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I would agree with Billygoat. If you are not technically 'swingers', you're right on the cusp. I wouldn't worry about it. Unless, of course, you're looking for the official certificate. In that case, we're going to have to consult the Rules Officials . . .

There are many couples that start out this way, most do. But not all move at the same speed to try sharing swapping partners. And that is ok. The Lifestyle is very broad and inclusive: Ethical Non Monogamy sex, Shared sex play, Swapping, Kink and fetish you name it. We’ve met men, women couples from every level and then some. There is not one definition, one lone description that accurately defines swinging, nothing all inclusive. There are many couples who enjoy the freedom, sexual energy, watching and being watched while engaging in open room, group or couples play in the same room or bed. We also know of many who are open active nudists that play/have sex openly at the nudist beach, lake or in a shared Hotel room but separate beds. It is all about open honest communications between all participating, consenting adults, desires and location.

Please follow-up and tell us how the sex has been between you two. My guess is better than ever, she is grateful and you are excited to get back in there and prove yourself. And no doubt you will want her to continue. Unlike a man, a woman's has the ability to totally satisfy multiple partners. It improves your relationship and sex life as well.

Were either of you ever non-monogamous? It doesn't mean that you had to have swapped, but did either of you have two sex partners going at once? Perhaps in your younger days, transitioning from one relationship to another? Tell us about that. Swingers swap. Being in "The Lifestyle" or "Non-monogamy" encompasses much more.

My overall experience with blowjob technique is that some ladies definitely have serious skills while others don't. But blowjobs are kinda like pizza. Even when it's bad it's still pretty good 😉

After a week at a house vacation with a large group it’s not only men who watch. I’m not a voyeur normally, I don’t need to watch anyone including my husband have sex but one night we cheered on two women with the men giving oral. I left my shy self behind and laughed and enjoyed with the crowd.