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Bringing my play-partners to ecstasy is what I find more enjoyable in the lifestyle; I have never had any problems handling male orgasms in my mouth, cum is a reward for a well-done job.

Hello all, my wife and I (both in 40s) have started to talk about getting more adventurous, we discussed it a lot, and watched a lot of programmes etc, but we've come to understand that what we both want is to be in an environment where others are having sex and we play with each other so we can watch others and others can watch us, but not to swap, soft or hard. Is this acceptable in a club, if so, is it specific nights that do that? Also, as we have never been to a club there is a concern about being body conscious, is this something we need to worry about? Assume all shapes and sizes are accepted? Thanks 😀

We have started with swinging for 35 years ago. We were curious after we have read an article about swinging and lifestyle. It took a long time and a lot of discussion bevor we made first step with a couple first time soft swapp, both we have liked, the next swinging evening the first step with full swapp, we have had enjoyed it. Till today, we have never regretted and we enjoy our lifestyle.

Is this playing with a friend? In absolute terms, since you haven't seen them in ages, I'd say no. But, since you have mutual friends, I'd be very cautious. Let's say you let it be known to her that you and your husband are swingers. Then she, in an uncareful moment (drunk or otherwise,) says to one of your mutual friends, "Oh, you remember Half MT? Well, let me tell you . . ." You're outed. Not saying that's what's going to happen, just saying it's possible. How cautious do you want to be?

I never use a condom, but sometimes I feel that resistance when I'm first entered if my juices haven't gotten all the way down to the entrance of my vagina. But the guys are gentle and I actually like it.

Very new and enjoying things I never knew I am new to sex with anyone but my husband as I was a virgin bride. Somebody said I am making up for lost time.

I do definitely recommend hormonal contraceptives; I am 40, in theory fertile, and I have been on birth control for years (Depo); on top of that, we use condoms except with our close friends and two couples where we play bareback. In the last ten years or so, three different fertile men have been ejaculating regularly inside me (including my husband), and we have never had any pregnancy scares.

Lots of cum talk on the board lately! Personally, I love everything about a man's cum. I like the taste in my mouth and the feel of it on my body, and I really enjoy playing with my husband after I've been cum on by another man, or just playing with the cum that's on me. For me it's something that I've always liked and been curious about, but up until recently didn't have the nerve to even talk about it, let alone do it! I also find it very empowering (but I realize that some women find it demeaning, which I respect and can see that viewpoint) but I love having that control. We've also just recently started to enjoy "sloppy seconds" (because we have a small, closed group)

Men can feel the difference and my GF says she can too. She prefers no condom but she uses them. There are a couple of really close friends that we have which she doesn't use them with (and they do get tested) but for everyone else she does. She doesn't use them for oral though as she hates giving oral with a condom. As far as who puts the condom on, it varies. I would say usually the guy does but I have seen my GF put it on a guy before. The reality is, condom or not, you are always going to be taking your chance of an STI. But condoms certainly do help reduce your chances. And there were times when my GF was rather careless and didn't use a condom when she should have. This was mostly earlier on when we were in our early and mid 20s. Although I told her to use condoms things were more casual between us so I didn't really push it that hard. Now she is much more on top of it. But even now she has had a slip up. My point is that there is always some level of risk if you're going to play. You just have to find the best way to mitigate those risks without losing too much pleasure from your play.

Personally, I would combine the app with the pullout method, but that’s just my opinion. 95% is too risky for me. That means there’s a 5% chance she gets pregnant…

I have a simple solution to this, it's one I use. As soon as I cum I roll over on my back and she will hop on top of me and we 69 . For me it prepares me the best for a round 2 by letting me smell and taste her and receive the enjoyment of her oral.

My wife pumped breast milk when she went back to work. After our daughter was weaned, there was a surplus of milk leftover. Daniela used it for cookies, which were served to unknowing vanilla friends. I thought it perhaps unethical, but she said if people are willing to eat the milk of a dirty cow, why not a clean woman?

Lots of foreplay in the hot tub, kissing rubbings, etc, but I prefer no actual sex there, too hot, too uncomfortable and water is not a good lube.

Performance issues are common in men that are new to the Lifestyle regardless of age, the pressure of performing in from of an audience can be overwhelming, my suggestion is to start with some separate room action to build up your confidence, then move gradually to same room encounters. Also, there is nothing wrong with watching at the beginning, usually, I start with the other girl while the boys watch and acclimate and warm-up, then they join us by turns once they feel ready, it is totally ok to take your time to enjoy the show while you touch yourself a little.

yes and never again at this point in our swing experience. I found that if i am not into him then its no fun for me, if its no fun for one its no fun for anyone so we have also made a point not to be the couple that uses couples for our own pleasure no matter what they are feeling/wanting so we make sure all are on board before we play...maybe why we still haven't had a lot of experience lol

All I can say is that the Sex is the hottest and the Wife knows that is what I love having sloppy seconds or being last at the gangbangs It is the best sec ever.

Quite frankly I'd like to be about the 10th guy in. There is just something about slowly entering a sloppy, oozing well fucked pussy that is soooo enticing and hot. Just sitting here imagining the sound of my cock entering that mess gets me rock hard.