasies started to be very wild. So after some talk we started to explore. And I tried everything I wanted. I have had many gangbangs and many men at parties. These parties condoms were used or if we knew them well no condom but they had to pull out and cum on me or in my mouth. But what I loved was having my boyfriends and husband share me. I had three boyfriends long term. One for seven years so I would have husband and boyfriend threesomes one to three times a week. Sometimes my husband and all three boyfriends at once. They all would cum for me where I wanted on me in my mouth or in me. I liked it most inside me. They shared me all afternoon. It does get very messy and they would wipe me down with warm wet facecloths. I had three special events. Three special male friends, my three boyfriends and my husband. Except for a few breaks and clean ups it was an all afternoon and evening sex. They cum in my mouth or inside me. I was very messy. Cum turns to foam with that much and that many fucking you. We would have a round I would make all seven men cum. Would have coffee and a snack and go again. I always felt them in me as a slippery squishy pressure. Regular size and bigger three hubby and two friends are bigger than my shoe size (8) but I felt all of them. I didn’t feel them cum after I was soaked just got wetter. My butt and crotch was slimy and soaked. We thanked the sweets each time. Then take a break and go again. I went three times around with all of them. At some point I sneezed and what a mess. I felt special. I pleased all these men and they wanted me more I felt really good. I had to wear a wash cloth between my legs on the ride home. I was a little achie but could still take my husband the next night. What I loved most was having a man cum in my mouth at the same time as one cumming inside me. I loved that the most but harder to do unless you are with lovers that know what you like and give it to you. I hope this is good enough what you wanted.

We're still in negotiations :) My hubby is still a little apprehensive about another man's cum. On our first experience, the other man unloaded on my boobs, and hubby licked it off while f**ng me, but he said it was a heat of the moment thing. He knows how much I enjoyed that, and enjoy the idea of cum play in general, so he'll get there, he's just not sure - go second and enjoy the results of the first, or go first and be less "in the heat of the moment" I do want to make sure of one thing though - making sure the other woman doesn't feel left out

Perfectly said in two sentences. At a very instinctual level, two men willing to do what it takes to try and make a child with me. It was overwhelming powerful for me when Clair became accidentally pregnant and I wanted to do so as well. I went off bc immediately and went at it with David and Red until I got pregnant too, not caring which man got the job done.

You need to ask why people marry, it’s because of love. Today you see many same sex marriages that look much happier than many conventional MF marriages. I asked two women just like the couple you met why they married and they gave me an answer I give when I was asked years ago, they were one soul. Most lesbians don’t hate men, they love a person that fulfills them.

We can say as a rule having a cum in her face, especially, or anywhere else on her body is a kink for us. She feels 'powerful' knowing and feeling his cum splash her, but in the face it's just like double hot. On that thread it's hot that I get the opportunity to lick and kiss his cum off her face. Another one of our freaky kinks. LOL Not to mention for me 'seeing' him bust a nut on her or in his face is a HUGE turn on for me!!!! Relax it's just cum....LOL

During our time between children, my late wife and I used oral sex as birth control. I would bring her off orally then move to her mouth. Usually I made it in time but sometimes didn't, or she would take a breath while giving me head. During those times she sometimes got a facial, but it was not done intentionally. She liked to receive it all in her mouth. When swapping partners, she like to think of herself as a porn star, and would do outrageous things that weren't really appropriate to our love making. That often did result in facials, sometimes intentionally, but usually ended with her using a finger to move the cum from her face into her mouth, while looking into her partners' eyes and delivering her wonderful smile. We felt one of the benefits of swinging was to be able to "play" at sex. We seemed to gravitate to "making love" with each other.

Oh lord, yes. I love to snowball with my wife. We end up French kissing and both of us have cum all over our chins, lips and faces. It is very erotic and makes us both horny all over again.

My second post this morning.Making horny. I wanted to ad a couple times a week Bob (hubby) has a few of his friends (male) over . a few years ago I got him to suck his first cock. Sometimes if we have 5 or more men over he will start sucking a cock,when it gets hard and ready to cum I take over and do most of the swallowing, (a team effort) and like someone else wrote he shares the cum in my mouth. He even likes to lick it from my pussy after a few have cumthere.

I love to swallow and I actually get turned on watching my husband squirt his cum in to his playmates' mouth. At the same time I think it is very sexy when one ... two ... three guys cum all over me, mouth, face tits, stomach. I know few guys do this and some women will do it, I do though facelick , lick up the cum from a women's body ... very erotic

When we first got together Angel had only performed oral on two other men. She allowed them to finish in her mouth but would either spit it out or put her tongue over their penis so that it basically ran down their shaft. After learning this I made it a point to not cum during oral and would always pull away. This went on for about a year until one day she actually asked me to cum in her mouth because she wanted to taste it. Since that day if she finished a guy orally she swallows. She has developed a taste for it and will actually stop a new partner after she has cum so that she can finish him with her mouth.

Me~I have swallowed since the first time I ever gave oral...it was not until later that I found out how few women actually do... no wonder my boyfriends loved me to death..... even now when we are with another man and Mr. Midnight says she loves to swallow they about come off the bed..... midnight hour

Mrs. Alura and I used oral sex for birth control for a couple of years between kids. During that time she probably swallowed two to three times per week. We still do that a lot. I love it, and she always purrs, "Ummmm" when I come. It puts an exclamation mark after "I love you." Of the five couples we've played with only one lady asked me to come in her mouth. Her husband is the only one of the five men Mrs. Alura swallowed. She still said "Ummmm" and didn't quit until he was finished and begging her to stop. It was a real treat to watch! He seemed to enjoy it, too. Mr. Alura

uummm....here's a twist on the topic....what do you ladies feel about a man who can enjoy the taste of his own semen?....it happened by accident one night after filling my partners vagina....she was still hot and needed a little work on her clit with my tongue and of course thats when i got my first taste...then a short time later i was having my own private time with some adult videos...usually i like to take a long slow stroke through the whole feature before i pick my favorite scene to spray for...about 90 minutes into it a half teaspoon creeped it's way up my vein and onto my hands...after 90 minutes it's that really well mixed watery consistancy...it was so warm and pearly looking that i couldn't resist reaching down to the base and squeezing out the rest of that rogue teaspoon into my hand, bringin it to my lips and slirping it down...it was delicious...i'm not bisexual in any way but when i finished watching the video instead of hitting rewind i laid back, hiked my knees up to my ears, took careful aim and stroked the rest of it into my mouth and swallowed....i now know why you ladies love it so much....am i a freak????

Is there anything better than watching some guy shoot a fat load onto your wife's tongue and then watching her gulp it down? Yes-watching three more guys do the same thing

Love ya, Connie. You and Michelle think alike. Speaking for us lucky guys, we need more ladies that love the liquid protein. Eric loves breast milk as well, so it is equal opportunity!!!!