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This topic sounds familiar, I was chastised for bringing politics into a discussion. I checked and 6 years ago I stated that I was uncomfortable with a man who was very vocal in his political preference. 10 years ago political talk was civil if brought up, the area we live in was solidly in agreement on the topic. When politics was brought up at this one party by someone I never met before it made me angry, it took away from the reason we were there, sex. I certainly didn’t want to think about politics, I use baseball scores to help me delay. @Half MT I understand your reluctance to mix sex and politics. Your first party is hard enough without outside reasons that could ruin your first, it could affect how you will approach future meetings

My observation as a woman is that straight men, those in my experience, aren't interested in touching other men, but that doesn't let that prevent them from their goal of getting into and getting off in a woman. Not so much the visual or the kinkiness, just their desire to ejaculate in her. Guys aren't deterred by even the most masculine indicia of another man - cum. They will go right into a sloppy vagina, bum, or mouth without clean up, no problem. Something I must admit I do like.

An even bigger wtf is guys that post a pic of their dick with a women’s face going down on them, but no face pics of themselves anywhere on their profile! Like anyone is going to trust a guy who puts other people who have no clue out there , but not themselves. Huge fail.

You certainly will get sympathy here. I doubt you will get much action. Meet ups are not the Focus of this community. For that perhaps looking into the sites of our sponsors at the top of this page will serve you well. If you are looking for some suggestions on dealing with that, or just an opportunity to vent, then The Board may be of service. At any rate welcome aboard and Good Luck.

Not the smartest thing we never brought the subject up, only used protection if the others brought it up. A dumb thing not to discuss when meeting strangers I felt most newbies were “clean”. Too much trust or too naive.

Sadly, it wasn’t the 10 minutes. It merely served as the catalyst. Think about your needs and wants now, moving forward. Time to put you first. Always welcome back Best 🌻

I have written about this at length in other threads: Far too many couples decide to jump into the lifestyle without having soberly considered both the potential upsides and downsides. Swinging is not a good fit for most marriages and far more marriages have been ruined by having sex outside of the relationship than have been helped. This should be the starting point of any serious discussion about swinging. A couple should know they are rolling the dice and considering an activity that is, by definition, high risk--both to their relationship and to their physical and emotional health. And far too many people in the lifestyle act as proselytizers trying to convert people to the lifestyle. This is extremely misguided if not borderline unconscionable. It is unfortunate the OPs are having such a difficult time. We encourage them to seek out professional help immediately. This is not the kind of thing that a couple can ordinarily resolve on their own. And the longer it goes on unresolved, the more damage is being done. Wishing them the best of luck.

Ehh, I think "bareback" is pretty much a trigger word on all LS platforms. The mere utterance of it is a green light for others to begin virtue signaling...