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Thank you all for your kind words.

We had had made a very nice lifestyle experience, we were five couples that they were ready to participate on a game, in the same hotel we have book each one a room without to meet us at the reception or at the bar, we have had from the beginn rules of the game fixed. Everyone couple will check in his room separately , at the evening the wife's will stay at the rooms and the husbands all five meet at the bar, we put the key card on the counter that nobody can see which room numbers is and mixed, after each one from us took one key card and only he knew wich number of the room he got, the fun has began, the wife didn't know who's coming in the room till the door was open. We have fixed a time from one hour, than we meet us again an the bar counter for the next round. At the end everybody were satisfied and happy and found the game very exciting. We are already to repeat it again. Sorry for my English, it is not my mother language.

A repeat topic and I tried reading all the reviews to find out what I’m missing. All the fun we are having reading together what others like and thinking how we should try some new fun. Amazon is great isn’t it. My reviews to follow.

Sounds like a wonderful variation of the "key party!" How did you know which room to go to?

16 years this month. So, I think I need 1.5 times the viagra does 🤣

I had to check my profile - 21 years last month. It does not seem that long.

I admired you and your approach to life and the lifestyle while it was going well, and now I admire your resilience when things became difficult. And I appreciate you sharing with us here.

for all you've been through, your inner strength and resilience shine, and it is always harder than imagined, we admire you. Thankful for good friends, they are a true blessing, unfortunately they are hard to come by. Wishing you the best forward, you deserve it!

Leah, I'm glad you're back! It's horrendous what has happened. We stand with you!!

Leah, I'm glad you're back and glad you're doing better despite a fair amount of tragedy in your life. I'm sure your caring friends would agree when I say please don't beat yourself up over what transpired. Honestly, it sounds to me like the men who should have supported and respected you didn't. Having been in the LS 26 years, my wife and I are aware of some of its pitfalls. Regarding the pregnancy risk, we have had close calls. As the husband I have always accepted full responsibility in the event something went wrong. Had it been an accidental pregnancy I made it clear from the outset I would support my wife through whatever outcome she chose - including the prospect of raising the child as our own. It sounds like your confusion and lying was the result of being afraid and feeling unsupported by your husband. It shouldn't have been a burden you felt like you had to carry alone. Forgive my conjecture, but I feel like the destructive relationship with the older swinger gentleman may have been the result of undeserved guilt and self-loathing resulting from the messy divorce etc you suffered through. None of this should be your burden to bear alone. The men in your life didn't support you. I feel like if your husband could have been more supportive your story would be very different. I'm sure he enjoyed the threesomes he shared with you, but when the very real repercussions came home to roost he let you down. Welcome back! As you know, we in the LS are supportive and non-judgemental. I am happy to have you back among us!

All the people now in our closed group are married couples, but when we used to play more openly it was interesting how it felt different playing with couples at different levels of commitment. I agree, however, that marriage is the ultimate threshold; the only thing higher is them having kids together. That husband is a really lucky guy, actually. I've said it many times, it's better for a husband to have a wife who wants too much sex than little or none; one that fucks around, comes home and wants more rather than being a cold fish.

Just to clarify, this isn't me trying to get her into my fantasy. I think if we were dating, she'd be all over it, but things get messier/riskier if you have a marriage, kids, house, etc. I'm not on the prowl for this, but would be supportive because I like it when she let's totally loose and I know she would go crazy. Anyways, we went out Saturday night and she brought it up while we walking into the restaurant to eat. We had some light discussion about it, but coulsnt really dive in. We followed up dinner with a trip to an adult toy store. While rekindling the conversation, we got a call from friends to meet up and kinda pumped the brakes on it. to be continued.

Although I hope that for our children non-monogamy will be normalized in society, still personally I agree: "I thank God I was raised Catholic, so sex will always be dirty."

Me recognizing that is what got me to encourage my wife to enjoy other men, and women.

Ah, sorry, now I see your point. Yes, some of my wife's lovers were turned on because they were into the taboo of having another man's wife. Usually, this wasn't a problem; in fact, the 'competition' they were contending in made them more vigorous lovers, my wife enjoyed that. A few times the man tried to belittle me with my wife; she quickly told them to knock it off. Not surprisingly, this happened more often when she was soloing than when I was in the room with them. One time, I remember, a guy was fucking her doggy style and he was saying weird shit to me about how I wasn't capable of satisfying her, etc. My wife pushed him away, put a robe on and told him to get out. I was proud of her for that.

Welcome back! I missed you! I hope that all is well. As a now "relatively" young married woman who started swinging early in our marriage, I identify with you and empathize with your posts. Please stick around. Thanks, Petra

Who was it that said, “You don’t pay a prostitute for sex, you pay her to leave.”?