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3 pointsThe 5 daily plus a boost is a fairly common regimen. Mr. FL has been on tadalafil (Cialis) for about a decade for some mild pulmonary hypertension and the boost noted here is precisely what he does.
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2 pointsI agree, I take my viagra the same way and seems like I have the same results as you. The stimulation that you mention is an important part, some women think a viagra pill is all we need , stimulation is key, especially 2nd or 3rd time. 69 works best for me especially when my partner enjoys 69 as me !
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1 pointBecause my wife has never played the bar pickup game, the rest of the survey is moot, so I stand mute.
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1 pointWe started in the lifestyle by taking many precautions and felt that it took much of the fun and spontaneity out of it. We found like-minded married couples and we all went through multiple rounds of testing over several months all the while remaining monogamous and are now a closed group. We feel safe for two reasons besides mutual trust: the consequences would be severe and extrajudicial, and everyone has as much quantity and variety of sex as they want. That makes it less likely for anyone to go outside the group than for someone in a vanilla marriage to cheat. Under our arrangement, definitely. We all now go bareback all of the time and especially enjoy that aspect of it.
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1 pointWe played the Bar Pickup many times with both success and failure. Our first was after reading a thread here we figured it could be fun to try. It had to be 10 years ago we went to a hotel bar in Princeton where I struck up a conversation with a businessman, Michael next to me. It was fun to tease even if nothing happened. We tried another guy at the bar who wanted to pay me but backed out when I said my husband wanted to watch. Our first success was a salesman at a bar who was training another young salesman. It was 10 years ago but I remember they had just met for the training. I had to convince them my husband was just going to watch. Most likely it was because there were two of them and they were young they brought me to a room. What was fun was getting two virile guys naked, once they were things went great. That was a scenario we repeated many times with varied results.
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1 pointWe enjoy this game 😃 Weirdest time was when we played it in a bar in Santa Fe NM. A guy with a big cowboy hat approached my wife. It seemed to be going well until she waved me over to introduce me. I could see by his face it wasn't going to go well. He loudly berated us both as "sick" and stormed out. You could hear a pin drop and all eyes were on us lol
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1 pointI take and pay for out of pocket for 5mg Cialis. Knowing my history my Doc prescribed this about 5 years ago due to some minor ongoing health issues. I was always an over achiever my adult life in our sex lives. For a number of years after entering the LS. But about 5 years ago I have some minor ongoing health issues that were changing my abilities. He suggested this because Cialis leaves a residual effect and allowed for a minor build up in your system. However if you are a casual/social drinker cut your drinks at least half of you are taking Cialis. You will tank much faster. Everyone reacts differently. I was that guy that lasts 10 to 15 minutes steady pace and could go 3-4 times at a long party (4-5 hours) after the first round was over each one after took longer and was considered an advantage. In my fifties I developed a leg and lower back issue that changed all that. Coal is gives me some of that back.
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1 pointA young couple looking for a BWC for wife.. the area of South Florida. we are young, beautiful and love the cuckold theme. wife: 25 years old, hot petite girl. We are waiting for your messages
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1 pointI take Daily on most Friday and Saturday Evenings but not the rest of the time. If I am doing play time with others, I'll take two that evening.
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1 pointIn 1997, a guy who was a VP in a tech company, and later became president of AT&T, told me, "Oh, that Internet thing? It'll never amount to anything." True story!
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1 pointViagra, I've found, makes me very hard (with appropriate stimulation) for the first six or eight hours. Then, the next day, I'm still firmer than usual for around twenty hours - great for morning sex after a night out.
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1 pointQuestion: Would any of these drugs be appropriate for men in their thirties who have gone once (maybe twice) in the morning, but then have trouble before bedtime going once (maybe twice) again? I understand that the boys have worked all day, worked out, helped around the house, but often for us women evening is a time of greatest desire. (The guys want it most in the morning.) Thanks.
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1 pointAfter I started using cialis 5 mgm daily for BPH I switched to Edex injections for erections. Both worked well and no complications.
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1 pointWasn't a swinger back then but remember seeing the mags and wishing...but also wondering how anyone actually ever MET anyone in them. Having to send snail mail to make contact I'm sure took forever and finding a connection even harder. Then came the internet and that is no longer a problem.
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1 pointYou can use Tadalafil (Cialis) the same way you use Sildenafil (Viagra). The biggest difference between the two is that Tadalafil has a half life of 18 hours vs 4 for Sildenafil. So if you take a 10mg at 8pm on a Friday and a booster 5mg (cut 10mg in half) mid day Saturday, you'll be running 8+ through Saturday night. When I have taken Sildenafil I get the red face and neck, and the congestion. Sildenafil doesn't cause any side effects for me. Also, Sildenafil absorption is affected by alcohol where Tadalafil isn't...in case you plan on having some drinks. I bought a scale to weigh the pieces. The 20 mg tablet is easily cut. The 10mg is small and difficult to cut well.
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1 pointI wouldn’t say I’m Lesbian. I’m new to this all swinging thing and figure all there play. Thinking now the men only play with the women and the women had no restrictions. I did have sex with both of the women we met making me sexual and open. Most likely the 3rd will want to play with both men and maybe me. Timmy is more excited about the new addition where I hope she had a guy friend.
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1 pointI take Cialis/Tadalifil infrequently. For instance if we have a big weekend planned out of town, or if I masturbated in the morning or afternoon and think there's a good chance of having sex that night. I'm 63. I cut 20 mg tabs in half. I don't do the daily regimen because I don't want my body to depend on the drug to actually get a boner. Cialis I like, because it gives me an effortless erection for 48 hours, but I actually need to be turned on to get it. A boner us not automatic if I'm not engaged sexually. I've seen guys that have an automatic erection with Viagra.
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1 pointI use the 5mg daily. It woks well for me. Sometimes if The occasion warrants I will take another.
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1 pointWe have talked a bit about the old-fashioned "key parties", specifically the excitement of not knowing who your partner will be, and also the separate-room aspect where no one knows what you both do behind closed doors. We have never actually been involved in one, but it sounds like your group found an exciting modern twist on the concept.
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1 pointI had a session somewhat recently with a wonderful lady I've played with several times. I decided to change things up a bit, and became very intentional about making it more like making love. The emotions part was missing; we've played together several times, but there's no real 'love'. Affection, but not love. But, otherwise I did a lot to make it more like making love. I didn't say I was; I just did it. She responded exceptionally well, and seemed to really enjoy it. She never said anything about it, but enjoyed it!
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1 pointThat seems to be common around here but I would say it's the exact opposite with us. My GF and I make love together but when she is with other men it is much more of a show. No lovemaking at all.
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1 pointNot really like that but she has gone on multiple trips with other men. She is going to be going away for a weekend next month with my buddy and she is going to be his date for a wedding. She has made quite a few trips to Vegas with guys over the years.
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1 pointMy wife had a steady boyfriend for years. They did several weekend getaways together and twice took week-long vacations together. So not quite a "swap" I guess but almost.
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1 pointWhen we and a special couple went on vacation together - one as long as two weeks, we slept with the other spouses most nights. We all seemed to enjoy it. But . . . it leads to knowing the other person, and you get to thinking of them as more of a friend than a sexy person. Puts a different perspective on it.