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4 pointsI asked the question if the sex was different with condoms so Timmy and I decided to have sex with one. We bought condoms last month when we were invited to a party the we ended up passing on so we didn’t have to go buying any for our test. We are meeting a new couple later and condom use is a possibility. Our first use came with laughs and mistakes before finally doing it. First thing the sex wasn’t as spontaneous we had the box of condoms on the night stand unopened, first mistake. After some foreplay, oral sex, we stopped to open the box. Second mistake, opening the packet, another mood killer because I had a hard time opening it. It gets worse, I rolled down wrong, lube inside. I should have known. Now the Test. Once we got started it was the same for me, Timmy said it sucked, especially when changing positions. Truth for me, I missed the warm drippies after and the staying together even when he gets well uh softer. Now I know if we need to use tonight, I know to check the right side or just let him put it on. Even if I don’t feel a real difference in my mind it’s not as sexy, just safer. Timmy will just have to deal with the loss he claims, it didn’t stop him from the happy ending.
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1 pointIt is really all about timing, knowing your cycle and understanding conception process. Keep in mind that healthy sperm travels quickly into a healthy woman’s reproductive track and lay in wait in her fallopian tubes (both) for a healthy egg. Sperm can reside there for five days plus a day of ovulation so as much as six days. we became familiar with this method knowing several couples in the past that this was their method of birth control. It actually is very limiting for women in the lifestyle as far as safe play dates per month. The days immediately following the end of her period up to 8-12 days. After that if they have ejectulate in their body it can survive and fertilize her egg for the next 5-6 days from last ejectulation. it’s never 100%.
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1 pointThe Lifestyle isn't a good place if either one of you has a hangup about cum. If done correctly cum happens and winds up in and on ppl. Just normal really.
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1 pointThe Queen has always been a cum lover personally for me as well as swing partners (assuming good hygiene). After decades of pleasure and giving Manopause hit with a vengeance……and it all came to a stop. Natures cruel joke.
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1 pointYeah some guys can't perform with a condom on. When I was in my 20s, you could have used a vice grip and made no progress on compromising my hard on. Now? I do ok, but condoms definitely make it more difficult.
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1 pointBoth. The guy in my mouth likes to cum there, and guys like to watch me make a show of rolling it around with my tongue before swallowing. I do it, however, because I like taking a guy's suff inside me. As a bi woman, that is actually my preferred way to get cum on my mouth and tummy. Sucking a guy who's been in a pussy but didn't cum yet is nice too.
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1 point"I also find it very empowering (but I realize that some women find it demeaning, which I respect and can see that viewpoint) but I love having that control. We've also just recently started to enjoy "sloppy seconds" (because we have a small, closed group) " In the days before AIDS, gotta applaud sloppy seconds for sure. Pounding a cum filled vagina...man, what a release.
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1 pointMy wife contended that no matter how much lube was used, a penis with a condom on it never slid as smooth and easily inside her as a bare one. If she didn't use lube, she often felt the rubber pinch her at the mouth of her pussy. However, with the exception of one other man, she always insisted on condoms for disease protection. But there was never a choice for her between using a condom or no penetration - she opted for sport fucking every time! She and her guys experimented with various condoms, especially thickness/thinness and ribbing, and she said that normally there wasn't much difference - there was still a condom on, and she rarely had a problem reaching orgasm, so the ribbing didn't add much. The biggest problem was that some guys simply couldn't perform with condoms on, so she had to be slightly satisfied with foreplay and oral.
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1 pointFor me, it's not only less enjoyable but not worth it. Not only is the "feel" blunted and my orgasms not as good, but I also don't get to feel the pulsing of his orgasm. I especially miss the ejaculation itself, the deposit of his cum in me, the pleasure of keeping it inside for a while, and the knowledge that at least a few of those swimmers (a living part of a man!) is hosted within my body for a few days.
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1 pointFrom the male perspective, there is a massive difference in intercourse with a condom and without a condom. There were times back in college where I passed on sex because I had to wear a condom. I couldn't feel anything so why bother. There are very thin condoms these days where you'll at least feel the warmth but the friction is still significantly different. With that said, we always use condoms when we play in the lifestyle.
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1 pointMen can feel the difference and my GF says she can too. She prefers no condom but she uses them. There are a couple of really close friends that we have which she doesn't use them with (and they do get tested) but for everyone else she does. She doesn't use them for oral though as she hates giving oral with a condom. As far as who puts the condom on, it varies. I would say usually the guy does but I have seen my GF put it on a guy before. The reality is, condom or not, you are always going to be taking your chance of an STI. But condoms certainly do help reduce your chances. And there were times when my GF was rather careless and didn't use a condom when she should have. This was mostly earlier on when we were in our early and mid 20s. Although I told her to use condoms things were more casual between us so I didn't really push it that hard. Now she is much more on top of it. But even now she has had a slip up. My point is that there is always some level of risk if you're going to play. You just have to find the best way to mitigate those risks without losing too much pleasure from your play.
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1 pointWomen on the board here will respond with their personal views on whether intercourse with a condom physically feels different. I’ve never had a woman say it does. I’m not sure with adequate vaginal lubrication — natural or added — there would be much difference. But for a number of women I’ve known there’s a big psychological difference. Just a couple preferred condoms because they didn’t like sex to be "messy". Keep all that semen out of me! Some just didn’t care. And some really liked having their partner’s semen in them. That made sex more gratifying. From a male perspective, putting aside the (very important) considerations of contraception and transmission of STIs, I cannot imagine there are many men who think intercourse with a condom feels better than without. For me there’s a huge difference. And barrier oral, whether dental dams for performing on women or condoms for receiving oral myself, well, why even bother. My wife and I once tried using a dental dam. For me it was like licking a balloon. And not really any better for her as a recipient. Circling back to your concern about contracting STIs through unprotected sex with casual partners, your concerns are well founded. It’s a matter of balancing risks and rewards. Other than celibacy there is no 100% way to be completely safe from contracting an STI. Not speaking of your relationship of course, but there are plenty of non-lifestyle folks who are sexually exclusive with a partner who have contracted an STI from that sole partner because that partner had sex with others. Members of this board have widely differing approaches to risk assessment and mitigation. Risk tolerance varies widely. @Numex is in a closed smallish group of couples who all signed a (virtual) blood oath not to have sex of any sort with others outside the group. To my recollection he’s never spoken of any other steps the group has taken to mitigate risk. Others have said that in casual encounters they use condoms and otherwise avoid fluid sharing, but eschew those measures with regular partners with whom they’ve developed a trusting relationship. ‘And some, by my observation often those who play with others weekly or even more frequently, wouldn’t dream of having unprotected sex. Finally, I predict that as you and your husband ease yourselves into a life of non-monogamy your fears of STIs will abate, particularly as you arrive at a level of risk acceptance that feels right for you and your husband.
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1 pointAs I remember, they kept the mags at the rear of the store. I was pretty lucky. Out of six request for MFM, I got two hits. Took about 10 days to get a response. It felt like Xmas morning seeing the letter in the mailbox! God, I had a hard-on for days as we talked on the phone sizing each other up. My first couple was about 10 years older than I. My first bi experience (well..border line). He wife was gorgeous. My first experience of licking a woman's clit while her husband was fucking her. I couldn't bring myself to suck his cock, but I did fondle his balls while I licked her. Ahhhh....good times and good memories.
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1 pointBecause of the guilt he will feel for what he did and the fact that he lost a wonderful woman, the likes of whom he will never find again, he will come to realize and regret the mistake he made in leaving her. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but soon and for the rest of his life.
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1 pointWhat early on got Daniela and me sexually excited was recounting our sex lives. Hers was much more interesting than mine. The stories still do intrigue us, although I long ago ago ran out of experiences to recall, she pops up something new every so often.
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1 pointHello all, I have read hundreds of posts here and feel like there is a common theme of husbands trying to get consensus about what their wives are thinking and this will be no different. My wife has expressed an interest to have 2 men at the same time more times than I can count. We have been together for over 20 years and married for about 14. She wants to try dvp, spit roast, sucking 2 at once, and more. She is wild in bed and we often play with realistic dildos to simulate. If I talk about it, she gets instantly excited. We had a weekend trip away in December and I brought it up during the ride. she got ultra wet and was super horny talking about it. We had crazy sex and she talked about it during it. she expresses odd concerns like "what if he is too hairy, isn't clean, or has long nails". It feels like she is making fairly trivial excuses and that she is already mentally ready to go. If there is one holdup it is probably a fear that I would go through with it and then want her to have women join - we did that once 20yrs ago and it went horribly and I wouldn't entertain it again to be honest. We had a nice night out recently and she was all horny on the ride home and we looked up a sex club with the intention to have sex in front of others. When we pulled up to the parking g lot, she decided it was a bad idea. not sure what is going on. How would you proceed?
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1 pointMy fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later. One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again. Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this. A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it. My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room. One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash. I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it. My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there. As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow. Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing. She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt. He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him. They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again. They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever. When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night. They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us. I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again. He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here. Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night. And what a night it was.
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1 pointAfter a week at a house vacation with a large group it’s not only men who watch. I’m not a voyeur normally, I don’t need to watch anyone including my husband have sex but one night we cheered on two women with the men giving oral. I left my shy self behind and laughed and enjoyed with the crowd.
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1 pointThinking every man is bigger I was fascinated watching her suck other men. One man I know was much larger than me in my mind I asked if I could video my wife sucking. Casting to my tv later on was fun.
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1 pointI rather watch a woman suck me. I even enjoy watching my wife sucking me.
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1 pointMy biggest fantasy was to have my wife fucked by a black man. I never thought it would come true though. We would fantasize about it in the bedroom but she said never would it happen. Who says wishes don’t come true? The other night when we were visiting the San Bernardino area we visited a club called Freedom Acres. The night started out a little slowly as the people there at that point just were not doing it for my wife. She knows what she wants and we have to go with that. My wife had never done anything like this before and this is a very new experience for us. Being at a swingers club isn't really her thing but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a turn on for her. She really did not want to fuck anyone else but me but did say she would fuck me in front of people and that she would be with a woman before she would fuck a guy. We talked to some people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to do for our adventure. There was a hot blond that was a little interested but we had already been with another woman before so I was hoping we could try another man (hopefully a black man). My wife had put down several drinks and was feeling a little more relaxed and decided to go and put on her little transparent gown which when she came out with it on everyone’s eyes were on her. Some guy came up to me and told me I was one lucky dude and he wished he could be me when he grew up. Well, I had seen a good looking black guy that I had talked to earlier that night and I got an idea. I told my wife I wanted her to tease some guys and just dance with them. She wouldn’t have to do anything with them in there because no mean no. She said okay but she needed a certain song to get her going. When she went up to the DJ, I quickly went down and found the guy and told her my wife wanted to dance with him. When she got back the guy was already up there with us and I told her he wanted to dance. She smiled and said okay. They danced a little and then it really started getting good. She was backing into him and rubbing up against his cock and she grabbed his hands and had him start feeling her up and down. I was so fucking horny I didn't know if I could take it. She was really turning this guy on and a lot of others that were watching her. I think she was enjoying it more than she was letting on. Well, after several dances and her making him horny and wet and I know she was wet, she had had enough and said thanks. He left and I thought it was not going to work out but she wanted to go upstairs and for us to have some fun. When we were on our way up to the room to fuck we had to pass another area and in that area our guy was in there. The room we were going into was a couple’s only room and no single men could go in unless they were asked along. As we passed by him he asked my wife if he could come in with us and watch. At first she looked at me but then said yes. I think I shot my load right there. Anyway, we got up to our area and my wife and I were kissing with our clothes on. She said for me to get my clothes off so she could suck my cock. Over in another area there was a couple fucking and watching us at the same time. They came and were done right then and just watched us start up. I got naked and my wife started sucking me. I watched our guy just watch us do our thing. He moved a little closer and kind of touched my wife a little. She was horny now and really didn't do anything at all. He then took and put his finger in her pussy and started moving it around. The look on her face made me want to cum right there. I stopped and pulled away from her and just watched him finger her pussy and watched her enjoy every movement his finger made. She now lay down and wanted me to lick her pussy while our guy got undressed. That was awesome. She grabbed his cock and started jerking him off and then started sucking on it. She moaned as I licked her and as she sucked on his black cock. After he had been sucked off for a while he asked her if he could lick her cunt and she said he could so he went down to her pussy and started licking. I was up by her mouth kissing her as he lick away. She was moaning very loudly now and the couple that had stopped and was watching us now started to fuck again and this time much more intensely. After he had licked my wife’s pussy for several minutes he stopped and started fingering her again but this time a little differently. I saw him start but as he was doing it I started hearing it begin to become dripping wet as the sound just was very loud coming from her pussy. Her face was red from cumming and she was moaning so much more. I went down to lick on her pussy a little and put my hand on the sheet and found it to be soaking wet from her cum. Her ass cheeks were dripping wet like she had just showered. I guess showered in her cum. I have never seen her so wet. I now licked her pussy again while she sucked him off and was trying to keep her still as she was moving so much. I finished and he went down on her again and fingered her several more times bringing her to so much of a dripping orgasm that the sheets were now totally drenched with her cum and wetness. I asked her if she was going to let him fuck her and she said yes and she then told him to fuck her. I asked him if he had a rubber and he did. He put the rubber on and started fucking her like there was no tomorrow. She was telling him to fuck her with his big black dick and told him she loved his cock in her pussy. Her pussy was making so much noise now and so was she, that the people down below were watching and enjoying. She now asked him if he liked fucking her tight white pussy and told him to fuck her hard. I was sitting back and watching all this and enjoying like I have never enjoyed before. After several minutes of a hard fuck he raised her legs and pounded away until he came with her cumming at the same time. He pulled out and took off his rubber and sat over by the wall. She got closer to him and put her back up against him and looked at me and smiled. She said it was now my turn to fuck her. As I fucked her with her back up against him she told him to watch her husband fuck her wet little pussy and he smiled a big smile. After several minutes of pounding her sloppy wet pussy I couldn’t hold it anymore and shot my load all over her tits and our guy watched me cum. We laid there for several more minutes and gathered our composure and decided we had a long drive and were just too wore out for any more action tonight. He thanked us for the night and said if we were ever in the area again to look him up. Bad thing is we didn’t get his address or his last name. My wife did get something to remember him by though. When we drove to our hotel that night I asked how many times she came and she said she lost track after 10. I asked what he did to her when he fingered her and she said something she had never felt before. I wish I would have watched and asked him what he did because it was something I am not aware of for sure. When we make love now, we still reminisce about our night that my wife had her first black cock and fantasize about being fucked by a black man.
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1 pointI LIKE TO PICTURE A BIG LOAD SPLASHING ALL OVER MY WIFES AMPLE TITS AND HER PUSHING ME TOWARD THE AROUSED NIPPLES AS SHE TELLS ME TO GO SUCK AND LICK HIS CUM UP. HER LOVER PUTS OUT A HUGE LOAD OF THICK SPERM COVERING BOTH TITS. I RESIST AT FIRST BUT I WANT TO SO BAD I JUST ALLOW HER TO GUIDE MY FACE TOWARD THE JUICY REWARD FOR LETTING HER GET WELL FUCKED BY A NICE YOUNGER COCK. GREAT IDEA WHAT A TURN ON
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1 pointIt sounds like a hot idea but once I get to that point the moods over, so....
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1 pointI absolutely love it!
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1 pointMy husband (95mustang) is totally straight. Although I have told him that it is a fantasy to see him do oral with another man, we both agree that it would be better keep to fantasy for us. It doesn't bother him that I fantasize (sp) about this, but it will never happen. Some fantasies for us should just remain fantasy.
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1 pointI thought it was 3 guys and I was drunk?
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1 pointThat is probably my #1 fantasy... to see two guys together.
