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Do not depend on thinking your not fertile week is foolproof. Every body is different and cycles change even if you are regular. If you aren’t on some method, pill, mechanical, or shot, be prepared for surprises. Can you live with what may happen or is your partner?

There are two versions of my answer. This is the long answer: We have been together for over 40 tears, and have three children. We used the body temperature and physical signs of ovulation as Natural Family planning, as it was taught in the 80's. It does require vigilance, trust, and cooperation in the couple. It does keep in the conscious mind ones continuous fertility. As a matter of philosophy and religious belief, remaining open to children suited us. We never used any other means of birth control. We have three children, all conceived on the schedule that we chose. One of them we can link her conception to a particular evening with very much certainty. This suited us as a couple very well and performed as we wished. That being said, you ask about a sexual relationship with a woman who is married to someone else. The common interest and the trust in sharing that interest that is part of the marriage relationship, is not present for you. She potentially has loyalties and agendas of her own or that belong to her own couple. We knew, that whatever happened, we were in this for the long haul. You two are a LS pairing. There is more than just your evening enjoyment involved. There is the possibility of another life, and how you choose to deal with that life if it occurs, or if it will even be a common choice. How ever that plays out, each of you each will be at the start point and will have it as part of your life stories . Being in the LS it is very tempting to minimize some of the choices that we make. There is the tendency to minimize, sometimes unwisely, these concerns. That was the long answer: The short answer is , no. Use condoms at all times.

Wow, this demonstrates the power that social pressure and religion have over us and convinces me more than ever that the best way to begin a relationship, continuing into marriage, is non-monogamously. Humans are not one-partner beings. Pretending otherwise is foolish.

Would you be willing to perform oral on a bunch of women to orgasm to fulfill your girl's fantasy?

Exactly. I would have thought more people did the same.

I appreciate your advice njbm!

The IUD is non-hormonal and effective, just a pain (literally) having it inserted, but nothing to remember or fuss with afterwards. Depends on what those percentages mean. Theoretical effectiveness or real world? Per engagement or per year? The biggest question for me is whether the three of you have discussed and are in agreement what she would do if she does get pregnant. The correct answer is the one you all agree on.

I was always adamant on enjoying a partner privately in a separate room away from my husband and others watching. My feelings go back to our original, and still my favorite swap partner. Normally we meet our friends for vacations, cruises, and occasionally at their home. This past weekend they came to the Jersey shore with several other couples who were interested in going to our clothing optional beach. Swapping for us started on a cruise and a visit to a nude beach about 10 years ago. Those who know Gunnisons beach know there isn’t many hotels on the beach, our friends rented a shore house a half hour away. Also you need to get to this area early if you want to get a parking spot. We met them on the beach and being the locals we brought the best bagels, lox, cream cheese and a Jersey specialty, Pork Roll. No fights, Taylor Ham. Meeting on a nude beach is the best, no problems later being naked. Back at the rental things went perfectly as all was done in a huge family room. No pairing off for private play as I usually do, it was just fun for fun’s sake. Mr S2P and I were the newbies to most of them and became the attention of those who wanted to welcome us to their fun. This is not the first time we were with a party group, I always felt uncomfortable in front of a crowd. I enjoy staying with one partner so I needed to change my attitude and let go.

Indeed. What exactly is being "saved?" It's not like it's being used up or going away, that's what it's there for. There's nothing else in where you meet someone in life to engage in an activity and wished they didn't know what they were doing. That's another entire crazy question which depends on where you are, the age difference, if you traveled from one jurisdiction to another... I've told the story before of a girl in our high school who was selected to attend college classes. She did very well, including having an affair with a professor that continued through high school. She thought boys her age were immature and uninteresting. She knew what she was doing and looks back on it as a wonderful experience. She's happily married now, kids, and her husband knows. And younger me totally missed out on experience with other girls.

A friend of mine showed me one in HS. The cover featured a POV photo facing down at a woman on her knees, mouth open, a circle of 4 or 5 hard cocks around her face. Inside were those grainy b&w photos of people who looked like our parents - engaged in unspeakable acts and seeking willing partners. My friend and I laughed and made fun - but my mind was reeling. I had no idea a lifestyle like this was available! From that moment on I knew I wanted to be a swinger when I 'grew up'. I would casually float the idea to girls I dated, and if they were repulsed I honestly saw no future with them.

We do the same. Results go directly to us, not elsewhere. If there is a problem, then we would obviously seek medical treatment.

Once we were on Gunnison. A couple moved their chairs closer and closer to us. We had dinner with them. Played the next night. They admitted they were trying to pick us up, which was flattering. Another time we met a group at Gunnison. Chatted with a couple we did not know. As we were leaving, we asked where they were staying. The hotel room next to ours! Blah, blah, blah, dinner, we did each other. I said we often have sex with the couples next door.

From a physician: we have heard it all, seen it all, and have one priority--your health. Please, tell us relevant information and help us help you stay safe.

We don't even bother going through our doctors anymore. We just go straight to the lab and pay out of pocket.

Works for me. (40s now.) 5mg is a nice boost, plus another 5mg if I expect a really big day/weekend. Don't really use it daily but prescribed in the 30-day 5mg supply, it's actually cheaper through Amazon Pharmacy than through my insurance.

so, we had been to that swinger club before on weekends, where there are mostly couple. And we were just interchanging couple and so on...typical stuff where you simply fuck the other couple partner. But during the week there were almost only men, looking for the few girls around. I always had a fantasy of seeing my GF sucking some other cock (I like watching gloryhole porn movies). so I told her that I wanted to see her sucking as many cocks as possible that night (I was very high). There is a room with some sort of gloryhole (some wooden wall with holes). I put her on one side and called men to come. She was not completely sure but she was ok at the end. So I just let myself go and went all the way. She tought I did not want her to take sperm in the mouth, but I told her instead that I wanted to see her to swallow the cum of the men (that turns me on). I told her not to swallow inmediately but to show me cum in her mouth and later swallow. It actually worked quite well, some men wanted to fuck her but I expressely only allowed sucking and told the guys to come in her mouth (some guy when they where about to cum where saying "I am coming" and remove the cock to cum outside, out of respect), but I told each one that I wanted them to cum in the cum so that my girl could swallow all the cum. For some of them I also recorded a short video with my phone (with their permission , only showing their cock and my GF face), so we can watch it later. It was funny, with a couple black guys she said that could barely swallow as it was too much, she showed me and her mouth was in fact completely full with cum. I am not sure how many guys came, some 15 I think, some could not come, some came inmediately like after 2 seconds (they apologized but I actually found it quite hot, expecially because the premature cummed A LOT, lol). There were more men but my GF was tired, and a little bad of the stomach, she said it was too much cum to swallow (I think she was just tired, some guys took a lot of sucking to come). It was a nice experience.

I love that people care about others. You must be a terrific person by the remarks I am reading.

I appreciate the vulnerability, courage, and strength that it took for you to share your story here. Glad to know that things are on the mend. Despite the difficulty, it sounds like you have managed to find some positive growth from your experience with the help of some supportive people in your life. Be Well.

I will answer any question I please. That's just how it's going to be, bruh.

I've never been sexual with another man. I'm straight.

He rubbed his hand across my ass as I fucked his wife. I was surprised but I was too into her to care. It felt like he was trying to hold me down deep into her. Nothing bi or gay became of it but I still felt uncomfortable about it.

We were with our neighbor. There was a ton of sexual tension between my wife and him. We ended up drinking and flirting. He and I began rubbing her tits nd making out. She undressed for us and and started sucking our cocks. She sucked his cock while I fucked her from behind - his dick was perfect and a lot bigger than mine. I could tell she was totally into him so I invited him to switch with me. I got on my back nd had her straddle my face - i figured it would drive her wild to have be eating her while he pounded her with his big cock. She came very fast and I shot a load in her mouth. when she was ready he put his cock in her again. While he was fucking i just instinctively rubbed his shaft with my tongue. As he pulled out of her i took the head of his cock in my mouth. He went back and forth between my mouth and her pussy until he finally went balls deep in her and ejaculated. I sucked his balls and could feel his thick cock pulsing as he put his load in her. It was a first for all of us. My wife was so turned on by the whole experience. We laid around afterwards and she continued to kiss us and play with our cocks. I held his cock as she sucked him off - he came again. My wife masturbated watching him sucking my cock. We sat back nd jerked off together until we both shot another load. She continues to totally get off seeing me with another guy.