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This happened to my wife an I with a good friend of mine but the wife was very up front about what was happening with the two of them but she num 1 didn't want to break up our marriage and 2nd she didn't want to break up our friendship so we would just talk it out he never admitted it but he had broke up couples before even a marriage of a army friend so I just had to trust her cuz she didn't want to give up that extra cock

What to do depends entirely on the two of you as individuals and the nature of your marriage. For us this was never an issue. We have each had emotional attachments to play partners. Each of us kept it in perspective . The fact you are asking others makes me wonder if this is the road for you two. Not every swinger couple is so wired When this started happening we were well into 30+ years together and There were no doubts as to what we knew to expect from each other. Life is a great teacher.

I didn’t literally “cry”, we did just travel 5 hours to meet at a party because we wanted to out what our vacation friends told us about swinging. Differing politics was never an issue with our family, nobody wore their political views on their heads. The only political signs growing up was during election season, and as my father said both sides want what’s best in different ways. An American flag was patriotic. I am reminded that nobody denied elections, wanted overthrow Congress, or take away my rights as a woman. I don’t need sex with others, so I will continue to choose compatible partners who I would want to be friends with when I do decide to explore.

This is a very realistic dynamic, M&W. My wife and I had a situation where we were swingers/stag & vixen. We quite often met a couple for group fun. But, the supply of willing and attractive couples is limited. Single guys can be found at the drop of a hat. And since I found that I enjoyed watching my wife in the throes and being part of an MFM threesome, we often looked for singe men. My wife never humiliated me, never thought I was less of a man because I was wiling to share her with others. That, to me, is the definition of 'cuckold' in today's world. And the dynamic we had often led to great evenings. Many times we'd go to our swing club and get together with a couple (or even a small orgy.) When that was over, at my age I was pretty done for the night. But Mary was still in the zone, so she'd sometimes pick up a single guy for more fun. Through enough experimentation, M&W, you'll find what you both enjoy. And that will lead you to a dynamic where you'll both have a lot of fun and be happy in the LifeStyle.