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Because of the guilt he will feel for what he did and the fact that he lost a wonderful woman, the likes of whom he will never find again, he will come to realize and regret the mistake he made in leaving her. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but soon and for the rest of his life.

That's oftentimes the way it is for us, oral as postplay, not foreplay. But we tend to switch partners for that. Both us women and the guys will lick a sloppy pussy. I especially like taking the spent, flaccid dick that's just finished ejaculating in another pussy and getting it hard again.

It's the other way around for me. Eating pussy is moving tongue and lips; I could go all day. It's calming for the giver. Blow jobs, for me at least, require tonguing, head bobbing (sometimes ferentic head movement), and lip pressure. Not a calm activity for the giver. For a guy, eating pussy requires much less energy than sticking his dick in and having to move most of his body just to get his dick going.

we just find a little asymmetry is a nice addition to couples' parties 😁.

Many of the comments in this thread surprise me. I have been rejected by groups, but only because of my age when I was not yet 21. I have never been rejected by a group because I was single and might upset the dynamic. Having said that, I have encountered a number of hostile married women who thought I, as a single woman, was there to steal their man. I had to explain many times that I'm in the lifestyle to avoid being in a relationship and still getting my considerable sexual needs met. Most of them became less hostile as they got to know me, but a few didn't. Of course, I'm in the lifestyle for a lot of other reasons, but that is one of the more important reasons.

@J&Wu I'm pretty sure she was always posing, although it wasn't always in classrooms and studios. Sometimes she posed privately in artists homes. I never pried for details. A year ago we ran into one of her old artists. He was so glad to see her and, right in front of me, invited her to his home studio for a session. I encouraged her to do it but she declined the offer.

And how did it go? Were you playing bareback before her?

Our group is not entirely closed, we just find a mutual enjoyment in meeting for our fun. We went years looking for new partners which became exhausting and disappointing many times. We don’t have a rule about outside play, all couples are open to have fun away from our group. I understand the reason for a closed group, safety and less chance of disease or infection being primary. Recently we allowed a divorced younger woman who has a lifestyle history to join our party.

Of course keeping in mind also that women can satisfy a surplus of men better than men satisfy extra women. Some woman or women will be dealing with trying to revive a limp dick. It's often written here how a woman is screwing one guy while simultaneously getting another off orally. How often do we read about a guy doing double duty with his dick in one pussy, licking another, while successfully getting both to orgasm at the same time?

@Numex when i was dating my wife she told me she worked part time as an artists model, posing nude often in front of classroms of people. It really intrigued me that she had the confidence to do that, and i surmised she may be an adventurous enough spirit to explore the Lifestyle with... and i was right.

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Thank you all for your kind words.

Leah, I'm glad you're back and glad you're doing better despite a fair amount of tragedy in your life. I'm sure your caring friends would agree when I say please don't beat yourself up over what transpired. Honestly, it sounds to me like the men who should have supported and respected you didn't. Having been in the LS 26 years, my wife and I are aware of some of its pitfalls. Regarding the pregnancy risk, we have had close calls. As the husband I have always accepted full responsibility in the event something went wrong. Had it been an accidental pregnancy I made it clear from the outset I would support my wife through whatever outcome she chose - including the prospect of raising the child as our own. It sounds like your confusion and lying was the result of being afraid and feeling unsupported by your husband. It shouldn't have been a burden you felt like you had to carry alone. Forgive my conjecture, but I feel like the destructive relationship with the older swinger gentleman may have been the result of undeserved guilt and self-loathing resulting from the messy divorce etc you suffered through. None of this should be your burden to bear alone. The men in your life didn't support you. I feel like if your husband could have been more supportive your story would be very different. I'm sure he enjoyed the threesomes he shared with you, but when the very real repercussions came home to roost he let you down. Welcome back! As you know, we in the LS are supportive and non-judgemental. I am happy to have you back among us!

Hello all, My wife and I have dipped into the mfm scene now for about half a year now. up till this point we have had two physical encounters which went fine. recently we made a new connection. The guy is nice, however there is starting to be more emotional connection involved between the wife and other male. Husbands, this has opened my eyes quite a bit, and I’m not sure how to proceed, if we should continue on or what really to think. Getting into this, I never really took into consideration there may be other feelings that develop. im not sure. Any advise, would be great. Thank you

Also, has anyone else experienced this? If so what did you do? What was the resolve?