I was already a full time swinger when we meet, I was a unicorn. We meet at the swingers resort Temptation Resort. It was before TripAdvisor got big, he though it was where Temptation Island got film and that. He had no idea it was that kind of resort/hotel. He was there alone while I was with my bff. Ask you could imagine his surprise of the by it. When i saw him, we chichatted. Like his honesty and that. I gave him my number and Facebook. About a month later he called me and ask me out in our first day. By the 3rd one I gave him more details about me and how I got into swinging, and i am not gonna stop. He accepted it and we continued dating. So over time I help him become a swinger. It took a good full year for him to get used to everything. Hardest thing for him was to be around other naked men while they were " playing " with me.