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The whole thing sounds like an excuse for the women to get pedicures. Good luck and let us know how it works out.

We enjoy swapping. Most of our playing has been in separate rooms.

It may work out well for the women, him, and the fans.

What does it for me is watching either of "my" men or "my" women having sex, getting jealous over it, then doing it myself either one-on-one with a guy or FFM. But for me, when I'm having sex I don't want music, an audience (if you'd going to watch, be quiet), multiple men at once (except DP), or other distractions. When I get into it, I'm really into it.

The whole thing sounds like an excuse to get 7 footjobs 🤣

I am just opposite, I like fast funk music playing and in front of people, especially if my partner likes to also. I can think of 3 different times at parties having sex surrounded by partygoers. I like it more if I don't know many of the people, yet they are shouting encouragement.

Yes we do anal semi regularly and she enjoys it but kind of the same for her unless she's already REALLY turned on. (Example, The other day she sent me some nudes I didn't know she took and we both got so turned on looking at them I fucked her mouth, pussy and then ass on a Sunday afternoon with no prior planning almost immediately and she had those screaming, shaking, face turning purple orgasms. 🤣) But we've done DP with me and a toy a few times (we even have an anal toy that straps on to my cock) and when that's done right she LOVES it.

So, I'll start by saying, I have a major foot fetish. A few days ago, while at a cookout with friends (most of whom are in the lifestyle, but only one couple who we have actually played with). The girls were talking about starting a joint onlyfans account, specifically for their feet. The wife decided to out my fetish to everyone and said "hey, my husband has a foot fetish, so he can help since he knows what foot people like. The conversation went from me just taking pics to being fully involved, both worshipping feet and receiving footjobs. All the husband's are cool with the idea as well because they like the idea and see the potential of a 7 girl joint account, but aren't into feet themselves. All 7 women said they would be getting pedicures and meeting at my home next week to get started. I'll let yall know how it goes😎

When my wife has had solo dates with a new partner or long term partner, it's usually her that makes the arrangements. I've helped out with finding partners, but it's her that gets and keeps the ball rolling. I've never described myself as a "cuckold". I very much enjoy my wife having sex with other men. I leave it at that. I don't need a label :)

I guess that’s a compliment?

I could have worded this one better but let me try to explain. To me, the conversations before the play date is a part of the foreplay. I find it very sexy when a women can articulate exactly what she wants from me. However, it seems that most of the time when the husband does all of the preplanning there is not an opportunity for this verbal foreplay with the wife. I was trying to ask if any of the women make their own play arrangements? Do any of them have casual relationships with men other than their husband?

Sorry, I couldn't help myself.

You're not so hot yourself.

I just looked at the posts you were making in 2022. I can see why you'd have had questions for me. 😉 I'd have been happy to answer your questions. If they were really personal, I would have answered in a private message. Anyway, it looks like you got some pretty good advice from the forum members and it seems that everything worked out well for you and your daughter. I'm happy for all of you.

It's not a judgment, but to me a slut is a woman who has indiscriminate sex with people who she hardly knows. That's fine, but for me I don't want to fuck unless there is a connection on another level. None of us have ever used the term. It's ambiguous in my mind, anything from a guy in the lifestyle whose wife fucks other men, to a guy who is monogamous while his wife surreptitiously has a lover. The lifestyle has room for everyone.

I certainly don't have a rape fantasy, but when Red or David (or Joe, since we're now regular sex partners) wants it, comes to me expecting, almost demanding it, it really turns me on. I pretend to resist for a short while, then give in to their masculinity. My belief is that it is left over insecurities from my youth about the sexual attractiveness of my body. I'm flattered that he has come to me to satisfy his sexual needs rather than Clair or Lora or Shannon. Even more so when it's two or three of them.

Sexual bucket list? I’m 76 and I’ve lived in real life pretty much all the sexual acts and combinations I fantasized about when I was young and middle-aged. And a few I hadn’t. 😉😂 I’m grateful I remain sexually active, and am sometimes able to revisit a few of those bucket-list items with a short list of single and couple FWBs.

That is very generous, loving and mature of you. Just tell your wife that. She's enjoying herself and you're ok with the way it's going, so no need to fret. Move at your own pace. I like fucking other women, but knowing & watching my wife enjoy herself is great too. Nothing wrong with it. You should. In all our group everyone sees their wives fucking other guys and enjoying it. There isn't one bit of degradation or humiliation in any of it. I would say it is all a celebration of life. And with agreement between spouses it may be that they both swing differently. There is no need for spouses to be mirror images of each other in swinging or to expect reciprocity. The best thing for us in starting in the lifestyle was for my wife to start (with ex-boyfriends) while I remained monogamous.

A few men have successfully elicited this response from my wife. She was surprised that she could do it. She said it was a pleasant feeling of release, but less powerful than an orgasm. There is a finger movement/placement technique to elicit it, but it has eluded me without formal training. You Tube?

Hanging out by the pool late at night always got us some attention , wasn't welcome then though as neither of us were interested in swinging lol. But yeah whenever we used to settle on the loungers by the pool with a few beers it wouldn't be too long before somebody stopped to chat, a few times it ended with some drunken skinny dipping but nothing more