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3 pointsHello My name is Leah, also known as PSULioness an alumna of Pennsylvania State University where I belonged to a sorority I will not name. A little over 8 years ago I attended a football game with friends I knew from school that ended up a snowy day and a day that changed my life. I know some here think I was bullied and quit posting because of an individual saying nasty things to me which I only wish was the reason. I will now try to clear up any thoughts or questions on what happened in my life. If you are uninterested please skip my what may be lengthy history. First I want to thank a few friends who supported me through some trying times the last few years. I never thought I would seek guidance from older than me strangers who I found to be wiser. To continue, on that snowy day, a friend and guy friend convinced me to stay with them instead of driving in the snow. The 3 of us shared a bed in a local hotel which I agreed to innocently. At the time I was living with my future husband and was monogamous. You don’t need to be a scholar to figure what happened that night. To this day I don’t know how things went from innocent to much more. My girlfriend who was in the middle put her arm around me while I was sleeping then went further. How or why I didn’t stop her I can’t say. I never had any sexual desire for any girl in my life. I’ve told this story so many times I wonder how much is memory or how much is how I remember it. That night I became non-monogamous and had my first of many bi-sexual encounters. I’m not sure what bothered me more, the girlfriend or having sex with a guy I didn’t know. It was around that time I found out some of my sorority sisters were bi. That’s all background to me getting married, my husband getting to enjoy my friend’s openly sexual parties, me sharing my friends with him and me coming close with my husband’s best friend. Details aren’t important but his friend became my best friend when my husband traveled for business. My husband encouraged me, I didn’t do anything that he didn’t approve. My narrative turns now. At that point we decided to start a family and I became pregnant, something we were very happy about. That is when darkness set in, I had a feeling that his friend was the father. Stupidly I continued to be with our friend after stopping birth control. Call it bad timing, it had to be our friend. That is when my lies started, I had the pregnancy terminated, telling everyone I had a miscarriage. Dark days led to fights and a divorce. Darker days were ahead. I met a man who took me in. Older than me, he was a swinger and used me as an entree to parties. Things got worse after we moved to New England. He started to have friends come over just for sex. I swear he was a pimp, the men were nasty. I should have run away but had nowhere to go, I couldn’t admit what I was doing to my parents in NY. The sex also took a turn, he started being into sadism, spanking. The men he invited wanted to spank a young girl. He made me dress in school girl clothes for the men. I just couldn’t do it anymore and called a friend who saved me and moved me back to NJ. That is the reason I stopped posting, not because of nasty comments, I only wish that was the cause. I’m doing better now, moving on with my life with the help of good caring friends. Thank you to the friends I made here who check up on me and my well being. As my Dad would say “Peace”☮️
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2 pointsLeah, I'm glad you're back and glad you're doing better despite a fair amount of tragedy in your life. I'm sure your caring friends would agree when I say please don't beat yourself up over what transpired. Honestly, it sounds to me like the men who should have supported and respected you didn't. Having been in the LS 26 years, my wife and I are aware of some of its pitfalls. Regarding the pregnancy risk, we have had close calls. As the husband I have always accepted full responsibility in the event something went wrong. Had it been an accidental pregnancy I made it clear from the outset I would support my wife through whatever outcome she chose - including the prospect of raising the child as our own. It sounds like your confusion and lying was the result of being afraid and feeling unsupported by your husband. It shouldn't have been a burden you felt like you had to carry alone. Forgive my conjecture, but I feel like the destructive relationship with the older swinger gentleman may have been the result of undeserved guilt and self-loathing resulting from the messy divorce etc you suffered through. None of this should be your burden to bear alone. The men in your life didn't support you. I feel like if your husband could have been more supportive your story would be very different. I'm sure he enjoyed the threesomes he shared with you, but when the very real repercussions came home to roost he let you down. Welcome back! As you know, we in the LS are supportive and non-judgemental. I am happy to have you back among us!
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2 pointsFor my wife, it's not putting on a show per se, but she enjoys knowing I am watching and enjoying watching her having sex with another man. When we first got into it with MFMs, she always wanted me to be directly involved. Over time, she learned she really enjoyed me sitting back and enjoying the view.
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2 pointsWe def have a bit of an exhibitionist streak 😜
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1 pointYikes.....THIS IS NOT what most of us think this lifestyle ought to be. Your older friend who used you reminds of the very terrible things that happened to Linda Lovelace after her famous porn video ("Deep Throat"). Her BF (or husband?) literally "pimped her out" pretending it was a swinging date. THIS IS SUPPOSE TO BE FUN! It is suppose to be consensual and the ultimate gesture of unselfish sharing. It is encouraging to see the supportive comments of so many "regulars" and I hope YOUR spirits are lifted up bi their kindness and sympathy. I hope you can "shake of the chaff" and find those precious pure seeds of WHEAT in your future. FOCUS on THE MEMORY of how YOU FELT when you first started (the FUN parts, not the uncomfortable parts)! Think about and FOCUS on the strangely ATTRACTIVE parts you shared with such tenderness and SEEK THAT.....if and when YOU so desire. The LONGER I get to LIVE, the MORE I APPRECIATE "consensual desire!" I grew TIRED of "begging for sex" and started "dating" a married couple to avoid a "Fatal Attraction." I was VERY FORTUNATE.....and as I have matured, my "focus" has narrowed. Nowadays, "porn" is plentiful and SPECIFIC. The "BDSM" stuff does NOT TURN ME ON! Further, IMHO, any MAN or WOMAN who "likes it" is flying a very large "RED FLAG" of selfish desire. "Fifty Shades of Grey" WAS WRITTEN bi a woman. However, the mathematical implications of how close one is to "black or white" (hard stuff....soft stuff) is a slippery slope. UNLESS, ALL of YOU WOMEN develop and exercise "limit tests!" Bi that I mean, set up a situation where the man thinks he is gonna FUCK YOU CRAZY...butt THEN say "how about we just hug in the nude and you go down on me for a hour and I'll go down on you for a hour." THE ONLY "proper response is, "OK!" (spoken with a smile). As a self identified smooth bisexual nudist, you'd be surprised how many MEN I end up "blocking" on a website I have been a "life member" of since 2005! I do give them feedback, "too pushy, bye bye (instead of bi bi)" "NO" means NO....."wait" means STOP.
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1 pointLeah, it's so good to have you back. I remember you fondly. I'm so sorry about all the trying times you've gone through, I so hope the rest of your life is happy and fulfilling.
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1 pointI admired you and your approach to life and the lifestyle while it was going well, and now I admire your resilience when things became difficult. And I appreciate you sharing with us here.
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1 pointfor all you've been through, your inner strength and resilience shine, and it is always harder than imagined, we admire you. Thankful for good friends, they are a true blessing, unfortunately they are hard to come by. Wishing you the best forward, you deserve it!
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1 pointLeah, I'm glad you're back! It's horrendous what has happened. We stand with you!!
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1 pointSo sorry to hear of the sad events that occurred in your life. Glad things have turned around for you. Open sexuality can be light and fun, but in the wrong hands it can be destructive. I always enjoyed your posts and I am happy to hear that you have moved past bad situations and I wish you future happiness and fulfillment.
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1 pointWe played with a couple a couple of times where the wife was like you, Half MT. She was a virgin when she married. There is no "right" direction to take in swinging except what is right for a given couple. For them, the wife did not want to have vaginal sex with other men. She was very happy to do everything else, but not vaginal sex. She was a delight to play with, and I wish I was still playing with her today, more than 10 years on. Very fond memories. It is very interesting hearing about your interactions with the lady at the adult only resort. Two women coming at this from radically different angles, and finding common ground even so. She was right about nobody there possibly knowing you. I mean, it's possible, but highly unlikely. Even so, what you do behind closed doors would never be known. In such situations I think of such people as being "NPCs" (a term from the gaming world; non-player characters. I.e., nobody). They mentally become two dimensional people who have no bearing on my life at all. It emboldens you to do things you might not otherwise do because of our own fears. I'm very, very happy the second couple worked out so well for you! I would be sad to know they didn't, and that was the end of it. My wife and I considered such things when we got into swinging. We were concerned about whether or not it would go well and be a great experience. We decided to not judge it by one couple or guy (MFMs were and are a prime attraction). That worked well because the first two experiences were just so-so. Not bad, but not great. The third time (an MFM), my wife just could not have enough sex with the guy. Literally toe curling sex. When we got into the car to head home (after hours of her having sex with him) she said, "Ok, NOW I'm a swinger!" 🤣 and the rest is, as they say, history. I'm sure you have many fine adventures in front of you in this lifestyle. I'm glad this couple went so well and the sex was perfect for you! Now you're off into the future adventures.
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1 pointHi, Always glad to hear from couples from North Carolina. Marie and I are new into swinging as of now we haven't swapped with anyone. We are retired, the kids are gone and we feel like we need to spice up our dull lives. We would like to make some friends in the swinging community and slowly work our way into the lifestyle. Marie surprised me when she agreed to let me post nude pics of her on this and some other web sites. I guess I surprised her when I told her I would love to have a threesome or foursome with her in the middle. I don't know how old you guy's are but I bet Marie and I are older. How did you get into swinging? Finding the right couple to start with seems pretty awkward for us. Marie is hesitant about jumping into bed with a stranger. And the people we hang out with now would be horrified to know what we have been talking about and contemplating on doing. You guy's sound interesting if you find us compatible and likable just let us know.
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1 pointI enjoy when Mike watches me and says he enjoys watching.
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1 pointMy fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later. One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again. Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this. A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it. My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room. One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash. I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it. My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there. As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow. Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing. She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt. He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him. They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again. They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever. When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night. They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us. I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again. He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here. Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night. And what a night it was.
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1 pointThank you for the constructive suggestions. We are in Palm Beach county. It is about a three to four hour drive to the Tampa area, I guesstimate. We have been to Paradise Lakes and Caliente, so if we want to increase our chances, we could go there.
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1 pointWe have friends who have retired to Florida. The lifestyle according to them is very active. However like everywhere else it isn’t necessarily on every street corner. There are on premise clubs and numerous house parties. Like making new friends anywhere you have to make yourself available as well as going to areas to be found. There are about 12 or more nudist beaches/resort/full community living locations not to mention private/home/remote location (stump pass was one unofficial accepted clothing optional near Englewood) Great way to meet people (not all nudists are swingers). If you are not comfortable being nude in a group situation you can also make contact the old fashion/social way. Our friends started to frequent social events, restaurants bars etc to meet new friends in the northern tampa and Orlando area. They made an effort to find bars, restaurants and events located in and around these nudist communities. where hanging out and being a bit social, music, etc putting the vibe out there in just a few months they made new friends and frequent events. There are also clubs/meet locations in Tampa, Orlando and Daytona. Try Paradise Lakes.
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1 pointIt seems there's more to this story...
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1 pointI’m a boxer brief guy who used to wear bikini type. I just think boxer briefs are more in style now. The Angel will go undieless when she is wearing clingy clothes, she hates panty lines on anyone. The times we met others she wears some lace things. When I asked her why she said it’s expected. I told her I don’t care what women wear, it’s coming off soon.
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1 pointNo undies since long ago in Viet Nam.
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1 pointI do enjoy being with my girlfriends but it’s not based on breast size. If you want to know what size I find attractive, I am thinking B/C. I don’t understand the attraction to DD or bigger. Again, I think there is much more that attracts me other than breast size. My best friend is larger and I love her to death. I would play with alone, with my husband, with our guy friend or all together. Lol, I Do!!!
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1 pointI laugh when someone says “chilly?” When I was younger I cried about being small, now I am happy after seeing friends complaining about back pain and seeing strap indents on shoulders. My best friend is much bigger and when my husband plays with her he does enjoy sliding between them something we never do.
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1 pointMy experience as well. Same for me again. I have small tits, but nipples that can really poke out, so it depends on the situation.
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1 pointI wear bras to work, panties sometimes. While going out it's 50/50 on the bra. I love to have my pierced nipples on display. Summer is coming, I can't wait to break out the string tank tops
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1 pointWe canceled out on Mexico now for the third time in the past year. Last week at the Casino, during the week, we went to the 360 View Chophouse for a snack and drink at 11 PM. From there, down to blackjack and craps... Julie can feel more comfortable with masks on and late during the week. It tended to be cool so Julie's nipples really popped. There were maybe an 1/2 dozen couples of various ages around the casino and a few dozen men. There really was very little reaction about Julie's dress...... Robb
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1 pointI always wore panties of some sort growing up. I think it was for health reasons, I thought. I later learned it was healthier to not wear. I went through phases growing up, cotton underwear at Target with prints. I switched to Victoria Secrets in HS and dating. I had some sexy underwear and then realized guys don’t care, they just wanted them off. I think I wanted panty lines because it gave me shape and then I wore thongs for no lines. A friend once told me my panty lines were horrible and said she never wore underwear. I stopped wearing and then my mom asked me why there wasn’t underwear in the wash. Now I don’t wear if I am wearing jeans or shorts. I wear if skirt or dress. Bra, yes at work or dressy, no if just going out. Don’t think people notice, I’m an A. My husband wears black boxer briefs all the time. I have suggested commando but he doesn’t like the feeling. Happy he does wear. I still enjoy popping it out. Never gets unexciting to do it and that goes for any guy I’m with. I still enjoy the thrill of undressing a guy... or girlfriend
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1 pointMrs Doc wears bra and panties for work each day. They hit the laundry basket within 10 minutes of her walking in the door. At home, no, never!! Depending on the outfit, she will wear a bra when we go out socially but she and I both prefer a sundress (ONLY a sundress) and heels.
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