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Why not go for 25? You could teach them many things, and their stamina is a plus. But then it is like that that Steely Dan song, "Hey Nineteen." "Hey Nineteen No we got nothing in common No we can't talk at all"

We also started in our early 50's, and the limits that we put on our SLS profile was 40-60. But we didn't really pay much attention to that, if the couple that attracted us was outside those limits but otherwise attractive, we'd meet with them and see. At the club when we were looking for hookups, we didn't even bother asking about age. My advice to you, MT, would not be to worry too much about age. You'll find attractive people of all ages in the LifeStyle. Just beware of immaturity and craziness, those types tend not to make good bed partners.

Best rec is to play with people your age. Same likely abilities and stamina. But when we were in our fifties, a couple in their seventies asked us to play while on a lifestyle cruise. We discussed and decided if they have the courage to ask us, we’ll give them a try. Worth it, we had a very enjoyable experience. You have to feel an attraction to play. If it’s there, we don’t care about age.

I'm a woman who wears dresses and skirts with no panties. I do it for comfort, but it makes me feel super sexy as well.

Trying out a threesome for the first time can be both exciting and nerve-wracking, right? It's totally normal to have questions and want advice before diving in. Communication is key in any kind of adventure like this. Make sure everyone's on the same page about boundaries, desires, and expectations. Trust and respect are super important too – you want everyone to feel comfortable and have a good time. Take it slow, have fun, and enjoy the journey together. If you're looking for more tips or just wanna chat about it, feel free to reach out.

According to this article from a UK medical organization, adult men who lose both testicles to cancer can, with testosterone replacement, still achieve erections and function sexually. https://www.cancerresearchuk.org/about-cancer/testicular-cancer/living-with/sexlife#:~:text=Removing both testicles (bilateral orchidectomy)&text=After removal of both testicles,would need testosterone replacement therapy. The whole page is worth reading, but this section addresses sex for men who have lost both testicles: Removing both testicles (bilateral orchidectomy) It isn't common to have testicular cancer in both testicles. If you do have cancer in both testicles you need surgery to remove them both. The testicles produce the hormone testosterone. After removal of both testicles, the level of testosterone in the blood falls quickly. This will affect your sex life and your ability to have children (fertility). To maintain your sex drive and be able to get an erection you would need testosterone replacement therapy.

We live right up the road in the Auburn area! To save you some time, SLS (Swing Lifestyle) seems to be the better choice for the Sacramento area. As already stated, you can set up a free account to verify that there is enough people in your area, but once you find a good site, join. Lots of members won't even respond to free accounts since there are too many fakers/flakes/pretenders/men wanting to get a thrill thinking that they could be swingers...if it wasn't for their wives saying NO. As for clubs, the closest is Pokher Knights in Reno...we've never been so we can't give you much more info. We have been to Laguna Del Sol (clothing optional resort) and have heard that they have a pretty active swinger group on Saturday nights, but while we have been there, we've only stayed after dinner once...we are not part of the party crowd and are not looking for the one-and-done type of meetings. PM use if you have more questions or would like to talk more...we're probably too old for you (60's) but are always happy to help introduce others into the L/S.

Swap partners, kiss and see what happens.