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3 pointsWe backed out of an invitation after driving over five hours to a party of strangers. Back story. We were looking for new people on one of the advertised sites that was referred to us. We didn’t sign up yet, we used someone’s sign in, we aren’t ready to register with a profile yet. We know this is deceitful so we immediately tell any contact our true profile. We are still fearful of our identity out there, we searched in neighboring states not minding the travel. Tim made contact with someone, told them our history of being very new, one experience only. They questioned our real identity, many fakes on there. He gave them my contact to show we are real, first with a pic of us then a call making sure it wasn’t just a guy looking. Memorial Day weekend party they were having, could be 10 others there. Once again we asked Grandma to watch so we could take a mini vacay. We take off knowing storms in the area, bad weekend for travel. The trip was full of us talking the possibilities and our first stop was picking up protection. Now the bad. We get to the address and see political flags out front. I tell Tim that there is no way I’m spending the weekend with folk flying those flags, he tried to say I shouldn’t assume they are A holes. I know he wanted the hostess, the husband looked nice too unless he was like the flags. We drove down the road and talked and watched others going to the house. One guy even asked if we needed help because we were stopped on the side of the road. My mind played tricks on me imagining the talk at the party, it made me cry really bad. Timmy said we could drive home, I could see he didn’t want to. I just couldn’t. We didn’t go to the house.
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1 pointThat's just the response we were looking for thank you. We seem to be on the same page.
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1 pointThis is a very realistic dynamic, M&W. My wife and I had a situation where we were swingers/stag & vixen. We quite often met a couple for group fun. But, the supply of willing and attractive couples is limited. Single guys can be found at the drop of a hat. And since I found that I enjoyed watching my wife in the throes and being part of an MFM threesome, we often looked for singe men. My wife never humiliated me, never thought I was less of a man because I was wiling to share her with others. That, to me, is the definition of 'cuckold' in today's world. And the dynamic we had often led to great evenings. Many times we'd go to our swing club and get together with a couple (or even a small orgy.) When that was over, at my age I was pretty done for the night. But Mary was still in the zone, so she'd sometimes pick up a single guy for more fun. Through enough experimentation, M&W, you'll find what you both enjoy. And that will lead you to a dynamic where you'll both have a lot of fun and be happy in the LifeStyle.
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1 pointNot often, but yes, we've attended house parties where we took off after checking the scene. Not for political reasons like you (although there's many times when we turned down couples or singles for that reason,) but simply because we didn't feel comfortable. Or safe, in one circumstance. If you walk in, and there's a number of people who are downright drunk or very high on drugs (we don't mind a little drug use) and we're out of there. And if they're passing loaded guns around, maybe think about what could happen . . . If you don't feel safe or comfortable, get your tail out of there.
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1 pointRefusing contact beforehand because they openly express a view of any kind, says more about you than them.
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1 pointThe visible display of "political flags" (I think I can read between the lines there) suggests their houseparty is more exclusive than inclusive, and that fellow swingers with divergent political viewpoints are unwelcome. We wouldn't have entered the house either.
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1 pointIn our early days in the lifestyle, my wife played and I didn't. We always met the guy who she was going to fuck socially for dinner to make sure everything was understood all around before they started. Not so much that I wasn't a cuck, but that I knew, was fine with it, and her pleasure was the priority. You could call it hotwifing, but it was really just our first step.
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1 pointHim: "If I knew you were a virgin, I would have taken longer." Her: "If I knew you had more time, I would have taken off my pantihose first."
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1 pointI have been interested in swinging for years but I thought my wife would be dead set against it. Several years ago I was talking with several of my friends. We were talking about who's wife had the best tits. My best friend to my surprise said that my wife had the best tits, they were to die for. I thought that would piss her off so I had never mentioned it until years later, boy was I wrong she wanted to know everything we were talking about. I ask her if she would have liked to had a threesome with him and me and she didn't say no she said that maybe she would have if I had ask her. That was several years ago and that friend lives across the country now. But that started the conversation. We talked about hot wife or swinger life style and I'm not comfortable with being cucked. I would love to watch her being fucked but I love to have fun too. We both agree that when we bring another person of couple into our bedroom we would both have to be comfortable with and like them and trust them to be discrete. I would prefer a married couple someone that would have just as much to loose as my wife and I. We are still looking for the perfect couple. I would love to insert some images but I have never converted a jpeg to url I have no idea.
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1 pointOver twentyfive years in the lifestyle, hosting parties, events, themes and private fantasy parties. In all that time I never had a woman married, single, young or older ask for a picture of my Dick to make her decision. Especially if we never met. We have been asked for some pictures and I have been asked to take pictures or and of other couples activities, play events. I have been asked to provide pictures of me, us, previous similar events that a solo female, female group or couple(s) looking into an event or hosted sex fantasy. Never sent one unrequested and not verified to any couple or woman. I always scratch my head and wonder why do that.
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1 pointOur first experience was in our 30's. Now 70Plus. We did not discuss this, it simply "happened". My wife joined our neighbour (father of 2) on a saturday afternoon to bring the kids to a sports event in the village. They discussed erotic themes and after returning the kids back-home to me and the other mother, they went out to buy pizzas. This lasted longer than expected, to put it mildly. Later that night, my wife told me the details in full colour and smell. I fucked her twice and she felt different inside. The next day, Sunday-evening, we met the four of us (kids to bed early and the baby-phone alive) and swapped partners in separate rooms. Amazing! Note: i now realise this was not the first.
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1 pointAny wives enjoy showing their husband off? I do appreciate when a woman compliments David or Red, and when the talk turns to sex, speculate on their physical attributes. In our early days of just David, Red, and me it was a thrill when I set up David with other women. Recently, showing off Red and David to Shannon was exciting for me. Any other wives feel the same?
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1 pointWe've continued to play with Shannon and Joe - one or two of us visiting them and staying at their house since they have no kids, or they visiting us and staying at a nearby hotel because we have children. Either way is fun, but in different ways. At their house it's more intimate and the sex more intense, while near us we rotate through their hotel room one or two or maybe three at a time, and one of us will stay overnight. Them visiting us also has a greater social aspect. We'll all go out together with the kids and sometimes vanilla friends. Overall, Shan just enjoys the physical pleasure (she says that it's like college), while Joe is also into the psychological aspects of what is happening. He can't get over stories of Shannon’s past, her fucking David and Red, him fucking us other women in front of Shan, Shan's Lesbian acts, etc.
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1 pointThey went out and did fun things, then had sex together. Nothing they told me was anything you haven’t read about here on this forum, although I like letting my imagination run. I did talk to David and Shannon (just typing their names together makes me jealous) before and after they had sex. That was cool. And David told me that he called Joe and taunted him (as Joe likes) about fucking, screwing, making love to his wife, the insatiable slut. I also spoke to Joe and he confirmed what David said and he liked it. At least I could calm down by having sex with Red and some girl action; Joe was alone with his tormenting thoughts. It’s not courage, just that we in our family are very much in love and committed to out family, that makes us open about the little outside play that takes place, and we’re fine with it. Play outside our family may be intense (for me at least), but we understand it's just fun sex.
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1 pointYep. They spent two days and nights alone together. Indeed. Women who are lezzie for each other can be like that.
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1 pointIf a guy has a high body count people say things like he's just sowing his wild oats, he's experienced, a real man's man, or boys will be boys. But if a woman has a high body count we're called sluts, whore, and loose. Guys say we must be a loose and sloppy lay cause so many guys have been in there. We lie and fudge our numbers because Guys can't handle our body count in a mature way. If we go out to a bar or club you have no clue how much attention we get. Finding a sexual partner is too easy, and contrary to popular belief we do get horny. We like sex too.
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1 pointIt is deviant. It deviates from social norms and those who want to control you. But as you say, so long as it is mutually consensual and not hurting anyone, it is moral. It is even obligatory if you want to live a full and adventurous life. As a woman who started non-monogamy by having a two boyfriends, both knowing and monogamous with me, one of whom became my husband, it gave me a sense of power and confidence that improved the rest of my life, especially as a young professional. With my consent (more than consent, it was my idea) and under my control, finding women for my husband to have sex with, becoming bi, inviting one then another into our family, having hubby make children with them, me having a child with my boyfriend, were all deviant (my father has told me I'm a whore and doesn't speak to me) but these are our choices, my choices which have made my life infinitely more fulfilling than most.
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1 pointGreetings. We are new here. I (Marla) have some experience swinging. But it was a long (long) time ago before I met Brian. We been together almost 30-years. Last year (I was a bit buzzed) I mentioned my past swinging to him. At first I thought he might get mad, but was pleased to see he was aroused. So I told him some of the details. I swapped a few times with my first husband but didn't really enjoy it. I knew marriage was on rocks and he talked me into it, I was thinking it might help smooth things out. Of course it didn't and we divorced. After my divorce I did have some fun 3 or 4 times a year with a group of friends that would meet up for a long weekend. I also use to travel a fair amount for work and was able to have fun on the road. But as I mentioned it was a long time ago. Anyways, since I brought it up to Brian we've talked about starting up (he has no experience). But since I've been out of it for such a long time I feel like a novice. So we joined this site to mainly get information about the lifestyles ins & outs (so to speak no pun intended) these days. So I think we will be reading a lot of the forms to get up to speed about the lifestyle. So thanks to all those who post here, it will help us in many ways as this journey moves on, if it does at all.
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1 pointAlmost the entire relationship... Nearly 10 years.
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1 pointMarie recently told me that she really wants more sex with big black men. She said, I want a man who is big like a football lineman and hung. She said, I like to be dominated like that. Now keep in mind, my wife Marie is 5'6', only about 125 and has 36dd's. So most of her weight comes from those big tits. She has a small body otherwise. She is very light skinned and has blonde hair and blue eyes. She also shaves her pussy clean. Marie and I went online one night and went into a chat room for white women and black men. This guy IM'd us. He said, Hi, I'm Deon. We told him about us and that we were a married white couple that likes to share Marie with other men. Deon was into it. When we checked his profile, it blew us away. He was 20 years old, 6'6' 320 lbs, bald and black. He had a great smile and was just HUGE. He was really into talking with us. We talked for over an hour. When we realized, Deon lived only 15 minutes away. We then decided to give him our number. He called instantly. Marie picked up and talked with Deon for about a half hour. Before I knew it, she was hanging up and saying, 'Ok, see you in an hour.' I said,'an hour? He is coming here?' She said, yes he is. I have to get ready. Wow. Marie went up to shower and I was getting excited about the thought of this. It really excited me to watch my wife being dominated. I went and grabbed a beer. I was relaxing on the couch, when the door bell rang. It had only been about 40 minutes. I answered, I saw the largest man I have ever met standing at my door. He towered over me. He extended his hand and said hello. His hand wrapped around mine like I had a child's hand. I invited him in. I told him that Marie would be ready soon. I got Deon a beer and we sat. After about ten minutes, Marie came down. She was wearing a long white see-through teddy, G-string, white fishnets and high heels. Deon said, 'Oh my. Lucky me'. He walked over and gave her a hug. He was more than double her size. She kissed him and took his hand. She whispered in his ear. She then said, 'Honey, I am going to take Deon upstairs to fucking pound me now, are you coming?' I said 'yes honey.' We went up to our bedroom. Deon was pawing my wife. He had his big black hands all over her. He was groping her big tits and small ass. She then said, 'Deon, don't hold back. Treat me bad. Come on.' He then looked at me. I nodded as to suggest it was ok. He then took his hands and placed them on her neckline. He then took her teddy lingerie by the neck and ripped it open. He tore it off her. There she stood naked in front of him. He then demanded she remove her G-string. She did so quickly. He then dropped his pants. She then tried to help him with his boxers. He took them off. Then my wife and I both starred in amazement at the size. The size was something of shear terror. WOW. It had to be longer than a foot and at least 7" around. It was HUGE. She looked down, he then grabbed her by the back of her head and forced her to her knees. She then began to lick it. He then inserted it into her mouth. She took it barely. Her thin lips wrapped around this thick long monster. I was so excited. She sucked it for while and then he looked down at her and said, are you ready to be fucked by a real man. She said, OH YEAH BABY. He picked her up over his shoulder and threw her onto the bed. He then mounted her. His huge torso hovered over my little wife. He then began to paw at her tits and bite at her nipples. He was ruthless. He was extremely rough with her. He then began to slap and bite on her tits. He then took his monster hand and placed it over her throat. He then began to slide his monster inside. As she began to shed a tear he tightened his grip around her throat. He then pulled out. He then threw her little legs over his massive shoulders. He tight little pussy was wet and ready. He then reinserted his cock. She moaned. He then slowly shoved it in. He began to pump. She moaned. He got her nice and wet. Although he had only gone in about half way. He then pulled out and with one swift move he slammed her. 'UGH UGH' she fucking screamed. A tear came out of her eye. He then began to slam her. She was not taking it well. He was massive. She begged at one point. 'OH OH please... oohh please stop.' He fucked her harder. He said 'You will learn to love this cock!' He kept fucking her. She was hurting. Then I could see a change in Marie. She began to smile. She looked up at him. She blew him a kiss and said 'You were right. I love this cock! Keep fucking!' He fucked her over and over and she came over and over. They fucked until he finally came inside my wife. They collapsed in each others arms. Deon told me that he would be spending the night. I got Deon a room ready and he said, 'Oh no, I will be sleeping with your wife. You can make the room for yourself. I still have some more fucking to do. After tonight your wife will never be the same woman.' Marie looked at me and said 'Yes Honey, I want more Deon... Ugh, that big body on top of me, fucking me, ugh, I love it and that monster cock...'.
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