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Very limited knowledge of sizes of men’s genitals the ones I have been with were all about the same size yet looked different. Even the two that were in me felt the same and looked completely different to me. After reading all the comments I’m pleased to see Timmy is average sized and that’s fine with me. In my teens the girls would talk about guys they slept with, laughing about little guys and laughing about big guys. I remember the first time I saw a guy go from small soft to a larger erect one I thought he was huge, I later learned more about sex that he wasn’t huge. Is it true that men who post here are all in the top 5% in size and that all the women want the 1 in 10,000 and have found him?

I think we may have isolated the problem here. You seem to be hoping that she'll 'fulfill' your fantasy by having sex with another man. I wonder if it's her fantasy too, or if she's just role playing in the bedroom to excite you. In this light, you may wish to go back and reread the advice given above. Gold has particularly good ideas, I think.

Yankee/Giants fans here. We’ve done Eagles and Red Sox fans. We all look alike without clothes.

I’m very sorry this happened to you, Tricia. I hope you have healed from this multi-dimensional trauma Your recounting of this terrible experience is a cautionary story for all of us that in the lifestyle, as in the rest of life, things can go unexpectedly and terribly wrong.

For us as a loving couple who also have intercourse with other men and simply love having sex naturally and without a condom, it is natural that we keep and raise a child, regardless of the man it is from. We know the men and we love it with them. Why should we suddenly reject a child who is from a man who had the permission to cum into her? Just because it's not mine? That would be absolutely ridiculous and a low blow to all the men we associate with. What kind of man would I be if I didn't raise it together with her as a gift of our lustful pleasure with others and the deep love between us.

Of course. It's extremely exciting watching my wife suck off some guy and then share some of his cum with me!! I also really enjoy watching her wrap her legs around a guy and meet his every thrust followed by him unloading in her hairy blonde cunt. I then love to suck their cum out of it!! While I will never suck a guy's cock I get really horny sucking his cum from my wife or someone else's wife!!

Doing oral on our guys is routine, but having them ejaculate in our mouth is not, we all prefer that semen end up in our vaginas on the way to mutual orgasms. After that, one of us guys or girls will do oral on that mess to get her to a second orgasm. We women like taking a sloppy dick into our mouth as well, when he can stand it.

Back in the nineties, when married to the sequel, We took out an ad in "Alabama Tennessee Georgia Swingers" mag. Black and white cropped pics included. Got a lot of responses. met only 2 over the years. Fast forward 10 years.....at a house party as a single male. Host pulls out a mag he recently picked up at a gas station. There is our ad from 10 years earlier, pics and all. And people say the internet is forever.......

It's understandable, but I wouldn't consider it a sexual bucketlist item. When I am in Europe, I go to nude spas, enjoy being in that milieu of naked people of all types, but I don't consider it sexual. For others it may have a sexual aspect, but I don’t care if someone is looking at me that way, we're all enjoying the sun and water and air; pools, saunas, steamrooms.

First of all, talk about this when you are NOT in a sexual situation. See if it is just a fantasy or something that she is really willing to try. Let her KNOW that you don't have a problem with her being with another man (as long as you are there and involved), and you are actually very interested in seeing this as well. She needs to know that wanting this is okay with you, but also okay if she wants it to just remain a fantasy as well. If she is still interested in making this happen, then sign up for a swingers site (see: Please visit our sponsors at the top of every page). They will all generally let you set up a free profile so you can take a look around. Different sites will have more people in your area than others, so once you find one that is well represented close by, JOIN IT. Most people don't take the free members seriously since too often they are men wishing that actually were in a situation where they could really be doing this with their partner. It's usually only a couple of $$...less than you would spend going out for dinner, and WELL WORTH the small investment. Finding single men looking for a MFM on any of these sites is like finding a cheeseburger at McD's...there will be HUNDREDS of men looking for a couple wanting a MFM. Then, while you can look together, she can also look and try and find the 'perfect guy' for her (remember: HUNDREDS if not thousands of men are there). I would recommend that you make sure that they are not married, or, if they are, their partner is okay with what they are doing. You don't want to get caught up in someone else's drama. Find the 'perfect guy', meet him, and see where it goes. We usually suggest meeting for dinner or drinks with the understanding that it is just a first meeting and that NOTHING else is going to happen the first meet. That way she doesn't feel any pressure, you can both continue to discuss this afterwards, and she can be sure that he is the right guy to go forward with (or not). Keep letting her know that if, at any time, she doesn't want to move forward, that you are also okay with that. She should NEVER feel like she has to do anything she is uncomfortable with. He should know what she is willing to do and not willing to do before anything happens, and, if he is a true gentleman, he will always ask before he does anything. At this point (if you make it this far), you two are on your own. Good luck and let us know how things may progress...

My experience is, I will talk about filling her up and licking her clean! We talk about all her holes filled at the same time and me licking them clean! Since we haven't tried swinging yet, its all talk and role play! One time she grabbed my head after filling her up a second time in the morning and made me lick all my still hot cum from her, it was freaky and hot at the same time! I think she likes the idea of me licking cum from her one way or another!

I think i would she loves making me lick my cum from her body. i lose that kinky urge the second after i cum. But if it was someone else I would still be in that dirty talk mode and she would just force me. We talked about someone else cuming on her tits and if I would clean it up, I hesitated and should have said yes babe anything for you. Mouth, tits in the heat of the moment yes!

It is above all a question of the sympathy between men which makes it very erotic or not. It wouldn't be that difficult for us, as we currently only let men we like cum in her. It's such a turn on every time she and he finish and are still cuddling, his flaccid cock slipping out, seeing the wonderful result leaking out of her pussy. It makes her pussy look so beautiful. My desire for this varies in moments like this, but sometimes I just have a huge desire to enjoy eating his cum out her pussy. Especially when the sperm is beautifully white, thick and lumpy... I shouldn't even think about it...

We share our love with others out of love for our relationship and because we make good choices in the men who sleep with her, it is natural for us to accept a possible fertilisation and the child as a gift to us, regardless of whose sperm it comes from.

We have always had an agreement that if a 'mistake' should happen and my wife gets pregnant from another man while swinging we will accept the child and raise him/her as our own. I was always prepared to accept that possibility - although it never happened. It gave my wife peace of mind knowing that an accident like that wouldn't ruin our marriage.

I'm glad that you did. I reacted in haste, particularly to the statements: OK, if you want to feel the men ejaculate, I can understand that; some women don't want to or can't take hormonal contraceptives. But sex has its fundamental purpose of creating new humans, so take responsibility for that. There are IUDs and diaphragms. But this situation (if true) goes further beyond that. She has a desire to set up a competition among the men to get her pregnant with the thought that she will conceive the most robust child. I don't think it works that way. What she will get is the fastest, luckiest swimmer. So it is a conflict between the husband and wife over the paternity of the child she plans to have, and apparently he doesn't want to go along with this plan, and I agree, but for a different reason. An article I read long ago said that upper middle class couples adopting children are often frustrated when they adopt a child from a disadvantaged background because sometimes the child doesn't grow up to meet their expectations. Despite the best schools, a stable family, etc., trouble arises. The article pointed out that a child's overall development in intelligence, disposition is half environment and half genetics. The adoptive parents can give him or her the environment, but not the genetics which they do share with their parents, siblings, grandparents and have set their expectations for a child's development. If they decided to chance a bareback gangbang (I can't believe I'm writing these words) and don't want to conceive, then use an IUD, diaphragm, or plan it during her non-fertile period. If she gets pregnant despite precautions, then consider an abortion. If you decide to have the child, then I stick with what I said above. There are many children who turn out well growing up in an adoptive home with the adoptive parents and the child not knowing their parental provenance. Although nowhere nearly the same, our poly family started when Clair became pregnant by my husband (she wasn't having sex with Red at the time), which was totally unexpected and unplanned because she was on birth control at the time. Our relationship was only beginning, and Clair offered to abort so as not to upset our nascent relationship. Instead, I pushed hubby and Red that I get pregnant as well so Clair and I could go through it all together. I went off birth control and over the next two months hubby and Red did it "pot luck" so I could get pregnant as quickly as possible. It was the best decision ever. (Reciting this, it does give me a little sense of what this guy's wife is talking about; it was an amazing feeling having two men trying to conceive with me. But keep in mind, both knew, supported the situation of what Clair and I were doing, and either man would be a responsible father just by himself, but Clair and I have the support of both.) On the other hand, if one of us conceived a terribly defective fetus or were raped, we would abort without hesitation. We are lucky to live in these modern times where the joy or sex can be separated from reproduction. Use those tools wisely.

I used to share my ex-wife, (she's my ex because of other reasons not her riding other men). The guys would cum in her and one guy in particular would have sex with her quite a bit. No contraception at all. I would do her after. She got pregnant with our second daughter and the time frame could possibly have been his but I have no idea don't care and never checked. It's my daughter period.

I'd be careful with that, and definitely don't get her a gift certificate.

I just wanted my husband to experience a tighter vagina. I never told him how tight her vagina was. I wanted it to be a surprise. I never told him I was looking for someone with a tight vagina. He gasp after he penetrated her and had an "Oh my God!" moment. It was awesome to watch his reactions as she squeezed off his dick and he got gangrene.

My wife journals her meetings writing whatever she remembers. Very rare that she mentions size which leads me to say it doesn’t matter.

How can I expect my wife to do something that i'm not willing to do myself. I wouldn't ask anyone to do a job that I wouldn't do myself and have done in the past.

My husband loves kissing me and eating me out after another has cum in me

Oh my goodness. yes Yes YES it finally happened again after so much time off. Three penises later, three loads of sexy cum and three OMG kisses with my husband that got me off and my toes curled. I was covered and he did not have anyway to opt out. That's the best part of having him pinned underneath me and another wife. The last one, we where off of him and my husband went for me as soon I as I had sucked the gentleman off. Tongues dancing and darting all over, lips smushing, cum everywhere. You know sometimes the messiest kisses ARE the best!

Yes, I definitely would kiss her. I did it with my wife a few times when she had my cum in her mouth. I loved it so much and got turned on by it for round two. But I have to admit that I like to see other stiff cocks and had blown a friends cock years ago. He didn’t cum but I liked to have his cock in my mouth and lick his shaft.

Oral after intercourse always ROCKS! on all of us. But you are so right - if HE can handle it - lol. The guys crack me up how sensitive their penises get some times and we ladies do love them sloppy so some times the men have to man up and deal with it!

For me, watching hubby or Red have sex with Clair or Lora still makes me jealous with all kinds of feelings, but then doing oral on one or both of them somehow brings those feelings to a resolution. IDK why, but this all plays with my sense of adequacy (Lora and Clair are both much more sexually attractive than me), I go through phases of feeling submissive, other times I am very confident and dominant, regardless of which role or position I am in. Being in a poly family where my sex partners are also equally my lovers lets me partake of this. The flip side of this is that those I love also love each other. I guess unlike most others here, it's not just sex, it is emotional. I am jealous of the other women in my family because they are loved by my husband and boyfriend; they've had their babies. But then, I love these women so deeply as well. Sorry for my meanderings, but it makes me feel better seeing it written down, knowing others will read it an may comment.

Yes Steve love to Kiss me after and we know its ok with our friend too lol he loves to Kiss me with a full mouth and I enjoy it too

I’ve done it a few times, once the guys wife was sucking me as I was kissing Kim. Then after I came in the wife’s mouth, she kissed her hubby. never into snowballing, but I would kiss her.

I've kissed my wife and other women after they have blown other men and swallowed. I've also snowballed with my own cum.

Fantastic to kiss her when she has another guy's cum in her mouth, and she shares it with me. One on the best swing sessions was with a guy who pulled out of her and came almost a half cup of cum onto her tits. I licked/sucked it up and shared it with her in a French kiss. She shared it back to the guy in a French kiss with him. Wild, wild, wild!

Yes when our reg's cum we agree is't cool. and yes i kiss both guys. Mouth full and they enjoy and that is fun for us all. My bf like as well very much as do I

Yes we both love to suck dick and we love to share the cum in a kiss.

I very often kiss my wife after our friend cums in her mouth and go down on her after he cums in her vagina. It's great fun and my wife loves it.

Not bi at all, but I would kiss my wife because she is my wife and if I lick pussy and she sucks cock till they cum what the difference,she would kiss me and has done it right after I licked, she my girl and my wife because I love her and we do what we do together

Nothing hotter than kissing my wife with the taste and scent of come in her mouth. Winter is coming...snowballs!

I have done it many times with my wife and am always turned on by it and end up cumming inside my wife afterwards. When we are having a MFM with our very close male friend, we don't use condoms. I like him to finish first so I can lick my wife's pussy and then fuck her. There is nothing like fucking a pussy lubricated by another man's cum.

I'm bi as well and this is very sexy to me. I want to see my s/o fuck another woman and fill her up, then let me eat it out of her (both his & her cum). Hopefully this is fantasy I can make a reality soon! Yumm.

My hubby loves to go down on me after a good love session...it depends on the mood.

Twist- It is fun. I have only done it once or twice, but both of us liked it a lot. I love creampies. Not only do I love to eat a cum filled pussy but I also love to watch the cum drip out of her.

I love to do this. Only recently my wife and I had our first threesome. She was a little nervous but I made sure he came in her. Then I loved sucking it out of her then kissing her with the other guy's cum in my mouth... The whole thing is very erotic.

You are not alone! As a Swinger Wann be, I have never had the pleasure of eating another man's creampie out of my wife, but I'd love to! I have eaten my own on many occasions, but it is hard because my desire to eat my own pie goes down when the post-cum blues hits. It usually works best if my wife "makes" me do it. Hopefully one day I will be able to experience a pie that is not of my own making.

Oh! I just love a fresh creampie, can't get enough. The wife had her friend over just a few weeks ago and supplied one for me. yum yum facelick He even chuckled when I was making some noise while enjoying

My husband has been eating me a long time after we've fucked and for the last year or more he's even started eating me out after my boyfriend fucks me. There isn't usually a lot of cum inside me though because they both like to cum all over me but there's usually a little.

I got into this several years ago when I was hot and jacking off. I lay on the floor and put my legs over my head and came in my mouth, I loved it. The other night after my baby came home, I finished off on her big tits. I cleaned her up and shared the load with her. Recently I have had fantasies of having another male lover over and just as he is going to cum in her, I would like to take it myself and share with her. I have also fantasized about doing a hand job on a guy until he shoots his load.

Going down on your wife or partner after she has been "oiled" or just "lubricated" is sensual and sexual. My partners have liked it, and I have found it a turn-on. I like the term "oiled" or "lubricated" better than "having creme pie". I don't now why. Anyway, it is something many guys do when swinging, and probably many more do with their wives and girlfriends at home.

I don't think the idea of eating a cum filled pussy is strange at all. I often take extra time doing oral things to my wife so that she has at least one orgasm without penitration, so that I may enjoy her after climax juices. I also greatly enjoy licking and sucking her pussy after we have had a session with another couple and the guy has nailed her good. We have only done this with a few married couples that we know very well. This practice drives us both crazy, and that's what it's all about.

Ironic that you brought this up. I just had the opportunity to do this over the weekend. Yummy, he was so excited watching me eat her out he almost came again. Definitely something we will enjoy doing again, and again. MrsAK

mine and my hubby's fave...we both do it ..of course only with our long time couples who are like wise married. My man loves to eat his own or someone elses ..it is all the same to him...hot and erotic... facelick

Maybe this might sound weird, but my wife doesn't want to take birth control pills. She wants all of us to cum inside her. I don't mind other guys having sex with her, and having their cums inside her. But regarding her being pregnant with other guy's child, I hope it wont happen that way. She just laughed if I asked her to take birth control pills, saying that she wants only the best sperm to become her child. I guess she must have read it somewhere when she told me that german tribes have their wives shared so that the wives could produce the best offsprings. This might sound a bit weird, and I don't know whether she's just joking or not. But I do know that she doesn't want to take the pills (for whatever reason), and she does want all of the guys to cum inside her. I love her so much. I wonder, how many of you guys out there don't mind fathering other guy's child? I must admit that i hope it won't come to that situation, but I do love her very much, and if that does happen, I don't know what I should do.

You're going to need some birth control, somehow. taking chances like that would be not only risky to yourselves, but also to your partners. If you didn't tell them she had no birth control, then it would be rather deceptive. There are plenty of other birth control options, e.g, diaphram, sponge, etc, which are relatively effective. of course, none are going to prevent the spread of disease, so you'd need to choose your partners carefully. Here is a pretty comprehensive list : https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control Sometimes, a fantasy is best left a fantasy. If you're making it a reality, make sure you check the consequences REALLY CAREFULLY before you leap over the edge. If she got pregnant, would you both(!) be comfortable with an abortion, or alternatively, fathering a child who is not your own?