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Do others talk to the other wives you have played with? We are still new to swinging and learning how to communicate with others during and after meeting others. There are a few on here that have reached out to me privately giving advice on how to proceed meeting others. When reading the public and private messages I take into account the ages and wisdom that comes with age and take the advice seriously. One gentleman wrote that we should not rush to meet so many so quickly, we should enjoy making relationships with like minded people. Another wrote that I should enjoy my new found sexuality, but warned me about users and crazies. She also recommended building relationships. I was also warned of STI and worse. What I love is most writers are my parents age or older and are still active. I also enjoy the opportunity to share our limited experiences and my feelings which I do as if they were my age. This weekend we took a step back with someone we met for sex the weekend before. We met them for three hours with sex as the only reason, we needed to get home to our children. Our time with them was great for us and Timmy and I both thought we wanted to meet them again. Problem is we both have younger children that need sitters. With trying to build a friendship we decided that the families could spend a purely platonic family day together. Children are precious and no sex would be discussed. We met their family for Putt Putt golf and pizza. The kids had a great time together which led to extending the day to include a fair about an hour away. With two cars, the men drove the kids, I got to drive with my new friend alone for that hour. It was the first time other than the first couple we met on our vacation that I got to have an honest open exchange with a wife my age. It was funny how alike we are sexually and physically. They are way more experienced than we are but almost all the meetings are with a type. She opened that not all meetings were fun and not once did anyone want to meet socially. She was amazed about my life and virgin bride status. She asked if I was sorry I did that, I shrugged. We had plenty of laughs about sex and family life. I needed this, time to ask questions and make a friend who I hope I can trust. Night ended with the kids, now friends, having fun at the fair with more junk food and rides. Nobody got sick. I know this is all so quick and will change over time, do others ever get to make friends they can open up to with inner feelings. Maybe I scared her away and she thinks I’m nuts with all the questions, if not I look forward to a broad relationship with them.

Believe me, women talk, men talk.

Timmy said they got along perfectly. Having 4 kids in the SUV with them the talk better have been tame with kids always hearing things they shouldn’t. I asked Timmy what they spoke about, sports mostly, music, Olympics, and in his very descriptive way Stuff. I knew they had to talk about me, what did he say? He said I had a great ass lol. Not in front of the kids? NO! Timmy made a great point, would they want to spend a day with us if they didn’t click. Good point. Timmy asked what two sexy women spoke about. Don’t you love that question. I know he wanted to know the sex talk. I teased him saying we didn’t talk about him or her husband, just girl talk. Her husband loved my squirting, something that I always thought was a negative. We talked about lesbian sex, we don’t need men. Again teasing Timmy. FWB needs all to get along. She told me they met others where she didn’t like the man which killed any chance of another meeting. In their relationship she has control and final say.

We STRONGLY believe in having FWB...with the friends part coming first. It's GREAT having someone else you can talk to...about ANYTHING (including sex). The only thing you have to be careful with is remembering that you can't talk to all of your friends about anything (especially sex). Stop overthinking and enjoy the ride...

Thought I'd revisit this thread..... Would love to see Marla on a bed blindfolded, with a group of at least 5 or 6, a combination of men and women, things start off with all the them giving her a massage....and then watch things get more intimate while she remains blindfolded. Men and women giving her oral, she giving oral to men and women and sexual intercourse with the men.

Remember when I said not to make the mistakes we did letting good matches get away because we were looking for the next thrill. Alan used to say we were looking for Strange thinking it would be different. Different isn’t always better or even good. Sounds like you found a friend, keep them. You are young and strange will always be there if you want it.

That's a wonderful opportunity you had! And I'm so glad you have the opportunity to talk with her one on one, without the distraction of sex getting in the way. Our first couple experiences were happenstance, and total strangers - before and after our night in bed with them. We then went to a swingers club, which was nerve wracking and scary, but ended up being fun. Now we are fortunate to have found another couple who we play with exclusively, and have become very close friends with. We still have not mixed them in with our "vanilla" friends, but it's nice to know I can call her up and go shopping, or just talk over coffee or whatever. Those types of friendships are very important to me, but when we first started down this path, I thought I would have a very hard time talking over coffee with someone I went down on the night before, and whose husband has seen and felt every part of me, inside and out : ) But somehow, life is life, and sex is sex!

I tend to think if the wives can get along socially then a lasting FWB friendship is possible. I don't mean to generalize, but it has always seemed the men get along easily but the women - not as easily.

She didn’t change the subject during the course of the drive and remained a full participant in the conversation. So it seems unlikely she was put off. I would say you have had the very good fortune of having found someone with whom you can have a friendship that includes great sex. Hopefully your husband and hers have similar feelings. Did you check with yours? (While I have enjoyed playing with singles and couples at parties where I never did quite get even first their names Ann never saw them again, I much prefer ongoing multi-dimensional relationships with play partners. The most satisfying are friendships where we can enjoy a date that may or may not include sex.

WHAT A FANTASTIC RELATIONSHIP to read how this wife LOVES CUM and LOVES sharing it with her husband and THAT HE LOVES HER SO MUCH that he will eagerly join in to fuel HER DESIRES! HE MUST BE one of the happiest husbands on earth! Atlanta may be THE BEST PLACE in the states to engage in this exceptionally erotic experience! I grew up there (teens to 20) in the 60's and it was an ideal "Peyton Place" for 100's of "Mrs Robinson's!" OH WHAT A PLACE!

Cum Kissing (IMHO) is THE GOAL of a bisexual MMF 3some! Licking dick, and licking clit before, DURING and ESPECIALLY AFTER intercourse is SUCH an erotic experience! Throw me in the briar patch!

Cum Kisses!!!! YUM YUM YUM! Love getting it bi licking her and him before, DURING and ESPECIALLY AFTER we cum in her! (even if I am not invited to cum in her, I'll LICK THE DRIP, Kiss the lips and French Kiss them both!)

It took my husband even longer, but once he saw all I was willing to do and how much fun it was, step by step along with me gave in. We absolutely have no regrets! The more the merrier these days and we definitely do get our big sex drives well fulfilled. Worth all time and patience it took.

For us it was time. It took time. As others have said, be patient, take your time, have fun taking things very slow, enjoy the journey. I was not at all looking to be with other women. I am crazy about bi male sex and sharing that experience with my husband. I had to give a little to get a lot, over time I got used to being right there with other women, more and more happened. Other women can teach you things you never knew you didn't know. I perform oral better than ever thanks to doing it with other women (and men) so of course we wound up in interesting situations. I do know when cum is involved, kissing other people, wherever that is (mouth, pussy, breasts, penis, balls, sometimes is a blur. I get all caught up in the heat of the moment. Addictions can do that to a person I suppose. I let what happens, happens, and the flow works itself out. It took my husband even longer, but once he saw all I was willing to do and how much fun it was step by step along with me gave in. We absolutely have no regrets!

IMHO, the chemistry of cum, even with a pleasing appetite (coconut, salty watermelon), makes the ammonia odor and taste unpleasant. SO, to overCUM that...consider letting a man's penis DEPOSIT that cum on a body part! Tits, belly, butt cheeks, small of the back, feet, toes.....any place with do! Bi doing so, a large amount of the ammonia odor will dissipate and make this exceptionally naught and wicked fetish MUCH MORE FUN to enjoy! Let's face it, bi using ALL of our senses (touch, taste, smell, HEAR and SEE) we can greatly augment the "scene." Bi the way, try licking it off a piece of salted watermelon or even licking it after it has "crusted!" And for those who don't know (newbies), preCUM is the caviar of edging! Confused Hubby should try tasting some preCUM on his wife's nipples!

While we've been in the lifestyle for a few years our experiences have been infrequent (usually reserved accommodated by visiting a nearby club when we are on vacation. ) There's still alot on the bucket list. The biggest being just an uninhibited full on orgy with 10 or more people. Just the thought of getting lost in a sea of bodies fucking and sucking and looking around to find my wife having her own pleasure while I'm having mine makes my cock hard. Just a house party in general is something we've never done. Would love to do a reverse gangbang where it's me and several women having their way with me. Would also want to do a regular gangbang where me and several other men fuck my wife. While we've had full swap foursomes and FMF threesomes, we've never had an MFM threesome. Wife is very picky with single men and we thus far haven't met one that she wanted to do that with, but that is also on our bucket list. Particularly to DP her or even adding a third to make her air tight. So, hopefully this go around we'll get to knock a few of those off. 😈

It's ironic to me that your "uncomfortable" moment happened with another woman. Not quite a Glenn Close encounter (ala "Fatal Attraction") butt nevertheless surprising. Usually, it seems to me, it's we single men that are singled out as not worth the risk. However, in my limited experience (using a SB "sponsor" site), I was selected bi a couple for my "bisexuality" but they wanted "proof" of my appearance first. So I met the hubby in his "man cave" (Corvette garage, with a gas pump, etc) and we got naked so the wife "could see me naked." We masturbated as hubby asked me to discuss what was on the menu should his wife agree to include me. "What would she like?" I asked. Her list of desires was quite specific and "sequential" such that if I did this and that MM, then we'd proceed further with MMF bisex. I was happy with the MM list and the MMF desires as well, IF she'd be naked and watch us MM. It turned out the wife "knew me" from work (revealed bi hubby at the end of my nude interview) and when asked if that concerned me, I replied, "not at all." It was clear to me that they wanted me to be discreet and I think "there is a code of conduct" that requires mutual discretion. When we met, it turned out that I "knew her" as well, as she asked me, "you still want to do this?" My reaction was a BIG SMILE as I said "yes! Let me get naked and give you a hug." Like many women, she was concerned with her weight and fearful that I might walk out once I knew it was her. IMHO, one's ATTITUDE and DESIRES far, FAR outweigh "physical appearance." So we did EVERYTHING hubby had said they wanted to see and do. It really was a VERY DELIGHTFUL bisexual MMF experience. She had never had her pussy licked bi another man as her hubby fucked her NOR had her hubby licked her pussy with another man's cock in her pussy. He and I gave her that experience more than just once! IT WAS THE HIGHLIGHT of the threesome to "tag team her" the way we did AND to let her experience the joy of sucking a man's cock hard again for some additional fucking. She was BEAMING with joy at the attention we paid to her. The "fly in the ointment" came when I did NOT call her at work and tell her how much fun it was to have a bisexual 3some with her and her husband (even though it had been REQUESTED and DISCUSSED that such a conversation should "NOT be mentioned at work!" Thus, it was (IMHO) her insecurity (?) that hubby told me later "she doesn't want to play again" when that was all we could all three agree we were each eager to do it ALL again and AGAIN "at least once a month." Perhaps, more experienced SB members will "shoot me down" on this opinion and I do confess, it sill confuses me "what I did wrong." The very last words I said before leaving them was how much FUN we had had and how eager I was to "do it ALL" over "again and again." She was SMILING when I left; hugged and kissed me and even commented about how much fun it was for her to share sucking hubby's cock with me AND feeling both our tongues on her pussy. Why it was "so good" at the scene (they chose a Friday afternoon) and so terrible the next Tue when hubby called me to say his wife was disappointed that I did not call her at work on Monday to say again how much fun we had? YCMTSU .....