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I’m very sorry this happened to you, Tricia. I hope you have healed from this multi-dimensional trauma Your recounting of this terrible experience is a cautionary story for all of us that in the lifestyle, as in the rest of life, things can go unexpectedly and terribly wrong.

When my wife first got into swinging, she absolutely wanted me involved in MFMs. Insisted on it, even. So, we did. As time went on, that requirement loosened, and I found I really enjoyed watching her have sex, and she enjoyed me watching her. We eventually progressed to solo dates. She would come home and while we made love she would tell me all about the evening. Further on, she had full on boyfriends (in series, not parallel :) ) and had a couple of overnight weekends with one of them. The point? Things can change (and likely will) over time. If your wife decides to cross this bridge, she may very much want a full on MFM for a while, then maybe want to change things up. Assuming you're all ok with everything, support her as she moves through this. If there's something you don't like though, make sure she's aware of it, and the communication lines are wide open.

Didn’t know it till we got there after a 45 minute drive. Our opposing party friends were there in great number. In 2016, we were confident that our side would win. Things have gone downhill since.

This topic sounds familiar, I was chastised for bringing politics into a discussion. I checked and 6 years ago I stated that I was uncomfortable with a man who was very vocal in his political preference. 10 years ago political talk was civil if brought up, the area we live in was solidly in agreement on the topic. When politics was brought up at this one party by someone I never met before it made me angry, it took away from the reason we were there, sex. I certainly didn’t want to think about politics, I use baseball scores to help me delay. @Half MT I understand your reluctance to mix sex and politics. Your first party is hard enough without outside reasons that could ruin your first, it could affect how you will approach future meetings

Football loyalty is much more important than politics!

we wouldn't go to any event if you have a sign up supporting the "orange turd"

I just heard a blurb about how Steve McQueen was invited to a soiree the following night at a friends house and invited a girlfriend to go. His girlfriend declined so he bailed as well. Turns out that the host was Sharon Tate and all of the party goers were killed by the Manson family. So don't second guess your gut feelings, they may save your life some day. My personal belief is that if Steve McQueen was at Sharon Tate's house that night, he would have kicked all of the Manson's asses and we never would have heard anything about it to this very day.

This may not be the hobby for you...

Sometimes it becomes inevitable if one is in polyamory relationship, just like couplers.

Personally, for me, it is her pleasure that excites me. I would not swing alone.

It would be our suspicion that you will have no issues with attracting men (or women for that matter). Pregnant women are the embodiment of creation and exude sexuality. Welcome to the swingersboard and best wishes to the three of you!

We have swapped with pregnant women before and I love it! The hormones get the women horny as hell. Enjoy it, we had a great time.

Watch out what you look for, a big dick sounds exciting, it can be if used correctly. We picked up many men mostly all were in what we call average. I always enjoyed telling every man how big he was and the reactions were varied. Michael knew when I noticed a larger dick and the way I got excited. My therapist asked me what attracted me and how I felt when picking up men. I can’t remember exactly what I told her, I did get thrills from seeing each man soft or erect. The big thrill was what I called the unveiling, seeing the whole package, the length, girth and as others stated the scrotum. Some men were easy for me to take the whole thing in my mouth, others stretched my mouth, most I managed easily. If we got passed the oral to straight sex the difference was even less, the excitement was the act. The major difference was the attitude not the size. My caution is a big dick will at times be attached to a big asshole. We met men with above average size, I know some will quickly say the guy had 10 inches, very very few do, this one asshole maybe was close to it. Excited to see it, excited to play with, I didn’t mind him shoving it in my mouth, my fetish as my therapist labeled it, I worried when they became more aggressive. The smaller guy was smaller not small, got behind me a jammed me. When he finished the big one, the one others post they want took his turn. Michael tried to stop him, he couldn’t. I ended up hurt in many ways, physically, with an STI, and emotionally traumatized. What started as excitement turned quickly.