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Mrs Doc wears bra and panties for work each day. They hit the laundry basket within 10 minutes of her walking in the door. At home, no, never!! Depending on the outfit, she will wear a bra when we go out socially but she and I both prefer a sundress (ONLY a sundress) and heels.

We had made one years ago and I think we pretty much scratched everything off the list. Now it feels like we spend more time helping fulfill other people's sexual bucket list which is still fun.

I learned like you Lioness that things can change drastically in moments in life. I had friends who were healthy have heart attacks and die. The word LIFE is in lifestyle nothing is guaranteed. I am learning to be a survivor, you need to go on and be a survivor too. I don’t know how we went from fun to disaster, it came on quick. I question how I let it happen but won’t blame myself as you shouldn’t take the blame. Step 1 is accepting Step 2 move on. Step 3 don’t repeat. You are young, younger from most on here, young enough to make a new life. You also are smart enough now to look for the signs of abuse. As others mentioned we are happy you are back as sad as your story is. We are scarred but not defeated. Leah you wrote a short summary of what I know is a much deeper horror. Thank democracy and freedom as a woman that you took the steps you needed in what had to be the darkest point. WE WILL Survive.

Leah, it's so good to have you back. I remember you fondly. I'm so sorry about all the trying times you've gone through, I so hope the rest of your life is happy and fulfilling.

for all you've been through, your inner strength and resilience shine, and it is always harder than imagined, we admire you. Thankful for good friends, they are a true blessing, unfortunately they are hard to come by. Wishing you the best forward, you deserve it!

Leah, I'm glad you're back and glad you're doing better despite a fair amount of tragedy in your life. I'm sure your caring friends would agree when I say please don't beat yourself up over what transpired. Honestly, it sounds to me like the men who should have supported and respected you didn't. Having been in the LS 26 years, my wife and I are aware of some of its pitfalls. Regarding the pregnancy risk, we have had close calls. As the husband I have always accepted full responsibility in the event something went wrong. Had it been an accidental pregnancy I made it clear from the outset I would support my wife through whatever outcome she chose - including the prospect of raising the child as our own. It sounds like your confusion and lying was the result of being afraid and feeling unsupported by your husband. It shouldn't have been a burden you felt like you had to carry alone. Forgive my conjecture, but I feel like the destructive relationship with the older swinger gentleman may have been the result of undeserved guilt and self-loathing resulting from the messy divorce etc you suffered through. None of this should be your burden to bear alone. The men in your life didn't support you. I feel like if your husband could have been more supportive your story would be very different. I'm sure he enjoyed the threesomes he shared with you, but when the very real repercussions came home to roost he let you down. Welcome back! As you know, we in the LS are supportive and non-judgemental. I am happy to have you back among us!

So sorry to hear of the sad events that occurred in your life. Glad things have turned around for you. Open sexuality can be light and fun, but in the wrong hands it can be destructive. I always enjoyed your posts and I am happy to hear that you have moved past bad situations and I wish you future happiness and fulfillment.

What the exact words were I don’t remember. She was telling us about the other resorts, one was Hedonism, I don’t remember the others where there is sex parties and nude beaches. I let her know I was a virgin when we married and Timmy is the only one who I had sex with. We joked about that, I then said I did have other kinds of sex before. Don’t know why I told her about hand and oral sex before we married. She said she loss count on the men she had sex with. We talked about my childhood and didn’t want my reputation in our town talked about. The conversation was going to an embarrassing way about did I ever wonder what it would be like with another man. Think my sunburn didn’t cover the other shades I turned. We talked religion and then others finding out. She said nobody at the hotel is from my town and she thought Timmy would enjoy another woman. I said I don’t remember the exact words that convinced me, maybe that we will probably never get this chance again. Now we know it’s hard to get a second chance of meeting but not impossible.

Our first experience happened in 2016 while we were on vacation. We'd dabbled online with little success and we weren't crazy about playing close to home, so we'd talked for a long time about checking out a club while out of town. We ended up going to Secrets in Orlando and almost immediately struck up a conversation with a lovely Canadian couple also there on vacation. He was a handsome burly guy & she was a hot busty blonde and we hit it off almost too well because we all got way too drunk at the bar but the omlet buffet saved our lives (or at least our night.) amd sobered us up. We decided to go take a swim in the pool next and we all saw each other naked for the first time there. I immediately started to get hard lol. Oops. Nobody seemed to mind. After lounging in the hot tub (and fondling my wife's pussy under the water while she stroked my cock as we were both incredibly horny). Me and the husband stepped aside and had the conversation and complimented each other's wives amazing tits in the process. We confirmed we were all on the same page, then they asked to go to the playroom. We went to an open bed area first, I didn't really know the etiquette but I guess it was more of an orgy area. Our own wives each starting sucking our cocks side by side and things started heating up but we kept getting interrupted by handsy single guys trying to fuck my wife so we moved to a private room. My wife asked the other woman if she could eat her pussy and they started together. I then got behind my wife and started eating it from the back while the other wife sucked off her husband. Then he asked .."Would you like to switch?" I looked at my wife who nodded in agreement and then let this beautiful, well endowed gal I'd just met give me an amazing blowjob. And I glanced down to see a guy I'd just met spreading my wife's ass cheeks apart and tongue fucking her while she ate his wife out. We switched again and I ate the Canadian wife's pussy from the back while she ate my wife out, and I look up to see my wife taking another cock in her mouth for the first time. Was I jealous? Was I mad? Nope. I was turned on! They both agreed since it was our first time a soft swap was best, so we both played with each partner in that manner for a while and then each fucked our own spouses in front of each other. We said our goodbyes, had a wonderful time, never heard from them again and our cherry's had been popped.

Thank you all for advice, guidance and help setting up our first meeting of someone for sex. We had previously set up to attend a party that we drove hours to get to then decided not to join. Our first swing was terrific with vacationers at an adult only resort. No planning it happened in a very fun meeting. Since coming home we wondered what meeting others would be. With help we used a profile to search for a long distance meeting. We had plenty of fun looking and wondering, we also had plenty of frustration. We weren’t in a rush to meet others knowing the longer we waited the more difficult it would be for me. My husband did most of the searching and I would read the profiles he chose. We found an attractive younger non married couple. I thought too much younger and I posted my thoughts here. The advice we were given was they weren’t that much younger and age is a number. Some of you stated that you met others 20 years older. More advice, meet at a neutral site to see if we liked them stipulating no sex on first date. It worked we liked them, we felt they liked us. We set up a “date” for the next night if we could get someone to watch our kids. Next night was our first swinger meeting. It went well, even great. The best part is I know that I can swing. I can meet others for sexual pleasure without guilt. I felt this was my only opportunity, if it didn’t work out I most likely would go back to a quiet life.

Hello My name is Leah, also known as PSULioness an alumna of Pennsylvania State University where I belonged to a sorority I will not name. A little over 8 years ago I attended a football game with friends I knew from school that ended up a snowy day and a day that changed my life. I know some here think I was bullied and quit posting because of an individual saying nasty things to me which I only wish was the reason. I will now try to clear up any thoughts or questions on what happened in my life. If you are uninterested please skip my what may be lengthy history. First I want to thank a few friends who supported me through some trying times the last few years. I never thought I would seek guidance from older than me strangers who I found to be wiser. To continue, on that snowy day, a friend and guy friend convinced me to stay with them instead of driving in the snow. The 3 of us shared a bed in a local hotel which I agreed to innocently. At the time I was living with my future husband and was monogamous. You don’t need to be a scholar to figure what happened that night. To this day I don’t know how things went from innocent to much more. My girlfriend who was in the middle put her arm around me while I was sleeping then went further. How or why I didn’t stop her I can’t say. I never had any sexual desire for any girl in my life. I’ve told this story so many times I wonder how much is memory or how much is how I remember it. That night I became non-monogamous and had my first of many bi-sexual encounters. I’m not sure what bothered me more, the girlfriend or having sex with a guy I didn’t know. It was around that time I found out some of my sorority sisters were bi. That’s all background to me getting married, my husband getting to enjoy my friend’s openly sexual parties, me sharing my friends with him and me coming close with my husband’s best friend. Details aren’t important but his friend became my best friend when my husband traveled for business. My husband encouraged me, I didn’t do anything that he didn’t approve. My narrative turns now. At that point we decided to start a family and I became pregnant, something we were very happy about. That is when darkness set in, I had a feeling that his friend was the father. Stupidly I continued to be with our friend after stopping birth control. Call it bad timing, it had to be our friend. That is when my lies started, I had the pregnancy terminated, telling everyone I had a miscarriage. Dark days led to fights and a divorce. Darker days were ahead. I met a man who took me in. Older than me, he was a swinger and used me as an entree to parties. Things got worse after we moved to New England. He started to have friends come over just for sex. I swear he was a pimp, the men were nasty. I should have run away but had nowhere to go, I couldn’t admit what I was doing to my parents in NY. The sex also took a turn, he started being into sadism, spanking. The men he invited wanted to spank a young girl. He made me dress in school girl clothes for the men. I just couldn’t do it anymore and called a friend who saved me and moved me back to NJ. That is the reason I stopped posting, not because of nasty comments, I only wish that was the cause. I’m doing better now, moving on with my life with the help of good caring friends. Thank you to the friends I made here who check up on me and my well being. As my Dad would say “Peace”☮️

So sorry to hear about the dark path you ended up on, but glad to hear that you found your way out of the darkness. You've certainly been missed here and we're glad to see that you have returned. Always know that we as a community are always here to provide whatever help and support that you need. Welcome home...

I'm so sorry to see this, but glad you're on track with a good support system, and that you've reached out to let us know you're safe.

Not really like that but she has gone on multiple trips with other men. She is going to be going away for a weekend next month with my buddy and she is going to be his date for a wedding. She has made quite a few trips to Vegas with guys over the years.

LOL, how did I miss this topic till now! So this question was posed in 2017! It's FUN to read some fellow Vietnam Vets say THEY stopped back then. They must Army. I was Navy (ac,showers, hot meals) which was relatively safer till Apr 1972.......neverthless......THERE I WAS naked in the IP Spa (circa summer 2008) and into the sauna walks a guy like me SHAVED SMOOTH! He smiles and hops up on the top seat like me (heat rises and it's hotter at the top)....sits on top of his towel and says, "mind if I fondle my cock looking at yours?" I just literally laughed at myself as I recall his smile and my quick response "ABSOLUTELY and I'll fondle mine as we talk about how much we LOVE THIS and why?" The IP Spa is in Biloxi and the SEALS train in their "fast boats" over bi Stennis and THIS GUY is a LCDR fast boat skipper. He tells me NONE of us wear underwear and we all shave to "load shed sweat." Working in a an outdoor environment as I did back then ("field engineering") I stopped wearing panties THAT WERE NAUGHTY and made my COCK HAPPY, butt also gave me "sweaty balls." As SOON as I stopped wearing anything, my "jock itch" (panty itch) went away! My cock and balls were DELIGHTED! SO AFTER THAT, when we "working guys" crowded into the locker room to get undressed, the FACT that I was not only SMOOTH ALL OVER (read shaved legs and chest + of course cock, balls and ass) butt going Commando? It always result in someone following me into the steam room or sauna! "Mind if I.......?"

I admired you and your approach to life and the lifestyle while it was going well, and now I admire your resilience when things became difficult. And I appreciate you sharing with us here.

Leah, I'm glad you're back! It's horrendous what has happened. We stand with you!!

I don’t know about describing details. We met them on a dating site after my husband Timmy made contact. They aren’t married and are younger. Very attractive and fit. Their only pictures were cute, no nudes or sex pics. We met them first at a restaurant with nothing planned after. We had the grandparents watching our children so had to get home. We needed to get sitters again for our next meeting which couldn’t be an overnight. It was a great night that we needed to do.

I’ve read in profiles: “If you don’t look like your pictures, you are buying us drinks until you do.” P.S., we have met couples who post as 10 years younger than us and are 10 years older. People notice.

If we are meeting a new couple near home, we advise them that our first meeting is vanilla only. Meaning we are going to have dinner, drinks, dessert or whatever but not sex. This way, my wife and I can privately discuss whether we want to meet them to play. Sometimes one of us notices something important about the other couple, good or bad, but we can’t discuss it in front of them. Or one of us is excited and the other one is repulsed. This method takes off a lot of pressure. And avoids potential embarrassing moments. All bets are off if we are at a cruise, resort, house party or club. We’ll play without dinner, but we do have to meet a little. Those are easier places to start a lifestyle connection.

Can just say congratulations to you both for remaining close and trust each other so much is priceless, that to able to talk, but honesty,your ten steps ahead, tick tick tick , you both tick all the boxes of being perfect, keep being close everything else is second best 👌 👍 😍 good luck

Hello lilinny, Welcome to the board. Please know that anything can be discussed here and that there is a wealth of knowledge available to you here. With regards to the situation you have outlined above, I am going to be very direct with you; you let it happen. If you are ever in a situation, and are uncomfortable, for any reason, leave. End of story. Before you play again, ensure that you understand each other and know your boundaries/preferences, etc. That way, when you meet a couple, you can clearly express this. The wagon travels as fast as the slowest horse; one of you (you or your spouse) will be more conservative in any given situation; that dictates the speed of how things should proceed. Watch out for couples that try to separate you or don't respect your boundaries/wishes; walk away from folks like this. People that lie on their profiles are liars; avoid them. We wish you well in this pursuit; take your time and keep your relationship as your focus.

I was raised in a very strict rural area where sex was never discussed in my house. The fear of God was my upbringing. Everyone knew who were the “loose” girls. My sex life stopped short of losing my virginity before marriage, my husband was my first. I know that is old fashioned and after meeting a more worldly woman on our vacation we realized that our beliefs were just fear. I now the stupidity of ridiculous godly fears. Thankfully we are young enough to enjoy ourselves now for many years.

I laugh when someone says “chilly?” When I was younger I cried about being small, now I am happy after seeing friends complaining about back pain and seeing strap indents on shoulders. My best friend is much bigger and when my husband plays with her he does enjoy sliding between them something we never do.

I wear bras to work, panties sometimes. While going out it's 50/50 on the bra. I love to have my pierced nipples on display. Summer is coming, I can't wait to break out the string tank tops

Is her supervisor a man or woman? How many people complained after she started wearing a bra?

Not often. Outside of work, almost never. At work my skirts are long enough that I don't wear panties or pantyhose. (It helps that I have nice legs.) If people only knew... I usually, but not always, wear a bra at work. My tits are small such that I don't jiggle or need support, but my nipples are prominent enough that their size and shape could be discerned under most blouses.

My wife owns one pair of panties, for when she has to go to the doctor. She stopped wearing panties shortly after we started dating at 15. Probably heard me mention someones panty lines.