Just to clarify, this isn't me trying to get her into my fantasy. I think if we were dating, she'd be all over it, but things get messier/riskier if you have a marriage, kids, house, etc. I'm not on the prowl for this, but would be supportive because I like it when she let's totally loose and I know she would go crazy.
Anyways, we went out Saturday night and she brought it up while we walking into the restaurant to eat. We had some light discussion about it, but coulsnt really dive in. We followed up dinner with a trip to an adult toy store. While rekindling the conversation, we got a call from friends to meet up and kinda pumped the brakes on it. to be continued.