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Only a few months into the Lifestyle and we are enjoying a meetings more each time. Our biggest problem is how long our meetings are with babysitters or Grandparents waiting for us back home and us not wanting to meet others who are too close. Other than a party we ghosted Timmy finds fun meetings for us. He started with new criteria of bisexual women, a non-thought my whole life. He said I get more excited thinking about the women, I won’t answer that. Another observation is I’m not hesitant anymore. With the limited time we have after a short get to know time we all know why we are meeting. Where I worried about getting nude I now have no hesitation. Are we lucky or is Timmy finding the right people, I am enjoying each new meeting more and more. Last night was no exception, I’m allowing myself to be free to enjoy without holding back. Timmy said on our drive home that this was our best so far, I just laughed. It looks like Timmy is very attentive while we play, he sees more how I am playing. So next time I will watch him more. He made me blush when he said what I looked like with the wife, he said if I was with my girlfriends before we met we may never had. NOT TRUE.

Early in our swinging/hotwifing phase, Mary was a little afraid to tell me how much she was enjoying herself. I wondered at times at the quiet orgasms she was having with the other guy. Then when she figured out I really wanted her to have a great time, her orgasms got louder and more vigorous, and she told me about what he'd done to make her scream. It was a bit of a learning process.

Here’s to many more new meetings 🥂 After meeting many New meetings we found some are good, some are not good, and we remember the Great ones. When you meet the ones that are bad just forget it and move on. Unfortunately we moved on from some great ones because we were looking for the next thrill, don’t make that mistake. Keep the great ones while adding to your search. Share with us the things that made this meeting the best for you and Timmy. Was it the sex or the friendship you made? I prefer the friendships we made and have not stayed in contact with some where the sex was very good. It’s about a good mix.

Sex has always been a risk; I have known this since I started my sexual life when I was a teenager. We both do understand the risks, and we both manage them for us the outcome is much more rewarding, saying that this is our current situation: We do not use condoms for oral, for me the taste of the condoms is a big mood-breaker, flavour or no flavour, sucking on a piece of rubber is a bad experience for me. Also, most of the time, I handle the male orgasm in my mouth. We use condoms for penetration; we have condomless sex only with our closest friends, people we have known for years -> these are only two couples. I am HPV Vaccinated and we get tested twice a year. Once again, we both understand the risks; we made an adult decision.

I agree with keep the great ones. Variety is good, getting to play with new people is always fun, but keeping the good ones...yeah, absolutely.

That's how we found the like minded couples we did to form our closed group.

We both like to both tell and hear stories of our sex lives apart from each other, both from before we met and afterwards. One of my favorite foreplay activities is to have my wife tell me about some good sex she had with someone else, man or woman, whether it was 15 minutes ago or when she was 15 while I am eating her out and getting a boner before I enter her. And I only want to hear the good stuff. I'm not expecting her to flatter me by saying that he's not as good as me. Sometimes that true, and I listen, but I want to hear about the good times she's had or having.

Other than our initial rigorous double testing, that is correct.

...and how many got screwed by men while their significant other watched 😁

I live in an apartment complex that has many sidewalks. On this beautiful Sunday morning, I'm sitting on my patio, watching the foot traffic, many. of them are attractive women of all ages. I can't stop myself from wondering how many of them got laid last night - and how many were screwed by men who weren't their significant other. I'm betting at least a couple of them. Okay, so I'm a pervert . . .

I watched plenty when we started, watched her suck, watched her fuck and watched the hottest thing she did, play with her girlfriend. We had a deal with our friends who we swapped wives for FFM. I didn’t even care that I was just a watcher they were so into it.

The Lifestyle isn't a good place if either one of you has a hangup about cum. If done correctly cum happens and winds up in and on ppl. Just normal really.

Both. The guy in my mouth likes to cum there, and guys like to watch me make a show of rolling it around with my tongue before swallowing. I do it, however, because I like taking a guy's suff inside me. As a bi woman, that is actually my preferred way to get cum on my mouth and tummy. Sucking a guy who's been in a pussy but didn't cum yet is nice too.

I would say it depends on Tomy ( Hubby) he like watching it but sometimes doesn't even bother Lol , but for me I usually watch when Tomy is getting sucked by other women and how the other women is dealing with it.

As a woman, it's a treat to watch one of my guys with his dick in one pussy while he's eating another. As a bi woman, my favorite situation is FFM with me in the middle getting cum ejaculated into my vag while licking it out of hers. Perfect.