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One way or another yes I did. It wasn’t that they lined up to have sex with me, it was I did something with each one. Watching my husband was interesting.

Me too! All the reasons I stayed a virgin, saving myself for marriage were ridiculous. I was a healthy curious girl just like all my friends and nothing horrible happened to them except the one girl in HS who became pregnant. I so wanted to do more after having a boyfriend touch my breasts and feeling something strange happen to me. I have hysterical laughs thinking about “grinding” and him having a wet spot that he tried to hide. Or the time he let me use my hand but made him stop when he felt me. Different boyfriend who was the first to have me really see his penis and my first blow job. Still saving myself. I lost out on all the fun I know others had. I now feel it was all for no reason.

I was always adamant on enjoying a partner privately in a separate room away from my husband and others watching. My feelings go back to our original, and still my favorite swap partner. Normally we meet our friends for vacations, cruises, and occasionally at their home. This past weekend they came to the Jersey shore with several other couples who were interested in going to our clothing optional beach. Swapping for us started on a cruise and a visit to a nude beach about 10 years ago. Those who know Gunnisons beach know there isn’t many hotels on the beach, our friends rented a shore house a half hour away. Also you need to get to this area early if you want to get a parking spot. We met them on the beach and being the locals we brought the best bagels, lox, cream cheese and a Jersey specialty, Pork Roll. No fights, Taylor Ham. Meeting on a nude beach is the best, no problems later being naked. Back at the rental things went perfectly as all was done in a huge family room. No pairing off for private play as I usually do, it was just fun for fun’s sake. Mr S2P and I were the newbies to most of them and became the attention of those who wanted to welcome us to their fun. This is not the first time we were with a party group, I always felt uncomfortable in front of a crowd. I enjoy staying with one partner so I needed to change my attitude and let go.

Do not want to depress the OP, but we talked about the lifestyle for more than ten years before we sprung into action.

According to other folks on the board who have more recently frequented Gunnison Beach (which is part of the Sandy Hood federal park) you cannot have sex there. If you do and are caught you are subject to arrest on non-trivial public indecency charges. I will tell you that the situation was different 25 or 30 years ago. Sex wasn’t frequent, but some people pitched tents and had sex out of sight of others and that didn’t seem to be a problem. It was not unusual to see a nude couple on their feet fully embrace for perhaps 20 or 30 seconds. I once saw a couple, a young woman and a late-middle-aged man, 69-ing right next to the path just after it divides from textile to nude. I thought that was a bit much. Once we went down to the southern end of the beach in the late afternoon and Kathy masturbated herself to orgasm with a pocket-rocket vibe. She was still sufficiently turned on that she did it again on the drive home. 😂

I got very excited the both times I watched Timmy having sex with other women and totally turned on watching the two other women together. Watching is exciting and educational. I never knew there was a nude beach in New Jersey where you can have sex. At the party did you have sex with all the men, did it feel different to watch others have sex?

This is not about women, it’s mostly men’s fantasies.

I was 15 and it was with a slightly older man, 40 or so, but completely consensual. Some people will immediately jump on this but it was entirely my choice, and it was great.