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2 pointsAfter a week at a house vacation with a large group it’s not only men who watch. I’m not a voyeur normally, I don’t need to watch anyone including my husband have sex but one night we cheered on two women with the men giving oral. I left my shy self behind and laughed and enjoyed with the crowd.
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1 pointTampa is also a drive able distance from Atlanta! And we would like to spice up our nights for sure!
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1 pointWe've had some of our best experiences at Paradise Lakes, Tampa Fla. Good whether you're just into recreational naturism, and also good if you want to spice up your nights with a bit of frisky fun.
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1 pointWow, with that much information you'll get all sorts of good responses. I would say your wife is indifferent to you being with other women, thus is indifferent to your marriage. She no longer cares what you do and is planning on leaving the marriage. She's hoping you swinging will alleviate the endless burden of you pushing swinging on her. And, as a single male trying to swing, I agree with the others. There are too many to count. A dime a dozen. You better be bringing something physically ridiculous to the table and bring a personality that charms both the husband and wife. We've encountered a thousand single men (probably more) in our time in the lifestyle. 99.9% are clowns. One a swinger site there'll be so many, all with magazine cover physiques, large members and some game. It is exhausting dealing with them. It is easy to eliminate someone because there are 500 in line after them. You'll be part of that group. Good luck. If you're willing to swing without your wife, assume your marriage is over and join one of the hookup apps. You'll do much better there than in the swinger community as a single (and married) male.
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1 pointEric, read what has been said above, and read it again...and again and again and again. I would be exceptionally careful in making sure your wife is really onboard with you playing, and she not. If you don't have absolutely 100% open communication, there might be something brewing here that you know nothing about. Heart to heart communication is key here. Why do you want to play? Is there anything in it for her? Why does she want you to play? How will she feel when you come home after just having had sex with another woman? Or, would she get to watch? There's a lot of details here and I'm just scratching the surface. In 15 years, we have bumped into only a single married couple where the husband played but the wife didn't. The wife of the other couple and I really clicked, but she wasn't playing, only her husband was. My wife wasn't interested because the husband smoked. So, nothing happened. Others above are very correct; single guys are very, very, very common in the lifestyle. You are going to have to put together a fantastic profile on a swinger dating such as swinglifestyle.com. And I do mean FANTASTIC. To date, including the subject line and your three posts so far, you've managed to eek out 23 words. My wife and I do look for single males from time to time. But, if we found a profile with 23 words, we'd think "Ok, he's not really into this and hasn't put any effort forward into creating a great profile. Next!" It's trivially easy to discount single male profiles. Don't make it easy. Have a very complete, very detailed profile. Have great pictures, perhaps professionally done. You don't have to be naked in them (and as Shy_Couple said, do NOT include dick picks!), but you do have to look well groomed and in shape. If you don't get them professionally done, don't take selfies in mirrors with your cat's dirty cat pan behind you. Don't take selfies with empty Budweiser cans sitting on your dresser. Don't take selfies with you unshaven for a day. Etc. Etc. Etc. Be clear about the kind of arrangement you want, what you're up for, what you're comfortable with. Be clear you are married and playing with permission AND CAN PROVE IT. If your wife isn't willing to confirm you are playing with permission, this isn't going to go anywhere.
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1 pointFirst of all good luck! You will need it. Single guys are a dime a dozen and not very high up in most swingers list. Married guys playing alone are probably even lower on the list. Be prepared to make an outstanding profile on whatever site you are using. With good pictures that are not cock pics and a well written bio. If you are not in good shape you might want to start working on it. The competition is huge. Without that you probably will not get any responses. Also be prepared for people to want your wife to verify that you have permission to play alone. Lots of guys claim this, but few are being honest. If you are looking for the easy way there isn’t one. You will be fighting an uphill battle.
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1 pointYou should tread carefully. She may be giving you an “it’s fine.” To see if you’ll go for it. Communication is key and if this a test and you fail, could seriously harm your relationship. single women are unicorns. You can’t swing a dead cat without hitting a single guy looking to fuck. you have to bring your A game. Hygeine and taking care of yourself is way up there. A huge dong can’t hurt. Most of the couple profiles I’ve seen looking for single guys wants 8+ and in shape. most of all, single guys need to know what a woman or couples want, know their place, and don’t cross boundaries. you need to be able to communicate with both people and be sincere. If you think that “hey girl, you are so hot…blah, blah, blah” unlikely to get anywhere. Ignoring hubby or making him insecure won’t either. Cuckold porn is hot but unsure how often it plays out in real life. but starting out, you should try any of the many lifestyle sites. Become a paid member, have something interesting to say and post pics (not your dick). Depending on where you live, some parties host single guys but not all. I would suggest neighboring town to avoid running into anyone you might know. Even if your wife is cool with it, she may not be cool with friend, family, coworkers finding out.
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1 pointMmmmmmmmmmm yes sharing a cock and cum is so hot and delicious!
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1 pointThis all started around forty years ago when my wife Beth and I had dated for a few years then married. It wasn't long after we married that I introduced her to her first big realistic porn star dildo. When she first saw it she laughed and said, "That'll never fit in my pussy, are you nuts?!" But she agreed to trying and found not only did it fit but she really enjoyed it. She was amazed by how much she enjoyed it. So much so that she requested I use it on her quite a lot. She also discovered she enjoyed big cock porn, she was fascinated by it. Soon was I combining using a huge dildo on her at the same time she watched big cock porn, this led her to experience huge orgasms. She couldn't get enough. She was finally exploring her sexuality and expanding her outlook on sexual pleasure. One night after some really hot sex I questioned her if she ever fantasized about fucking other men, especially well-hung men. She responded that of course she did, stated that most women had this fantasy, and she believed it was quite common. So I pursued it further and asked her if she wanted to try another man's cock and how much did she really desire to do it? She said that it sounded exciting and fun but she would never do anything to endanger our marriage. I said, "What if I told you that I wanted to watch you have sex with another man, one that had a really big cock. Would you then consider it?" She laughed and said she'd be game if it was something I was serious about and really wanted her to do. She said, "Come on, let's be real. It's exciting and fun to imagine it, but to really do it? Please! That's a major game changer." So I said, "I'm very serious. I've watched the way you enjoy the dildos especially while watching big cock videos. It turns me on big time seeing how excited you get and how many times you climax from doing these two things at the same time. I want to watch you do it for real. No BS, just watching you getting slammed by a big cock would be a huge turn-on for me. So what do you really think now that you know that I'm serious and am giving you this opportunity?" I could see her giving it some serious thought, she didn't get mad or upset at me or the idea, no resistance whatsoever to my request. The more she considered the idea the more it appeared to me that she was very intrigued with the idea and it excited her. She started asking all kinds of questions, like wouldn't I be jealous, or think the worst of her, or what if she really enjoyed it and wanted more or didn't feel comfortable screwing another man, then what? Were there any rules and what were the consequences? Was I absolutely sure that I really wanted her to do this, because once done there was no going back! After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen. I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him. A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen. When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight. Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show. Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge. They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left. Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
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1 pointSo basically, it's, "Just do it!" I was the same way, turned on by eating my wife's cummy pussy, but not turned on after I put it there. I muscled through and did it and it was always lovely for me and my wife loved it too!
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1 pointMy wife pumped breast milk when she went back to work. After our daughter was weaned, there was a surplus of milk leftover. Daniela used it for cookies, which were served to unknowing vanilla friends. I thought it perhaps unethical, but she said if people are willing to eat the milk of a dirty cow, why not a clean woman?
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1 pointAll new and fantasy talk for us, That would be amazing! I think she would love it! I would love to see at least one guy turned on so much leave a huge load on her and I sucked and licked them clean, then she wants us both to suck them together! I think she would cum! Now how and when ??? So hot!
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1 pointAs part of a poly family whose members only occasionally play outside of the family, our situation is not the same as regular swinging couples. But as a woman with an opinion, I will respond to the question, "Are both partners equals?" - NO. We are not equal because we are not the same, even before our poly family formed. There's a difference between women and men; men generally want more sex even in the rush of a weekday morning. Women have a greater capacity for it, taking three or four in a row, no problem. That's why, until recently, we women shared an outside boyfriend while the men didn't play. We women have a homosexual side, the men do not. One of the guys likes to take us women "fresh" then not watch in his post- orgasm state, while the other likes to "watch the show" in an excited state and go for sloppy seconds. Lora and I are the only ones who like a little BDSM. only with one another. A lot of verbal degradation, some slapping and pissing. We'd like the guys to be there as an audience, but they refuse. Recently, I became attracted to another man, and after meeting her, his wife as well. A little soft stuff with him without her knowledge was as far as I was willing to take it. The others in my family knew, and it became our fantasy. My husband turned the fantasy into reality with them. We all played, but it was very unequal. The other couple played mostly with Red and Lora, with hubby, Clair, and me only occasionally jumping in. It wasn't equal, but fantastic. So hardly anything is equal among couples because of individual differences and wants. It may appear unfair, but with love and kindness, it's for the best.
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1 pointIt feels like eons ago when we met our first couple who were not exactly a couple. About nine years ago we started looking for a Unicorn and quickly found why they are called mythical. We eventually met an asshole and his younger lady friend, she was in her twenties at the time because we were eager to someone to fulfill Alan’s fantasy of watching me with a woman, something I did before I met him. That first meeting was the start of our entry into the lifestyle where I found myself helping others who were curious in finding a new sexuality. We kept in touch with that young lady and then lost contact. Time flies, she moved on away from a lousy relationship, finished her Master’s degree, fell in love with and married two years ago. I got nervous when I saw her ID show on my phone because I knew her history, I figured she was in trouble. I was thrilled when she only had the good news and wanted to invite us to their new home. She said her husband knows her past and wants to meet us. They are not swingers, he is like Alan who was curious to sexual pasts. She remembered our history asking if we would be interested in meeting up again and maybe more. We are looking forward to seeing her and her husband. I do wonder how he will react to a couple who are older. Wondering if others have met people they played with years ago and if things changed much. Are things ever as good as the first time in anything in life?
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1 point10 years ago my wife of 29 years decided to go her own way. I was turning 50 and while I wanted to have a spectacular life of love and fun, she just seemed to want to become a grandma and rock her grandchildren. So I decided that I wanted to try a more open sexual relationship if I were to find another. I began dating around and I found someone who was willing to take a few steps into swinging. Sadly, after a wonderful experience I suggested we get married and she misunderstood that offer to be a "payment" for her services. So we fizzled. We broke up and her complaints about only being with me was her excuse. (I posted about this years ago on this forum. I was torched by a lot, but many understood why I made the decisions I did.)We broke up and it hurt. Two years later we come across each other again. She hadn't found anyone, but I'm not settling either. We talked and slowly begin to engage again. Slowly she began to understand that the Swinging did not take me away from her, it actually brought me closer to her, such as that I wanted to marry her. She just couldn't get over that part, but as we continued to rebuild the trust, we became very active swingers and we did get MARRIED on the beach at Hedo. We are generally attractive but getting older with a few pounds. We were nervous at first, but since we reconnected and went full speed ahead, we have had about 25-30 swinging times. If we counted the oral sex or just groping it would be double. We consider ourselves experienced, but you know, we aren't nervous or anxious about it at all. She makes connections on her own, and I love that. She has proactively helped and its been a great time. She made friends with a girl recently and she told me she was going to bring her to bed with us. A year later, she is eating my cum out of her pussy. So I guess my point is, that this Evolution of Swinging has come full circle. We go to Hedo and other places to meet up with people. We host parties at our home. Last time we had five couples and I lined all the women up on the edge of the pool and me and the men lined up and each went down the line with each woman. Later all of the girls were on our bed, just playing with each other as we watched. (I dont' deserve this!) The torture it took to get here was mindboggling, but its been a wonderful life of one fun time after another. Anyway, the Evolution of Swinging has been great for us. I doubt we could have handled it when we had young children around us, but we sure do enjoy it now. Just don't get bent out of shape and take it slowly. We've introduced several into the lifestyle and have been blessed to have many much younger mates. So the Evolution has come about, I don't know what is next, but I know it will be great. Then again, we've met several "bi" men in the lifestyle and as I have told them, I will never "EVOLVE" that much. Just loving this life!
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