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Our first experience happened in 2016 while we were on vacation. We'd dabbled online with little success and we weren't crazy about playing close to home, so we'd talked for a long time about checking out a club while out of town. We ended up going to Secrets in Orlando and almost immediately struck up a conversation with a lovely Canadian couple also there on vacation. He was a handsome burly guy & she was a hot busty blonde and we hit it off almost too well because we all got way too drunk at the bar but the omlet buffet saved our lives (or at least our night.) amd sobered us up. We decided to go take a swim in the pool next and we all saw each other naked for the first time there. I immediately started to get hard lol. Oops. Nobody seemed to mind. After lounging in the hot tub (and fondling my wife's pussy under the water while she stroked my cock as we were both incredibly horny). Me and the husband stepped aside and had the conversation and complimented each other's wives amazing tits in the process. We confirmed we were all on the same page, then they asked to go to the playroom. We went to an open bed area first, I didn't really know the etiquette but I guess it was more of an orgy area. Our own wives each starting sucking our cocks side by side and things started heating up but we kept getting interrupted by handsy single guys trying to fuck my wife so we moved to a private room. My wife asked the other woman if she could eat her pussy and they started together. I then got behind my wife and started eating it from the back while the other wife sucked off her husband. Then he asked .."Would you like to switch?" I looked at my wife who nodded in agreement and then let this beautiful, well endowed gal I'd just met give me an amazing blowjob. And I glanced down to see a guy I'd just met spreading my wife's ass cheeks apart and tongue fucking her while she ate his wife out. We switched again and I ate the Canadian wife's pussy from the back while she ate my wife out, and I look up to see my wife taking another cock in her mouth for the first time. Was I jealous? Was I mad? Nope. I was turned on! They both agreed since it was our first time a soft swap was best, so we both played with each partner in that manner for a while and then each fucked our own spouses in front of each other. We said our goodbyes, had a wonderful time, never heard from them again and our cherry's had been popped.

You have heard excellent commentary. Yours was a learning experience. Over the decades (OMG, it has been decades…) we have adopted a fairly standard approach. 1. We prefer a phone conversation or brief video call prior to the first meeting. We want to know who we are meeting. We like video, as the camera is pretty good at telling us whether the posted photos are 20-years-ago or accurate representations of who the couple is today. 2. First meeting is in a public place, usually a light meal, always messaging “no expectations, we do not play on the first date”. 3. When we meet the couple for dinner, we are asking ourselves four questions: a. Does this couple behave like a couple? Do they have the gentle banter that signals that they are in love and on the same page? b. Is there any depth? Does the conversation get beyond sports and weather? c. How do they treat others, such as the (anonymous) waitstaff? Are they engaged and kind? d. Can we see ourselves naked in the hot tub with this couple? 4. We always find a way to excuse ourselves for a moment — perhaps to take a call. This gives the other couple a chance to check in as well. Both of us have unquestioned veto power. No excuses or explanations required. We do this midway through the meal just to get a sense of how much we want to chat with/reveal to the other couple. 5. We always end the meal on a gracious note. Later, we will discuss things between ourselves and figure out what sort of a thank you note to send. Great matches in the LS are … rare. Cherish the ones that you make. And don’t ever “take one for the team.”

I don’t want to put on a show or watch a show, I enjoy being made love to. I want my partner to pay attention to me without having to prove anything to an audience

What the exact words were I don’t remember. She was telling us about the other resorts, one was Hedonism, I don’t remember the others where there is sex parties and nude beaches. I let her know I was a virgin when we married and Timmy is the only one who I had sex with. We joked about that, I then said I did have other kinds of sex before. Don’t know why I told her about hand and oral sex before we married. She said she loss count on the men she had sex with. We talked about my childhood and didn’t want my reputation in our town talked about. The conversation was going to an embarrassing way about did I ever wonder what it would be like with another man. Think my sunburn didn’t cover the other shades I turned. We talked religion and then others finding out. She said nobody at the hotel is from my town and she thought Timmy would enjoy another woman. I said I don’t remember the exact words that convinced me, maybe that we will probably never get this chance again. Now we know it’s hard to get a second chance of meeting but not impossible.

We vacationed at an adults only resort, not a swingers resort, and met a couple who told us their story. They are swingers and I think they went to Hedonism several times and told us wild stories. Timmy and I lived a very sheltered life, he was my only. I don’t want to call it seduction that we fell for, it was eye opening.

I don’t know about describing details. We met them on a dating site after my husband Timmy made contact. They aren’t married and are younger. Very attractive and fit. Their only pictures were cute, no nudes or sex pics. We met them first at a restaurant with nothing planned after. We had the grandparents watching our children so had to get home. We needed to get sitters again for our next meeting which couldn’t be an overnight. It was a great night that we needed to do.

It was as perfect as I could have imagined.

I was raised in a very strict rural area where sex was never discussed in my house. The fear of God was my upbringing. Everyone knew who were the “loose” girls. My sex life stopped short of losing my virginity before marriage, my husband was my first. I know that is old fashioned and after meeting a more worldly woman on our vacation we realized that our beliefs were just fear. I now the stupidity of ridiculous godly fears. Thankfully we are young enough to enjoy ourselves now for many years.

Congratulations! I'm glad it turned out well for you. I was raised by strict Catholic parents with all that it entailed, especially one sex partner for life, a husband. The biggest lesson I learned in my journey is that humans are not monogamous. Not only should we enjoy sex with others even within a marriage, but there is great joy in having our spouse do so as well. All the best in your adventures finding additional pleasures and having fun.

Searching for the right couple on a match site whether as a single dating service or a swinging site always brings up questions. Alan and I had similar fun and frustration in our searches with many bumps and misses. Our first wasn’t great, just like the first time I had sex, but it both opened a new world of fun. A little additional advice, don’t worry about age, older or younger. You will find friends of all ages if you open your mind to talking, not everyone will be right for you. We look forward to all the positive posts of your new matches.

We enjoy swapping. Most of our playing has been in separate rooms.