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  1. 2 points
    We do less of this now but did enough of it that I had to check most boxes. LOL. We've usually done this with the intention of her flirting and then introducing me if it's going anywhere. Always gets hit on, not always a match. We've had guys lose interest when they realized I was there, had a couple struggle with erections upstairs, but usually it goes fine. If she has fun and gets felt up it's a success. She's also done it solo on a couple of trips. My favorite was visiting her sister in Europe last summer. She was texting me and it was much earlier here. Some guys were giving them a lot of attention and they were enjoying it. They're both married. Wife had to play it cautiously and circle back alone once her sister thought that they'd called it a night and parted ways. "Her" guy was still there.
  2. 2 points
    Like many people, I was really mad, confused, upset and various other emotions after my divorce from first husband. He cheated often. Constantly saying it would never happen again, and of course it did. Then we separated for a bit. Once we got back together he said it wouldn't happen again. At this point he talked me into swapping a couple of times. I went along with it thinking it would help the marriage, of course it didn't. And I soon found out that he was once again screwing his secretary. So I knew divorce was looming so I went out and a brief affair with a married coworker of mine. To be honest he was a nice guy and I felt bad being the other woman. I felt really guilty one time we were on a business trip together, we had been in meetings all day and were back in his room and had a drink or two. I had removed my blouse and he had removed his pants and I was on my knees giving him oral when the room phone rang (cell phones not that common back then). It was his wife....for some reason I felt sorry for her. The affair soon ended after that. Fast forward a few months, my divorce is final and I had just moved into a apartment. Across the street from the apartment was a shopping center which was handy, because there was a grocery store there and a dry cleaners that I would use. After a couple of long weeks at work (I had attended back to back conferences) I had a weekend to myself. I had made no plans because I just wanted to rest up after the road trips. Saturday afternoon I decide to walk over and grab some things at the store. While walking down one of the aisles a man comes walking towards me. We just smile at each other, no words spoken. Well it was at that point things startled to tingle. I was now horny and realized I had made no plans to go out Saturday night or Sunday. So now I'm feeling bored and horny. As I'm walking out of the store, I noticed the guy I smiled at getting into what looked to be his work van. Not sure what came over me (maybe the new sense of self-empowerment after the divorce), I simply walked up to his van and motioned for him to roll down the window. I simply smiled and said, "Not sure if you are busy with work, but if you have time for a quick fuck I live in apartment 212 right across the street". Didn't wait for a reply, simply turned and walked towards my apartment. Needles to say my heart was beating a bit fast as I walked across the street and up the stairs to my apartment. I went into the kitchen and put the few things I bought away...and then heard a knock on the door. Now my heart rate skyrocketed. I opened the door and said something like, "I'm glad you had some time to spare." I barely gotten the words out when he had grabbed me and pulled me close to him and next thing I know our tongues are entangled and our hands are exploring each other's bodies. Once the door closed I thought we would head to the bedroom but I guess we were both so hot and horny we ended up fucking right there on the living room floor. Never made to the couch let along the bedroom. Clothes were off in a matter of seconds. We barely said a word to each other the entire time he was there....which I guess was 45 minutes or so, it seemed to go by so quickly. I was wet the moment he touched me and he went down on me instantly. Now he didn't go down for a quick lick and then expect a blowjob he stayed down there until I came, and I came hard. I returned the favor and went down on him....he fucked me from behind, me on top of him and missionary. I knew I came at least one more time. I'm sure he came but I just remember him being hard all the time lol. After my second orgasm I was out of breath and thought I was about to pass out. At that point he got up and said he had appointment he had to get to. He dressed and left, I was still nude, sweaty and hot and just laid on the floor for another half hour trying to put my thoughts together on what happened. I tried not to over analyze it, just took it for what it was. A great fuck session with a guy I never saw again.
  3. 2 points
    Keep the conversations going if you want to remain friends and continue to have fun. Many women who are new to swinging and new to women play enjoy the after talk, it reassures them that what they did is fully acceptable. The talk usually started nonsexual moving on to talking about the men. The more difficult conversation was what they seemingly wanted to talk about, women playing with women. You have additional topics to talk about, your kids and family, a special bond you started. If you continue to stay friends you will have something very few on here mention, family outings.
  4. 2 points
    I'm sure that long time members of the board are probably getting tired of hearing me say it, but here we go again... Love, trust, and communication...can't have too much of any of the three. Work on establishing as much of all three as possible, and you might just find out that your past won't hold you back as much as you think it will. The biggest issue is jealousy, but the enemy of jealous is love, trust and communication. Growing up, I was a very (insecure) jealous person. However, the open communication with Ms. Gold built a solid foundation of trust, which caused me to just love her more. Jealousy has never been a problem for either of us, because we KNOW that we are not looking for a replacement partner. I know that I'm so very lucky to have her (and she foolishly thinks that she's the lucky one to have me). The bottom line, however, is you are the only one who will know when (or if) you will ever be ready. While it is possible to dip your toes slowly into the swinging pool (be it same room sex, flirting with another couple, etc), if you aren't both ready, even that can start the beginning of fracturing a relationship. Talk with your partner, and be aware that neither of you need to rush anything...you (hopefully) will have the rest of your lives to experience this. Don't feel that you need to rush or jump into the deep end of the pool, and know that you can walk away at any time (one of our few rules...that if the other wants to stop, we are both stopping, without any explanation necessary or expected). If you stick with building the love, trust and communication, you should be okay (just make sure that you are HEARING what your partner is saying and not just hearing what you want to hear. Hope that helps some...I'm sure that more suggestions will be following soon.
  5. 1 point
    When i was in college i was sorta dating a girl and one night in a college bar my friend told me she was there with another guy and when i found her she was making out with him. Holy shit that turned me on like crazy. She saw me too and was apologetic but i told her not to worry it was fine. Somehow when she heard me say that she turned her attention back to me and we went back to her place and fucked all night. Ever since then i have encouraged every girl i dated to engage in this game - mostly unsuccessfully. As for me i'm just wired that way. It drives me wild seeing my woman flirt and make out with others and 10x moreso if they actually fuck. And from my experience the "Bar Pickup Game" drives the ladies wild as well. It's a win/win/win 😁
  6. 1 point
    We’ll do the second dinner. Maybe we’ll bond. As NC said, how bad can it be? My wife’s comment when fun dinner partners become suboptimal sex partners: “ We should have stopped at dinner.”
  7. 1 point
    I’m sure you remember being a newbie. If they’re asking for a second chance, give it to ‘em. What’s the worst that can happen … you get a nice dinner out someplace? 😉
  8. 1 point
    Well maybe the first meet was just an off night. They're new so maybe their jitters got the best of them. If you have the time and inclination then sure, why not? Nothing to lose, right?
  9. 1 point
    I think his question is not is it cheating, but when can he trust himself not to feel it is. Solid honest introspection. Do not rush. A solid, bullet proof, relationship . You should know in your gut that she will never intentionally do you wrong. Forgiveness if something should pop up, and in some fashion it will. This will most likely all be in your head. To quote from above "Love, trust, and communication...can't have too much of any of the three."
  10. 1 point
    Remember that nothing that happens while swinging constitutes cheating. You and your partner arrive together as a couple and leave together as a couple, and everything that happens in between is part of the adventure you both signed up for together. Discuss "the rules" amongst yourselves first, then discuss them again with your play partners before the action begins. Don't be too much of a stickler for the rules - it's normal for boundaries to be gently pushed but watch each other for signs of distress. Most - probably 95% - of swingers are the most patient, polite and understanding ppl you will ever meet. Like so many other "scary" things in life, once you're engaged in doing it you'll wonder what you were so scared about.
  11. 1 point
    Okay, yoou're thinking wayyyyyyyy too much. Just go and try Swinging, No matter what, no crime, no foul. Instead you're allowing it to define so many aspects of your life, past, present and future. I'm sincere here, if I read your post first, no way would I fuck you. You're expecting wayyyyy too much from the experience. just go meet some nice people and fuck. Sheesh. I'm probably just having a day here.
  12. 1 point
    Women talk more than the guys from my observation. I never laughed so hard listening to a group of women talking about the men in our group, including what they said about me, and making fun of the women in front of them. Talk about being raunchy and uncensored, the conversation was hysterical. The voyeur in me wanted to hear all the g/g talk. The best are the first time stories. Ask her what she says about you. if she is still talking to you she most likely has good things to say. I wish I was a fly on the wall listening to your conversation or share with us what you said. Keep talking.
  13. 1 point
    For us, the experience was that after 17 years of monogamy, we discussed fantasies, desires and then the possibility of opening our marriage for nearly three years. Then, suddenly, the dam broke and we first engaged in foursome swapping, followed shortly thereafter with MFM threesomes. What's the 'best' way to get into the LifeStyle? Depends on the people involved . . .
  14. 1 point
    Well it happened the opposite for me, It has brought back the spark between us and we enjoy playing and experiencing new things together
  15. 1 point
    I remember one middle years lady at our club that pretty obviously enjoyed fucking and who would soak the sheets. A lot of the fun with her was helping change the sheets, she was such a gem!
  16. 1 point
    Our poly family formed out of a combination of genuine social/ romantic interest and sex for its own sake, particularly me setting up my husband with my female friends and acquaintances just for our mutual three-way sexual pleasure. Our little bit of swinging outside the family has also been long-term and carried along by social interactions. All of this just to say that with the right people, sex can improve social interactions and social relationships can improve sex.
  17. 1 point
    Because my wife has never played the bar pickup game, the rest of the survey is moot, so I stand mute.
  18. 1 point
    We enjoy this game 😃 Weirdest time was when we played it in a bar in Santa Fe NM. A guy with a big cowboy hat approached my wife. It seemed to be going well until she waved me over to introduce me. I could see by his face it wasn't going to go well. He loudly berated us both as "sick" and stormed out. You could hear a pin drop and all eyes were on us lol
  19. 1 point
    It was just after 7 a.m. this morning when the phone rang, and I answered it to find that our friend Bob was at the airport. He just flew in from Atlanta and had a day free before his meeting and wanted to know if he could spend it with Cheryl and me. "Of course," I said, and asked what time he would arrive at our house. He said that he was getting a cab and would be here within 45 minutes. I woke Cheryl and told her the good news, but suggested that we get up, make the bed, and take a shower so that we would have breakfast ready when he arrived. Cheryl said, "Let's not make the bed because if he is as horny as he was last time, we will just have to do it all over again anyway." She smiled that special smile, and I knew what she was thinking. We showered together, and even though I tried to spice things up in the shower, she wasn't having any part of it. "We'll have plenty of time for that later if things work out as I think," she said. As we were just sitting down to breakfast, the doorbell rang, and Bob was standing there with his overnight bag in hand. After hugs all around we invited him in to have breakfast with us. He was happy for that as he had only had orange juice on his flight. Both Cheryl and I were in our bathrobes as we wanted to be ready for the action sure to follow, and Bob didn't disappoint us. After we had eaten, he said that he wanted to get right to the point. We laughed at this, thinking that he was ready to screw Cheryl before the dishes were done. "No," he said, "I mean I wanted to tell you that instead of having a meeting tomorrow, it is actually not until next Monday, so if you agree, I have the whole weekend to spend with you two." This was excellent news for Cheryl as she loves to have sex with both of us and frequently at the same time. This would allow her to rest a little between sessions of getting her pussy filled with what she so dearly loves, hard cock, the bigger the better. "In that case, we better go get dressed," I said as we thought our time schedule would be tight. Then Cheryl and I headed off to the bedroom to get dressed when suddenly Bob appeared right behind us. "Hey, there's no need to rush getting dressed," he said. "Let's just have a quickie here on the bed now and then you two can get dressed after that." Bob was obviously very horny as he dropped his pants and his 10" dick popped out straight in front. Cheryl as always could hardly keep her eyes off of it and was ready, willing, and almost able. She dropped her robe and got some KY jelly out of the dresser drawer. "I better use some of this," she said, "so I won't be so sore for the next day or two." I said that I would just watch as I had some last night and didn't mind Bob getting his first. Cheryl laid down on our bed with her legs drawn up and with her spread pussy on full display, slowly inserted the KY jelly into her vagina until she was good and greasy as well as wet from excitement. Bob now had his clothes off, and he was climbing up on the bed with his dick in his hand, spreading Cheryl open even wider. When the tip of his dick probed Cheryl's vulva, I could see that it had been a long time for him as he was hard as a rock and as big around as a beer can. Cheryl was spreading her pussy lips with her fingers to try to take the head of that monster cock that looked like it could split her in half, and even with the lube it was going to be a chore. Since Bob was patient, he slowed down and rolled his penis around and around her hole until the head was just barely in. I could see the ecstasy on Cheryl's face. He then slid the rest of his tool in until his balls were banging on her ass and she was screaming for more! I climbed up on the bed next to them and began to suck on Cheryl's tits so that I could be a part of this excitement as well. After a few minutes, Bob suggested that Cheryl turn over so that he could fuck her doggy style and get in a little deeper. I didn't see how that was possible, so I moved out of the way and just sat in a chair watching them and masturbating to their rhythm. Now Bob had so much dick in her pussy that his pubes were tickling the tight rosebud of her asshole. He was pumping so fast in and out that Cheryl finally grabbed the headboard to keep from collapsing from the unrelenting assault on her sex and screamed out, "I'm cumming, try and cum with me!!" Bob was happy to oblige, and he fucked her even faster until she was barely able to hold on to the headboard. Then he pulled it out and came all over her back. It was a sight to see, great gobs of thick white cum splashed across Cheryl's smooth back. Naturally, we don't use condoms, so now we had to change the sheets, and Cheryl and Bob took a shower together while I made the bed. When they were out of the shower, all three of us jumped into our pool and swam naked for about an hour, and then it was my turn. This time Cheryl and I decided to screw on the family room floor, and when I slipped my average size penis into her vagina, it felt like there were no sides or bottom as it was still so stretched out. That was okay though, as we fucked missionary style on our sides with Bob watching. Now Bob wanted his dick sucked while we fucked doggy style. Cheryl had never done that for Bob before, and as I watched I swore she could never get that thing in her mouth and I was right! Only the head of the tool went into her mouth, and it was all she could do to breathe. I shot my load just watching and this allowed Bob and Cheryl to go at it again. Her pussy was going to be so stretched out by noon, but she wasn't complaining! This time Bob had her over the back of the couch and was pounding away when our next door neighbor came in! CheryI's takes over the story - I was bent over and taking Bob's big dick when our next door neighbor Jill walked in on us. "Didn't you hear the doorbell?" she said, "I knew you were home, so I called out and then walked in. Now I can see why you didn't hear me!" Jill is a little younger than us and has an older husband. She is always talking about the hot sex she and her husband have even on the floor. We always thought she was just bragging and didn't think too much of it, but here she was standing in our family room watching me take an enormous dick and enjoying every minute of it as well. Jerry was busy trying to get his pants on, and Jill just stood there with her mouth open. A couple of minutes later, she was begging to get into the action. First, she wanted Jerry so she could warm up to Bob's big dick, although she couldn't see much more than 6 or 7 inches of it as he pulled it out and rammed it back in again. Jill tore off her top and bra then her skirt, and we saw she didn't have any panties on. Her snatch was smooth and hairless, and you could just see the first glistening of girl cum in her slit as her pussy began to drool, lubricating itself for cock. With that, Jerry removed his pants again and laid down on the floor saying, "Okay Jill, now I'm ready for some of that stuff you do with your husband on the floor." Jill walked over and slowly slid herself down to the top of Jerry's hard prick and began to move in circles as she teased him with her hot pussy and warmed herself up at the same time. In a minute or so, I watched Jerry rise up and pull Jill down on his dick and the red tool slowly slide home. Jill was ecstatic and couldn't get enough. They continued to fuck with Jill on top until Jerry couldn't hold it anymore and he let fly a load of semen that was leaking out of Jill's snatch. I so badly wanted to lick up that mixture of their sex, but I wasn't sure if Jill was into letting other women near her pussy, so I held myself back. Jerry ran to get a towel to wipe her up before it stained our new carpet and found Jill fondling Bob's balls when he got back. Now, Jill was hot and ready to take on a super big dick and asked, "can he share now with me?" I, of course, said yes even though I hated to have him take his rod out of my pussy even for a minute. Jerry came over and began to masturbate me first with two fingers, then three, and finally four. Wow, I was really stretched out! As Jerry pounded my hungry pussy with four fingers, I was watching Jill try to take Bob's dick without much luck. She was on her back, then on her side, and finally on her hands and knees when Bob popped her pussy door and slid that monster inside. Jerry and I felt a little left out although he had just cum and I could feel an orgasm coming on from his fingers. As I got my rocks off on Jerry's hand, we both turned to watch our sexy neighbor get drilled by Bob. Bob has such stamina that even though he had cum already at least once he was now going for broke in Jill's hot little snatch. He kept pulling it out and sliding it back in so that we could see how deep he was going until it just got too good and he had to let it fly. So we could see the volume of cum shooting out of his massive dick, he pulled out and shot all over Jill's back. It was good that Jerry had a towel ready as it was all over her and the floor as well. Jill said she had forgotten what she had come over for and suggested that we all jump in the pool together to rinse off as we were all a bit of a mess. We splashed around in the pool for a while until I wanted Bob's cock again to finish what we had started and he obliged by taking me on a chaise lounge by the pool while Jill sucked Jerry's cock and then he ate her pussy. This went on until early afternoon, and then Jill had to get back home before her husband came home, so we called it a day. Bob stayed another couple of days, and we had lots more threesomes and sure hated to see him have to go back to Atlanta.
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