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Viva La Difference. The reason to have sex with others is that each is a different feel even if it’s just imagined. I know I feel the difference when going in or when feeling them orgasming. Honey tells me she kegels with me in her which I feel. Some women ripple when cumming, some just clamp down, some are wetter, and some will release. The biggest differences are in blow jobs.

My overall experience with blowjob technique is that some ladies definitely have serious skills while others don't. But blowjobs are kinda like pizza. Even when it's bad it's still pretty good 😉

Either both on my tits with her or his fingers very gently brushing my nipples, or one hand on my tit and the other with a finger going round and in my bum hole.

I would ask her if she didn't volunteer the fact that she was carrying a creampie. But that wouldn't stop me from giving her oral, I have done it before. I would really like to get the sloppy seconds and add my seed.

If your wife wants to keep it a secret, you should honor your wife's wishes and keep it secret. If that cat is out of the bag, don't let anyone else know. One of our few rules are if one of us says something (or doesn't say something), then we both are in agreement and stick together. We have swinger friends that have met our non-swinger friends, but we don't tell others what they are...they're all just friends at one level or another.

Well, first of all, a couple of housekeeping rules: Put some punctuation in your posts, it makes it a lot easier to read. And please don't post the same question in multiple forums. Now, as far as discretion. If you don't want your friends to know, simply don't swing with or around your friends, and don't talk about it. Keep your swinging activities separate from your social and business life. But, since you've already told your friends (if I read your post correctly,) well, the cats already out of the bag. If that's true, I don't see what your question is. The people you meet in the LifeStyle, at clubs, house parties or on-line, are usually just as interested as you are in keeping their secrets. I wouldn't worry about your partners discretion.

Making me think. I watched the act not the people. I watched the women doing the same thing in different ways. I watched men reacting also in different ways.

Whether I watch or not, I wonder, how does she feel, different or the same as me, does he feel the same to her as he does to me? I can see and appreciate the way their sex acts are different.

For us as well, oral is more postplay than foreplay. And an essential part of round two for men.