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We see this a bit differently. From time to time, we notice people from one of our walks of life--work, hobby, past (university, high school) -- on one of the adult sites. Unless we have some strong reason for contacting them, we will typically pass them by. That said, if you attend an LS event -- even a vanilla meet and greet, to say nothing of a house party or hotel takeover or cruise -- we can more or less guarantee that you will eventually encounter someone you know. "Deer in headlights" is not a helpful reaction. One way to gauge your own responses is to practice, and here is the departure from others' thoughts: make contact and plan a vanilla dinner to catch up. Up to you whether you want to use SLS as the vehicle (you mentioned that she's on facebook). Find a time together--this might be a "why did you reach out now?" response, or might be a quiet conversation in the ladies' room--to communicate that you know and you will of course protect their confidence. To repeat, the situation of running into someone you know is more probable than not--you just do not know when. Gaining skill in how to place that information in context of your pre-existing relationship with that person or couple will prepare you for the unexpected.

Is this playing with a friend? In absolute terms, since you haven't seen them in ages, I'd say no. But, since you have mutual friends, I'd be very cautious. Let's say you let it be known to her that you and your husband are swingers. Then she, in an uncareful moment (drunk or otherwise,) says to one of your mutual friends, "Oh, you remember Half MT? Well, let me tell you . . ." You're outed. Not saying that's what's going to happen, just saying it's possible. How cautious do you want to be?

Bringing my play-partners to ecstasy is what I find more enjoyable in the lifestyle; I have never had any problems handling male orgasms in my mouth, cum is a reward for a well-done job.

When we did the first time she licked me I did not touch her unfortunately that is one of my boundaries I have no issue with her touching me but I can't bring myself to touch her yet. He told me that was fine. I did enjoy the three of us though.

Don’t think so. Hate to throw cold water on your heat. If you asked me a few months ago if we would be swingers I would have laughed. If you asked me back then if I would do what I did with another woman I would have gagged. I’m learning to never say what can happen, I think the men being bi is not in my thoughts or theirs.

Good to be curious🤫and safely😇gain experience you can enjoy🤩😘

When we did the first time she licked me I did not touch her unfortunately that is one of my boundaries I have no issue with her touching me but I can't bring myself to touch her yet. He told me that was fine. I did enjoy the three of us though.

Very new and enjoying things I never knew I am new to sex with anyone but my husband as I was a virgin bride. Somebody said I am making up for lost time.

The Lifestyle isn't a good place if either one of you has a hangup about cum. If done correctly cum happens and winds up in and on ppl. Just normal really.