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Actually we did talk about that. I thought kegals but she said no. She thought all women could do that and did not discover what she did was unique until after they got into the swinging lifestyle and a couple of partners she played with were quite impressed. Nobody, she had Benin before her husband ever said anything about it being unique and highly pleasurable. While she was dating and later married her husband, he always made a big deal out of it. He thought it was fantastic, of course but she always assumed that that’s just the way all women were. I also asked her if she felt anything different while doing it other than bearing down. It’s more of a feeling of control, that she’s in control of the man she is with that heightens her pleasure.

I continued to have occasional sex for several decades with my high-school girlfriend. At some point she learned to be able to squeeze her partner’s cock with her vagina. She could do that kind of rhythmically in a way that was both interesting and quite stimulating. She couldn’t bring me to orgasm unless she also moved her pelvis up and down as well, but she told me she had other partners she could make cum without doing anything but squeeze them that way with her vagina.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't ALL of Arizona "beach"...just no ocean? 😁

All women are great experiences and each different than the other. So many experiences but a few do stand out. I have had two experiences with two different women that had a unique ability to grasp/grip (not sure how to phrase this) my cock while I was inside her. She was a full figured woman and a snug fit to begin with. She could do this in missionary position with her legs back like butterfly wings. While thrusting and grinding she would raise her head and shoulders partially off the bed like a slight sit up. Her vaginal canal would feel like it grasped the full length of me. If you were not ready for it she could push you out of her. She would do this every so often and could make a guy cum quicker. It was her thing to do as you start to orgasm she would grip you and hold on as you orgasm heightening the experience. She could also do this squatting on your cock. In this position she could continually grip the length of your cock as she bounced up and down on her ankles. It felt like she was trying to push my cock back into me. I usually can go for 15 - 20 minutes but with her she had the ability and control to make me cum in 8 - 12 minutes and giggle as she did it. She was a great playmate for several years. The second woman was an older woman who could do the same while in a squatting position similar to a crab walk. She loved to spend a lot of time playing and changing positions but when she wanted to make you cum that was her signature go to position. There was a wonderful woman that I knew for many years that was very aggressive orally. She created suction with her mouth and press her tongue against your shaft and took great pride making men cum quickly. And she really enjoyed doing it. She would wreck many men at a party and laugh about it.

Nine years and still getting those feelings. My pre trip excitement, anticipation, fear, self doubt, and always that fear of guilt. We always talk before any meeting, we reassure, we encourage to enjoy, he always reminds me to throw away guilt. He leaves all the options open, from going to our friends or not going. He emphasizes that we can always cut our trip short if I want. My husband is wonderful, I have no doubts that I have the best every day. I know he looks forward to these meetings, I suppress my feelings of jealousy, something that has been easier with each meeting. We always have the After talk. I feel I tell him more of my feelings, he gives less specifics. Part of my guilt is not including my husband in most of my play, I after all this time enjoy private sex. Even with all the very open play at this getaway, including me, my most exciting times were behind closed doors. Admittedly the biggest guilt feeling was telling my husband about my overnight with a couple, something I’m sure he would have wanted to be part of.

It is hard to explain my emotional feelings or the reasons I have them. I never prepared myself to have sex outside our marriage until it happened. Our original swap was private, I didn’t watch him, he didn’t watch me, I quickly removed all thoughts of infidelity until the next morning. My original guilt was thinking how much I enjoyed that first night, a feeling we discussed and was reassured that we did nothing wrong. We don’t swing or swap often, the majority of our extra relationships have been one to one, we have our favorite friends far enough away that we are not together often. The guilt I felt last week was me thinking I had sex with more different people in one week than I had in my entire life before that. I had sex with strangers I just met, I didn’t even have a connection with. I know nothing about them as I am sure they know nothing about me. Possibly the guilt was enjoying too much.